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Hrolf The Ganger 12 Dec 18 9.45am | |
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Originally posted by Tawny
But you will anyway. Nope. And I also think that the football thread is not the place to squabble Nick so adios.
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DanH SW2 12 Dec 18 9.47am | |
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Originally posted by Stirlingsays
Yes, explain why there is a hierarchy in your mind. Notice, how you use the word 'abuse' for one and not the other.
Because one is a playground insult and one is deep rooted in historical persecution, white privilege and superiority. Do you have any more stupid questions before I get on with some work?
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Stirlingsays 12 Dec 18 9.48am | |
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Originally posted by Tawny
Because of the weight it holds in society. Calling someone a wally is a bit different from going up to someone and telling them that their Mum is a c*** or that they look like a pedo. These are all just abuse and insults, but not all insults are identical because they each carry pieces of how we view ourselves as a society within them. The 'weight' given within society is arbitrary, changes in time, which proves the point I'm making. The culture you are currently living in made these judgements and those judgements will change with the generations again....deepen or lessen. My point is that the hierarchy you give them changes in time and isn't set. People have killed themselves over all forms of abuse....You agree with marking out some forms as more important than others, I don't neccessily agree with that. What I would say matters is intensity. What is as true of your beliefs as it is for anyones. These are matters entirely built upon perception....which is why they are dangerous when abused within society in terms of people's freedoms.....and I'm getting the idea within this thread that some on the left wish to create a 'protected' class of footballer based upon their skin colour. Originally posted by Tawny
You are simply looking for reasons why a man screaming "black c*unt" at a player a football match doesn't matter that much on account that you're a man perpetually on the run from the black boys on the council estate, viewing anyone different as someone who inherently deserves a lack of compassion because you yourself clearly feel that you didn't receive it. Ironically instead of appreciating the "minority experience" you had, you've just cowered into a majority "my kids, my country" stance which ironically is the same stance that those black kids had, a "might is right". Abused becomes abuser. Others aren't responsible for your own hangups and going down some kind of genetics route or arguing as to why you think "black c*unt" is no different from calling someone a tosspot is a reflection of your own burnt out values rather than what should or should not be acceptable at a game. Change the record. This pseudo analysis based on titbits of information I've freely given on this site is becoming amusing.....Do you do horoscopes as well? You don't know what you're talking about and I have little doubt that if I were black and had recounted something like this your attitude would be different. How you think you can make these statements on my motivations without knowing me is a sign of your hubris. Originally posted by Tawny
You think I go down the 'genetics route' because of my childhood. I didn't even have these views ten years ago. Hell, I didn't even have them when I started on this website. You were asked a question and after a reasonable first paragraph just went off the rails.
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Mapletree Croydon 12 Dec 18 9.49am | |
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Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger
I'm not inclined to respond to your posts now. You might have a snowflake meltdown. I know how sensitive you can get when it suits you. I appreciate very much your thoughtfulness. In fact, I really do. Although I really hate the use of the word snowflake. But feel free to respond to me - and disagree with me - in such a way that we can continue the debate. Edited by Mapletree (12 Dec 2018 9.58am)
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Hrolf The Ganger 12 Dec 18 9.55am | |
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Originally posted by DanH
Because one is a playground insult and one is deep rooted in historical persecution, white privilege and superiority. Do you have any more stupid questions before I get on with some work? I agree with you on one level but Raheem Stirling has never been anywhere near any of that. He is rich and privileged. So this is about others being outraged on his behalf. It is also about identity politics and the suffocating propaganda of the liberal media. That tends to diminish one's sympathy even where sympathy is deserved.
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Tawny Croydon 12 Dec 18 9.56am | |
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Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger
I'm sure poor Raheem can console himself by buying another car or something but in the end, a handful of boozed up failures have shouted abuse at a football match. That is not worth a week of coverage on TV in the wider context of what is going on in the world. Whole families attend games nowadays, I take my two. For some that's a step back but it is what it is. Football has cleaned up its act over the years and in the circles I move at least shouting out "black c*unt* to someone is unheard of in this day and age. With that in mind it's most certainly news that with recent happenings at games and bananas on pitches it's something of a step back. These disgusting acts only all but disappeared in the first place because they were highlighted for what they are ad shunned by society. That is being reaffirmed again by being placed front and centre in the news. In a few days you won't even hear a mention of this incident, but if it stops the average drunk racist from opening his mouth then it will have been good for the game and also for them.
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Stirlingsays 12 Dec 18 9.56am | |
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Originally posted by DanH
Because one is a playground insult and one is deep rooted in historical persecution, white privilege and superiority. Do you have any more stupid questions before I get on with some work? Guy working in the tax office believes in 'white privilege and superiority'.....Priceless, simply priceless. As for historical persecution.....Do we get to pick? Why gets the right to treat people today based upon arbitrary views of the past? Your great grandad did something bad to my great grandad.....Oh feel bad about it....real bad.....Bad bad Grandad.
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Tawny Croydon 12 Dec 18 9.58am | |
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Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger
Nope. And I also think that the football thread is not the place to squabble Nick so adios. I don't believe you. You'll be back here replying to my message with gusto. Colour chart in one hand, framed photo of Gussett in the other.
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Hrolf The Ganger 12 Dec 18 10.08am | |
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Originally posted by Tawny
Whole families attend games nowadays, I take my two. For some that's a step back but it is what it is. Football has cleaned up its act over the years and in the circles I move at least shouting out "black c*unt* to someone is unheard of in this day and age. With that in mind it's most certainly news that with recent happenings at games and bananas on pitches it's something of a step back. These disgusting acts only all but disappeared in the first place because they were highlighted for what they are ad shunned by society. That is being reaffirmed again by being placed front and centre in the news. In a few days you won't even hear a mention of this incident, but if it stops the average drunk racist from opening his mouth then it will have been good for the game and also for them. Ah! back to debate. If we are talking about the wider issue of public behaviour, then I totally agree that loutish, drunken, ignorant actions in public are totally unacceptable. Personally, I can't believe that anyone still racially abuses someone at a football match. That is just pathetic as much as anything.
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Mapletree Croydon 12 Dec 18 10.11am | |
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Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger
I agree with you on one level but Raheem Stirling has never been anywhere near any of that. He is rich and privileged. So this is about others being outraged on his behalf. It is also about identity politics and the suffocating propaganda of the liberal media. That tends to diminish one's sympathy even where sympathy is deserved. I assume you haven't read his history then. He may be rich and privileged now but to say he has never been anywhere near the seamy end of life is risible. “When I was two years old, my father was murdered. That shaped my entire life. Not long after that, my mum made the decision to leave me and my sister in Jamaica and go to England so she could get her degree and give us a better life. For a few years, we lived with our grandmother in Kingston, and I remember watching the other kids with their mums and just feeling really jealous. I didn’t fully understand what my mum was doing for us. I just knew that she was gone. My grandma was amazing, but everybody wants their mum at that age. “My mum was working as a cleaner at some hotels to make extra money so she could pay for her degree. I’ll never forget waking up at five in the morning before school and helping her clean the toilets at the hotel in Stonebridge. I’d be arguing with my sister, like, ‘No! No! You got the toilets this time. I got the bed sheets.’
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Hrolf The Ganger 12 Dec 18 10.23am | |
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Originally posted by Mapletree
I assume you haven't read his history then. He may be rich and privileged now but to say he has never been anywhere near the seamy end of life is risible. “When I was two years old, my father was murdered. That shaped my entire life. Not long after that, my mum made the decision to leave me and my sister in Jamaica and go to England so she could get her degree and give us a better life. For a few years, we lived with our grandmother in Kingston, and I remember watching the other kids with their mums and just feeling really jealous. I didn’t fully understand what my mum was doing for us. I just knew that she was gone. My grandma was amazing, but everybody wants their mum at that age. “My mum was working as a cleaner at some hotels to make extra money so she could pay for her degree. I’ll never forget waking up at five in the morning before school and helping her clean the toilets at the hotel in Stonebridge. I’d be arguing with my sister, like, ‘No! No! You got the toilets this time. I got the bed sheets.’ I understand that people become damaged by their life experiences and are therefore more sensitive to abuse. I can tell you that my life growing up was hardly normal and sometimes it was tough but that gave me lots of extra skin to deflect adversity. I am stronger for my life experiences. In life, you either stand up to adversity or it does you in. Life is never fair.
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Tawny Croydon 12 Dec 18 10.35am | |
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Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger
Ah! back to debate. If we are talking about the wider issue of public behaviour, then I totally agree that loutish, drunken, ignorant actions in public are totally unacceptable. Personally, I can't believe that anyone still racially abuses someone at a football match. That is just pathetic as much as anything. Yes there is a shock factor in that most thought these scenes were a thing of the past. I agree that it's a few idiots putting on a macho act and trying to impress their mates. Combined with drink and unplatable views it has resulted in this sad public spectacle. Along the lines of what you say, those spouting this kind of stuff at footballers are using football as therapy, when they'd be better off taking these two aspects of life on board but separately.
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