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 Forest Hillbilly  in a hidey-hole 31 Oct 17 7.46pm |
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Originally posted by nickgusset
Elgrande is alright by you if I respond to Stirling or should I have put this reply in the Weinstein thread? all of them. Madonna, Voorderman, etc, etc. Name women that don't use sex as a weapon ?
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Stirlingsays  31 Oct 17 7.47pm |
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Originally posted by nickgusset
You seem to infer it's quite common. Elgrande is alright by you if I respond to Stirling or should I have put this reply in the Weinstein thread? I was in the pub game and a bouncer for a short time before teaching. I've seen women using what nature gave them for advantage ever since I was able to know what I was looking at. Men and women aren't so different that they don't take advantage of things to get what they want. Some women do, some women don't, just like men. Edited by Stirlingsays (31 Oct 2017 7.49pm)
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| rikz Croydon 31 Oct 17 8.03pm |
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Originally posted by nickgusset
You seem to infer it's quite common. Elgrande is alright by you if I respond to Stirling or should I have put this reply in the Weinstein thread? Well look at the Kardashians, in terms of celebrity they're about as big as they come and worth hundreds of millions. If you're intelligent and good looking you'll fly through life, if your just one or the other you can do alright. Humans judge other humans on looks by nature, so attraction is a massive key to success.
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Kermit8  Hevon 31 Oct 17 8.30pm |
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Originally posted by rikz
Well look at the Kardashians, in terms of celebrity they're about as big as they come and worth hundreds of millions. If you're intelligent and good looking you'll fly through life, if your just one or the other you can do alright. Humans judge other humans on looks by nature, so attraction is a massive key to success. Not necessarily. You could have been brought up in such a way as to be too screwed up to be bothered. It give a certain advantage for sure if taken but the person's character will dictate how it all pans out.
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| nickgusset Shizzlehurst 31 Oct 17 8.36pm |
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Originally posted by elgrande
Go forth and multiply Gusset If you want. You really must think things through...
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| nickgusset Shizzlehurst 31 Oct 17 8.41pm |
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Originally posted by Forest Hillbilly
all of them. Madonna, Voorderman, etc, etc. Name women that don't use sex as a weapon ? Thora Hird
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| nickgusset Shizzlehurst 31 Oct 17 8.48pm |
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Originally posted by rikz
Well look at the Kardashians, in terms of celebrity they're about as big as they come and worth hundreds of millions. If you're intelligent and good looking you'll fly through life, if your just one or the other you can do alright. Humans judge other humans on looks by nature, so attraction is a massive key to success. It's not harassment if the sexy part is part of their usp. As for the other names Forest mentioned, are they happy in themselves if they did? I bet pretty much any woman you ask will say they've been harassed in some way above what should be deemed acceptable. I reckon recent events will see a sea change in how women are treated.
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tome  Inner Tantalus Time. 31 Oct 17 9.07pm |
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Originally posted by nickgusset
It's not harassment if the sexy part is part of their usp. As for the other names Forest mentioned, are they happy in themselves if they did? I bet pretty much any woman you ask will say they've been harassed in some way above what should be deemed acceptable. I reckon recent events will see a sea change in how women are treated. I think it's sometime a fine line though, isn't it. It's a generalisation, but in most parts of the world the man is expected to take the risks and make the move, and in so doing have the choice to approach anyone. The woman is typically expected to have the choice of yes or no when approached. I think until this changes (and maybe it is?) the line between coming on a bit strong and harrassment may be blurred. It may be the case that a collective case of backing-off by men afraid of the response to making clumsy advances may mean women adopt a more aggressive approach, hard to say.
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| elgrande bedford 31 Oct 17 9.13pm |
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Originally posted by nickgusset
If you want. You really must think things through... Not really,i know what i meant,everyone knows what i meant....but no card.
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| nickgusset Shizzlehurst 31 Oct 17 9.14pm |
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Originally posted by tome
I think it's sometime a fine line though, isn't it. It's a generalisation, but in most parts of the world the man is expected to take the risks and make the move, and in so doing have the choice to approach anyone. The woman is typically expected to have the choice of yes or no when approached. I think until this changes (and maybe it is?) the line between coming on a bit strong and harrassment may be blurred. It may be the case that a collective case of backing-off by men afraid of the response to making clumsy advances may mean women adopt a more aggressive approach, hard to say. It is, and there's a difference between being in the workplace and out on the lash. If someone says no, to whatever, it should be respected.
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| rikz Croydon 31 Oct 17 9.28pm |
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Originally posted by nickgusset
It's not harassment if the sexy part is part of their usp. As for the other names Forest mentioned, are they happy in themselves if they did? I bet pretty much any woman you ask will say they've been harassed in some way above what should be deemed acceptable. I reckon recent events will see a sea change in how women are treated. I'd say it's pretty subjective to whether the woman finds the guy attractive or not. Let's take catcalling for example and do a quick social experiment. First let's send an unattractive guy around in an old 106, pulling over to random women and shouting random compliments at them, then we will send an attractive guy around in a brand new Ferrari 360 and have him do the same. Both the same crime and both harrasment in the eyes of UK law. Are you honestly telling me that both guys will get the same response from women ?
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| johnfirewall 31 Oct 17 9.44pm |
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Nature is an interesting argument as it's also the thing that dictates that the majority of women will have children (resulting in time off work and the consequential reduction in earnings over that period) Annie Duke the poker player has exploited her perceived weaknesses to win the WSOP but of course the perceived problem is that men have the power to wield in the first place, to manipulate women in to doing things for film roles (or posess the money to be relieved of, in the case of poker, prostitution and divorce) but not much has changed in terms of women raising children while blokes hunt/ work. We're a couple of hundred (or thousand) years late in trying to deviate from this paradigm. Edited by johnfirewall (31 Oct 2017 9.45pm)
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