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 johnfirewall  31 Oct 17 9.49pm |
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Originally posted by rikz
I'd say it's pretty subjective to whether the woman finds the guy attractive or not. Let's take catcalling for example and do a quick social experiment. First let's send an unattractive guy around in an old 106, pulling over to random women and shouting random compliments at them, then we will send an attractive guy around in a brand new Ferrari 360 and have him do the same. Both the same crime and both harrasment in the eyes of UK law. Are you honestly telling me that both guys will get the same response from women ? A mate admitted the other day she had to stop and reconsider her abusive retort she turned round to see the fit builder who had shouted at her. She actually stated that she contemplated how she might approach getting his number but I'm guessing courage or feminism got the better of her.
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 Hrolf The Ganger 31 Oct 17 10.10pm |
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Originally posted by nickgusset
It is, and there's a difference between being in the workplace and out on the lash. If someone says no, to whatever, it should be respected. So speaketh the oracle of morality.
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tome  Inner Tantalus Time. 31 Oct 17 10.19pm |
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Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger
So speaketh the oracle of morality.
Do you know women who have been assaulted? Had any awkward moments yourself?
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| Hrolf The Ganger 31 Oct 17 10.24pm |
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Originally posted by tome
Do you know women who have been assaulted? Had any awkward moments yourself? I think the majority of women have probably had an experience of that nature at some point. I never have, thanks for asking.
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| rikz Croydon 31 Oct 17 10.27pm |
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A lot is entirely down to nature and how we're programmed, we're programmed differently. Women get called gold diggers when in actual fact it's the traits of a successful man they actually find attractive, ambition, drive, talent, intelligence. Men we're stupid, we go for looks, a good looking woman smiles and flutters her eyelashes at you and that's it we are sucked in. Men who excel in these traits will be successful and will abuse that power, women who are blessed with looks will also abuse that. Women trully hold the power, everything a man does is with the intention of attracting the opposite sex, take women out the equation and the world would end tomorrow, men would get bored and fight untill we wipe each other out. Take men out the equation and life would go on.
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| tome Inner Tantalus Time. 31 Oct 17 10.31pm |
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Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger
I think the majority of women have probably had an experience of that nature at some point. I never have, thanks for asking. Yeah, the interesting thing is how invisible it seems to have been. Have you ever found yourself wanting to confront some bloke being a dingbat to a woman? What do you reckon men could do to reduce the extent to which it happens?
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| johnfirewall 31 Oct 17 10.35pm |
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Originally posted by tome
Yeah, the interesting thing is how invisible it seems to have been. Have you ever found yourself wanting to confront some bloke being a dingbat to a woman? What do you reckon men could do to reduce the extent to which it happens? Yes. Among others, I pulled a cabbie up on sexist remarks that I knew would offend my ex but it's really not the sort of thing I encounter often. Most women I know would hit a bloke for anything of this nature. I still feel like anyone telling a women she's out of line in this respect would be laughed off. I'd go as far as to say that many a feminist would be of the opinion that a man would be a pussy if complaining and should man-up, just in more acceptable terms that tellingly aren't as common. Maybe it's me but I can't imagine a feminist with a really sensitive bloke. Edited by johnfirewall (31 Oct 2017 10.41pm)
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| rikz Croydon 31 Oct 17 10.39pm |
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And most of the issues we see surrounding sex today seem to be pushed out by the feminist agenda, who surprise surprise are made up of a huge majority of women who are not in a position to abuse the power of attraction. Most men naturally want to protect women, most woman naturally want to be protected by men. We're attracted to them and they're attracted to us. Trust me the dynamics between a male and female will never change.
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| Hrolf The Ganger 31 Oct 17 10.57pm |
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Originally posted by tome
Yeah, the interesting thing is how invisible it seems to have been. Have you ever found yourself wanting to confront some bloke being a dingbat to a woman? What do you reckon men could do to reduce the extent to which it happens? It's hard to understand the thinking behind sexually assaulting a woman. You need to ask a psychologist.
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| Stirlingsays 31 Oct 17 11.08pm |
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Originally posted by rikz
And most of the issues we see surrounding sex today seem to be pushed out by the feminist agenda, who surprise surprise are made up of a huge majority of women who are not in a position to abuse the power of attraction. Most men naturally want to protect women, most woman naturally want to be protected by men. We're attracted to them and they're attracted to us. Trust me the dynamics between a male and female will never change. Well, what you describe is definitely the most common relationship dynamic for sure. However, you also get the reverse, where the woman wears the trousers and you have the beta male. Then you get the so called 'equal' relationship which is just a toned down version of the same equation. Then you get the feminist.....who probably is the most likely to be single of all types, though for the ones who dislike men that's probably a blessing for both. And of course you get the males who...for whatever fecked up reason hate or dislike women....Not good. Edited by Stirlingsays (31 Oct 2017 11.11pm)
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| Stirlingsays 31 Oct 17 11.15pm |
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Any man who hits a woman needs to be hit harder by a bloke...Sure some women are just as bad...walk away or push them away.....Outside of saving a life or your own there is little excuse.
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| rikz Croydon 31 Oct 17 11.19pm |
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Originally posted by Stirlingsays
Well, what you describe is definitely the most common relationship dynamic for sure. However, you also get the reverse, where the woman wears the trousers and you have the beta male. Then you get the feminist.....who probably is the most likely to be single of all types, though for the ones who dislike men that's probably a blessing for both. And of course you get the males who...for whatever fecked up reason hate or dislike women....Not good. Edited by Stirlingsays (31 Oct 2017 11.11pm) These for me are worse than men who abuse their power to sleep with women, they hold no traits that the majority of women would be attracted to. So they have to befriend women, pretend to accept and agree with everything they do and say, just to get in their knickers. Such a sneaky tactic but I suppose a guys got to do what a guys got to do. I still detest them.
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