This has no simple solutions. Aid is being stopped to the Palestinian civilians in case it fuels Hammas war efforts. Meanwhile largely indiscriminate action is also killing or injuring civilians who are unable to avoid combat areas.
Unlike Yemen or Ukraine, the media are still able to report from close to combat areas. That is what makes the plight of Civilians that much tougher to watch.

I disengage, I turn the page.

I don’t agree that civilians death in the tens of thousands is anything like the least worst option.

You seem to be asking everyone but Israel to share responsibility.

Even the far-left Guardian has reported on Israel dropping leaflets into southern Gaza telling Palestinian civilians to leave four towns on the eastern edge of Khan Younis.

They also use "knock on the roof" a term used by the Israel Defense Forces to describe its practice of dropping non-explosive or low-yield devices on the roofs of targeted homes that are thought to house terrorists in the Palestinian territories as a prior warning of imminent bombing attacks to give the inhabitants time to evacuate.

As has been the plan all along.

Probably because the IDF have killed tens of thousands and Hamas have killed a couple of hundred.

I find the killing of innocents on either side abhorrent’.

Hamas killed at least 1,200, not 'a couple of hundred', in their October attack and injured and traumatised others. Hamas deliberately targeted the most vulnerable, babies, children, pregnant women, old people. They killed, tortured and raped with as much cruelty as they could. They took hostages of young children and old people. They paraded naked corpses through their streets while the Palestinian civilians spat on the bodies and cheered. They are beneath contempt - yet you support them.