I'm not sure but a couple I know are going through a less than amicable divorce and this involves pensions. They went to arbitration which seems to have done the trick (so no need for court) I assume it is much cheaper. May be worth exploring this avenue.

In my experience,most solicitors should be able to ascertain value of any pension fund which generally is split 50/50 in line with other assets or adjusted if one of the parties wishes to retain any matrimonial home.

My experience was that, when my then wife wanted a share of my pension fund, my solicitor required me to get a valuation from the pension fund administrator, who in turn charged me an admin fee of £1025 for the privilege!

As my pension was somewhat important to me being already in payment, I was able to negotiate a financial settlement with my then wife in which I was able to retain my entire pension in return for a slightly different split of other assets. My position was helped by pointed remarks by the judge during the preliminary hearing in respect of my wife's greed, laziness (the judge effectively told her to go and get a job based on her previous work experience) and misrepresentation of our respective financial positions which was rumbled by the judge.

Plenty of scope for negotiation in my view. In response to the original question, I did cover all court and legal costs for both of us as part of the deal.

As a counsellor I help many people with divorces
As has been said above the facts vary so much I would always advise go for arbitration or mediation if you can it will not just save you money but may be less stressful for both parties.

If you do go down the legal route please get in writing the fees charged and ‘ballpark costs involved’ some firms provide a first consultation for free or reduced cost.

I really hope it goes well for your friend as it’s a very harrowing time

Coyp

Divorce advice ? Never get married.

Kayla did Anfield & Old Trafford

Yes, it certainly arrived quickly enough once the fee was received!