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Stuk Flag Top half 17 Mar 16 4.56pm Send a Private Message to Stuk Add Stuk as a friend

Originally posted by jamiemartin721

I don't think its an opinion that there are transgendered, gay, lesbian and intersex people, its a fact of life. I don't think it necessary that there is too much detail, just that when you learn about men and women, you learn that sometimes, a man is born as a woman and vice versa, or as both.

Just like as some men love women, some men love men and some women love women.

We teach them about men and women, mums and dads all the time.

Innocence is just nice word for lying about the world to children. Something adults seem to be exceptionally keen on. Its not protecting them at all. It deceiving them.

Sometimes you really need to read posts more carefully. The "opinion" comment was that kids should learn about it at that age, not that trans and gay people exist ffs!

And you're doing it again. No one's being deceived and no one should decide that they "should be" taught that at that age, not you and not the head. There's no need whatsoever, no matter what idealogical waffle of an answer you want to reply with.

Secondary school is the place for it, not primary.

Edited by Stuk (17 Mar 2016 4.57pm)

 


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palace_in_frogland Flag In a broken dream 17 Mar 16 7.30pm Send a Private Message to palace_in_frogland Add palace_in_frogland as a friend

To be fair, some of these gender changes turn out OK.

Look at that Frank Maloney, he's lovely.

 

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Yellow Card - User has been warned of conduct on the messageboards grumpymort Flag US/Thailand/UK 17 Mar 16 11.30pm Send a Private Message to grumpymort Add grumpymort as a friend

Why does everyone have to be in these set groups just let people get on with life if a women is trapped in a mans body then they can alter or do what they want to become what they like.

Humans are always looking to seperate people and then they judge them this is why we have all these problems rather then intergrate everyone and just accept we like to put them in groups.

When I was a child I grew up with different ethnic and raced people but never even thought of them different to me they was what ever there name was that was it i would go to there parties hang out with them but now people are seperated and judged.

One of these friends used to wear girls clothing and play with girly toys but was always told off for it none of friends cared 30 years later I bumped into her they had full sex change good for them if that made them happy which they appeared to be and by the way I didn't even notice she looked like any other women.

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jamiemartin721 Flag Reading 18 Mar 16 4.19pm

Originally posted by Stuk

Sometimes you really need to read posts more carefully. The "opinion" comment was that kids should learn about it at that age, not that trans and gay people exist ffs!

And you're doing it again. No one's being deceived and no one should decide that they "should be" taught that at that age, not you and not the head. There's no need whatsoever, no matter what idealogical waffle of an answer you want to reply with.

Secondary school is the place for it, not primary.

Edited by Stuk (17 Mar 2016 4.57pm)

With reflection, I think that's probably about right.

 


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I predict it will soon be a more managable acronym when they drop the G due to homosexual males no longer needing representation as an oppressed minority.

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Stirlingsays Flag 29 Mar 16 1.58pm Send a Private Message to Stirlingsays Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add Stirlingsays as a friend

Being not your typical lefty teacher at secondary school I often get a little pissed off with the assumptions that other teachers make about what students to be encouraged to believe in.

They don't want independent thinkers what they want are conventional liberalised thinkers. I feel the emphasis is well intended but wrong.

Teachers teach equality but few actually practice in within their self interested lives. Also the teaching of equality as being 'right' is dubious because equality doesn't exist anywhere in the natural or most of the commercial world or relationships.

They teach sexual equality and gender equality, which as a parent I'd also be a bit pissed off about. These are highly sociopolitical concepts.

I don't like social engineering within the secondary school system or at least feel it should be light touch....It's really a job for parents not teachers.

But feck it....it isn't going to change and if you can't beat them, join them, so recently I'm been considering doing my own social engineering with my classes.


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jamiemartin721 Flag Reading 29 Mar 16 2.34pm

Originally posted by Stirlingsays

Being not your typical lefty teacher at secondary school I often get a little pissed off with the assumptions that other teachers make about what students to be encouraged to believe in.

They don't want independent thinkers what they want are conventional liberalised thinkers. I feel the emphasis is well intended but wrong.

Teachers teach equality but few actually practice in within their self interested lives. Also the teaching of equality as being 'right' is dubious because equality doesn't exist anywhere in the natural or most of the commercial world or relationships.

They teach sexual equality and gender equality, which as a parent I'd also be a bit pissed off about. These are highly sociopolitical concepts.

I don't like social engineering within the secondary school system or at least feel it should be light touch....It's really a job for parents not teachers.

But feck it....it isn't going to change and if you can't beat them, join them, so recently I'm been considering doing my own social engineering with my classes.


Edited by Stirlingsays (29 Mar 2016 2.01pm)

Equality is unachievable, its an ideal and a hypothetical concept. However, the concept of equality does underpin a basic rule of human society - and that has been the desire of people to collectively obtain rights denied them by others. Ethically, its hard to deny the idea that people should defended inequality. The pursuit of equality is really the pursuit of social justice and freedom to decide for ones self, rather than have decisions made.

As for social engineering, its ever present, in all things. Its just that some social engineering is accepted as being 'the norm' or natural, whilst other forms of engineering are aimed at changing what is considered the norm or natural. Education in schools is the embodiment of the idea of social engineering - and it always has been.

Its interesting when you hear some of the complaints of the intersex, who object to the decisions their parents made on their behalf, to determine their gender. Its very valid, who are we to actually decide whether someone who is born intersex takes on the characteristics of 'male' or 'female'. I understand why parents do it, and probably think very little of it, but should it be their decision to make?

Why do we feel the need, in cases where children are intersex to make a decision that medically isn't necessary.

 


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Stirlingsays Flag 29 Mar 16 3.41pm Send a Private Message to Stirlingsays Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add Stirlingsays as a friend

Originally posted by jamiemartin721

Equality is unachievable, its an ideal and a hypothetical concept. However, the concept of equality does underpin a basic rule of human society - and that has been the desire of people to collectively obtain rights denied them by others. Ethically, its hard to deny the idea that people should defended inequality. The pursuit of equality is really the pursuit of social justice and freedom to decide for ones self, rather than have decisions made.

As for social engineering, its ever present, in all things. Its just that some social engineering is accepted as being 'the norm' or natural, whilst other forms of engineering are aimed at changing what is considered the norm or natural. Education in schools is the embodiment of the idea of social engineering - and it always has been.

Its interesting when you hear some of the complaints of the intersex, who object to the decisions their parents made on their behalf, to determine their gender. Its very valid, who are we to actually decide whether someone who is born intersex takes on the characteristics of 'male' or 'female'. I understand why parents do it, and probably think very little of it, but should it be their decision to make?

Why do we feel the need, in cases where children are intersex to make a decision that medically isn't necessary.

Equality is achievable as a concept if you have control over the system you apply it to. For example, equal pay for tennis players independent of gender despite the gender realities and expectations being different for both genders. So, in effect, equality being applied to an unequal system - men play five sets and women three - men attract more gate money yet their pay doesn't reflect it. Sometimes equality is ideological and unfair.

I don't defend equality as a 'correct' concept without defining factors. I regard it as a concept that has a limited but important usage within the areas it can be applied sensibly......unfortunately that approach isn't in current fashion within teaching....despite being the real world approach adopted within the majority of the commercial world and say human interactions.

Also I say again equality doesn't exist within the natural world and while I'm not averse to modifying nature to suit our own purposes...eg medicines and many other examples I do feel that it has to defend and prove its application without blindly being applied without consideration of rational opposition.

Men's children access rights, the law's attitude to rape and divorce, Women in military front lines, homosexual marriage within churches, the MOBOs identifying race as an originator of a music style....organizations that include a race within the title......All of these are examples where equality may or may not have a place within application.

Obviously equality has its place in the adoption of 'real world' human rights....But sometimes I feel this has been abused...like the word, 'assault' legally meaning practically anything.

Essentially, while I do value equality in many areas....to list them would lengthen this post significantly but to encapsulate I essentially believe that equality doesn't have a divine right to be adopted for everything and that it's a concept like any other that has to prove itself in every case it's applied.

School should push.....think independently....regard each situation on its factors....Defend your position rationally.

Instead when it comes to equality it's all......'Equality is good', smiley face.....It gets on my nerves.

Edited by Stirlingsays (29 Mar 2016 3.44pm)

 


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jamiemartin721 Flag Reading 29 Mar 16 3.57pm

I agree, to an extent, equality is something that must be earned, rather than just given. I don't think you can simply state that x is equal to y. X must demonstrate its right to be regarded as equal, otherwise you end up in a nightmare of trying to catagorise and legislate unnecessarily.

The law should reflect these rights and social justices only as they apply to the law. The equal pay act for example, makes sense, because it addresses a fundermental unfairness in society based on gender of all people.

Situations where 'mens tennis pays more' is driven by wider social dynamics, and its down to those involved in the sport to push the envelope and sporting body towards that ideal - not for the stage to step in and demand it. Here in the situation applies only to a small subset of gender, and factors such as commercial demand, popularity, sponsorship etc factor into the equation - Notably as well some women tennis players earn more than some men and the job they do is different.

I know that sounds a bit 'washy' but I think there is difference between the Equal Pay act and payments in sporting competitions.

I'd like to see a situation where women's football is as popular as men's football.

 


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Stirlingsays Flag 29 Mar 16 4.13pm Send a Private Message to Stirlingsays Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add Stirlingsays as a friend

Originally posted by jamiemartin721

I agree, to an extent, equality is something that must be earned, rather than just given. I don't think you can simply state that x is equal to y. X must demonstrate its right to be regarded as equal, otherwise you end up in a nightmare of trying to catagorise and legislate unnecessarily.

The law should reflect these rights and social justices only as they apply to the law. The equal pay act for example, makes sense, because it addresses a fundermental unfairness in society based on gender of all people.

Situations where 'mens tennis pays more' is driven by wider social dynamics, and its down to those involved in the sport to push the envelope and sporting body towards that ideal - not for the stage to step in and demand it. Here in the situation applies only to a small subset of gender, and factors such as commercial demand, popularity, sponsorship etc factor into the equation - Notably as well some women tennis players earn more than some men and the job they do is different.

I know that sounds a bit 'washy' but I think there is difference between the Equal Pay act and payments in sporting competitions.

I'd like to see a situation where women's football is as popular as men's football.

I don't think it's important that women's football is as popular as men's. I think women's football has a right to promote itself and that the public has a right to respond to the promotion. The balance of pay should reflect the interest gathered.

It shouldn't be about the gender or changing social attitudes within society.

The highest paid fighters in MMA (mixed martial arts) are women and that's fine and dandy. What they sell attracts the punters and the pay reflects that. I don't see male MMA stars moaning about it and nor should they.

The pay you earn should reflect the value you give to the person or organization paying you. Your gender is a sub note. If it helps you, great, if it doesn't tough cheese...chose another profession if you don't like it.

 


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jamiemartin721 Flag Reading 29 Mar 16 4.23pm

Originally posted by Stirlingsays

I don't think it's important that women's football is as popular as men's. I think women's football has a right to promote itself and that the public has a right to respond to the promotion. The balance of pay should reflect the interest gathered.

Me neither, I'd just like that to be the case, not that it should be. Women's football has come a long way in the last 10 years, and increasingly garnering fans and supporters (and income).

Originally posted by Stirlingsays
It shouldn't be about the gender or changing social attitudes within society.

I don't think the two are ever separate, the rise in female rights and the rise of female empowerment / feminist movements and changes in attitude in society are so closely entwined as to be inseparable.

Originally posted by Stirlingsays
The highest paid fighters in MMA (mixed martial arts) are women and that's fine and dandy. What they sell attracts the punters and the pay reflects that. I don't see male MMA stars moaning about it and nor should they.

Quite agree, the sports and demographics are very different - and notably they're gender separated. Now if a woman entered the mens MMA and became champion, I wouldn't want to see her paid less for doing so.

Originally posted by Stirlingsays
The pay you earn should reflect the value you give to the person or organization paying you. Your gender is a sub note. If it helps you, great, if it doesn't tough cheese...chose another profession if you don't like it.

It should, but it doesn't.

I don't think its acceptable to pay someone less to do the same job because of their gender, sexual orientation / race etc. And by less, I mean a different pay grade (obviously you have to factor in for individual experience, the person I replace may well be paid less than me, or more for non-gender reasons).

 


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