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jamiemartin721 Reading 09 Aug 17 5.18pm | |
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Originally posted by DanH
Publishing a 'memo' off your own back is defo a dick move, no matter what the content. Who the f**k sends memo's anymore.
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Hrolf The Ganger 09 Aug 17 5.26pm | |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
Who the f**k sends memo's anymore. Someone should write a memo about sending memos.
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Stirlingsays 14 Aug 17 8.34am | |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
Not what I said at all - its not something someone should be sacked for, but it is something that's likely to offend other colleagues especially women. If you keep doing it, then yeah, you're probably looking at being sacked - because companies generally don't want to create a hostile work environment - where one c**t is offending people repeatedly and affecting the whole team. Personally, I'd call them on their bulls*** - but that's me. But I understand why women might hear that, and be offended and report people to HR, and rightly so, because you're being an unprofessional t*** (and likely alienating people from wanting to work with you) Its not a slippery slope, a slippery slope would be reporting someone for using the term slippery slope Of course I'd be fine with it, if I was allowed to reply in kind to people like that - and call them an ignorant c**t, but I'm not and rightly so. What if I find your hostile views about someone else's views and find them offensive? As you are going to 'call him on his bullsh1t' every time he raises his 'bullsh1t' then I can complain about you just as much as you complain about him. Then maybe we can fire both of you. God forbid someone actually looked into the scientific research behind what someone actually says....no....we should be acting upon how 'offended' people are. Well, I think that is BS. If someone is bullying others at work that's something different. But if someone says something about women that offends some women....Well, suck it up. As a man, I've listened to women's casual views on men all my life.....Some of it I agree with and some I don't. I never wished to sack anyone for it.......our society is becoming ideologically far too intolerant. Offence of course he its place within society but in recent years it has been increasingly used as a tool to shame and close down others. Like Christopher Hitchens said, 'So I've offended you, ok, but I'm still waiting to hear your argument'. Edited by Stirlingsays (14 Aug 2017 10.49am)
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Stirlingsays 14 Aug 17 8.43am | |
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I urge you to watch the video. The last question really hits upon the lack of understanding. This guy is a force for good who doesn't push anything that isn't backed by science research. He never and doesn't have an issue with diversity like most sensible people. Yet his views have been massively misrepresented and demonsised by people with little understanding or who prefer ideology over reality.
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jamiemartin721 Reading 14 Aug 17 10.58am | |
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Originally posted by Stirlingsays
What if I find your hostile views about someone else's views and find them offensive? Call me on it. Originally posted by Stirlingsays
As you are going to 'call him on his bullsh1t' every time he raises his 'bullsh1t' then I can complain about you just as much as you complain about him. Yeah, but if I've got the time I'll defend my corner and demonstrate at least why its a reasonable stance to take. Originally posted by Stirlingsays
Then maybe we can fire both of you. Which is why I don't engage in unprofessional behaviour like gender politics etc at work. Originally posted by Stirlingsays
God forbid someone actually looked into the scientific research behind what someone actually says....no....we should be acting upon how 'offended' people are. This is the most important thing, either of us will agree on, I don't care about the emotion, or the rhetoric or the agenda, I care about the evidence and pragmatism. Originally posted by Stirlingsays
If someone is bullying others at work that's something different. But if someone says something about women that offends some women....Well, suck it up. As a man, I've listened to women's casual views on men all my life.....Some of it I agree with and some I don't. I think the context is important. Very important - as is what they say. Thing about womens casual views on men, is they don't really have any power or represent the power imbalance in a way that sexual politics do for women - Who have a very different experience in terms of sexism, harassment, sexual violence and justice in terms of society. Women are right to be p**sed off at a number of issues in society, which men do not have to deal with. Originally posted by Stirlingsays
I never wished to sack anyone for it.......our society is becoming ideologically far too intolerant. Ideal world the only thing you should ever be sacked for is being repeatedly unable to do the job. Originally posted by Stirlingsays
Offence of course he its place within society but in recent years it has been increasingly used as a tool to shame and close down others. Again, you have to be reasonable, there is cause someone offence, and being offensive. Originally posted by Stirlingsays
Like Christopher Hitchens said, 'So I've offended you, ok, but I'm still waiting to hear your argument'. Edited by Stirlingsays (14 Aug 2017 10.49am) I like this quote. Being offensive, doesn't make you either right or wrong, in the same way being offended doesn't make you right or wrong.
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jamiemartin721 Reading 14 Aug 17 11.06am | |
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Originally posted by Stirlingsays
I urge you to watch the video. The last question really hits upon the lack of understanding. This guy is a force for good who doesn't push anything that isn't backed by science research. He never and doesn't have an issue with diversity like most sensible people. Yet his views have been massively misrepresented and demonsised by people with little understanding or who prefer ideology over reality. Although we should also be wary of people who specifically select their scientific evidence. Linking biological evidence present an argument about social phenomena should be questioned given that biology deals primarily with species, rather than groups and individuals. But that's what I mean by call him on 'his bulls***' - Its important when your dealing with scientific evidence to counter it with the critical analysis of other scientific evidence. It would be presumptuous beyond belief to just accept that biological differences represent the difference between genders in the tech industry as a means of dismissing sociological evidence. But it must be considered a factor. When someone presents an argument like that, you have to engage in the discourse, not just shut them down.
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Stirlingsays 14 Aug 17 11.14am | |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
Although we should also be wary of people who specifically select their scientific evidence. Linking biological evidence present an argument about social phenomena should be questioned given that biology deals primarily with species, rather than groups and individuals. But that's what I mean by call him on 'his bulls***' - Its important when your dealing with scientific evidence to counter it with the critical analysis of other scientific evidence. It would be presumptuous beyond belief to just accept that biological differences represent the difference between genders in the tech industry as a means of dismissing sociological evidence. But it must be considered a factor. When someone presents an argument like that, you have to engage in the discourse, not just shut them down. Of course Damore has to 'specifically select their scientific evidence' when he supports an argument he is making. What relevant scientific evidence runs counter to Damore's referred citations? I appreciate though that you believe that this should start a discussion rather than see someone get shut down. I think that's what Damore wanted. Edited by Stirlingsays (14 Aug 2017 11.19am)
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Stirlingsays 14 Aug 17 12.01pm | |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
I think the context is important. Very important - as is what they say. Thing about womens casual views on men, is they don't really have any power or represent the power imbalance in a way that sexual politics do for women - Who have a very different experience in terms of sexism, harassment, sexual violence and justice in terms of society. Women are right to be p**sed off at a number of issues in society, which men do not have to deal with. I pretty much agree with the tenets of most of your reply. I only really significantly differ with two points....Firstly your piece above. This is the 'some groups are more equal than others' idea. This is the same line that 'black people can't be racist because they have no power' argument. It's harmful nonsense. For a start I dispute this line that women have less power within society. Lets even ignore the 'hand that rocks the cradle, rules the world' concept. What I do accept is that the realities of gender difference lead to different power balances. Some we can fairly encourage to be more even and others action leads to reverse sexism or racism with race. What is important is choice. What is important is that we live in a society that doesn't care about your gender in relation to the profession you choose. All it cares about is that you met the standards desired for the profession. This is a view that most of us can stand behind. But women have no power??? In many ways men do have a better playing field but women are also the beneficiaries of many unequal societal preferences that benefit them in preference to men....divorce, custody of children, sentencing for the same crimes,...we even mentioned circumcision the other day...women dominate plenty of professions and imprint gender attitudes within them...This is just off the top of my head...Now some of these practices I agree with (due to general differences in biology between the sexes) and others are cultural and strictly not fair. Whatever the case may be in the particular situation the attitude that women can do and say things and men can't because....power....that is actually sexism is it not? The second point I take a slight issue with is when you replied to my point that I could complain about your complaining. Originally posted by jamiemartin721
Yeah, but if I've got the time I'll defend my corner and demonstrate at least why its a reasonable stance to take. Well, in the point you were referring to...if I remember correctly....that, 'men are better at management'. Well that's a pretty vague statement. Taken as 'all' men it's just wrong. Taken as 'more men than women' well scientific research could both back that up and dismiss it depending upon what type of management being referred too.....It's also just a percentages argument. So unless this guy was being a real jerk about it and continually picking on a women or deliberately creating an adversarial atmosphere then it would probably be better to view comments like that as just the usual attitudes that some people hold on gender. It's their view and people shouldn't be offended by casual remarks or opinions. By being 'offended' some people are looking to use attitudes to demonise and close down others and push their own agendas.....hey, people get sacked for 'wrong-think'. Offence has its place but in today's environment its weight is disproportionate to its influence. Edited by Stirlingsays (14 Aug 2017 3.44pm)
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jamiemartin721 Reading 14 Aug 17 3.43pm | |
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Originally posted by Stirlingsays
Of course Damore has to 'specifically select their scientific evidence' when he supports an argument he is making. What relevant scientific evidence runs counter to Damore's referred citations? I appreciate though that you believe that this should start a discussion rather than see someone get shut down. I think that's what Damore wanted. Edited by Stirlingsays (14 Aug 2017 11.19am) I think in more general terms here, but usually people who go straight to the hard sciences, tend to ignore the social sciences - Its all well and good looking at differences in brain scans etc but you have to also temper that by looking at social research as well. I think its an absurd statement to make that men are biologically more geared towards as the cause of male dominance, when you have the same disparity across a number of industries. Computers have a long history of being a 'boy thing' along with affiliate fields - And as we've seen that challenged we've seen increases in women in IT (in my 17 years from occasional to maybe 25%). That's not to say its not necessarily a factor, but it doesn't dismiss the value of a diversity driven hiring policy, which would aim to rectify that - because its not aimed at the biological factors, but the sociological factors associated with discrimination towards women in IT. Which is to say, yes you can present hard science evidence, but you can't just say well this is ok, because these studies show, when we know its not the whole picture. His argument is undermined - as he's talking about a policy that is aimed at the social causes of inequality, by talking about deterministic biological factors. Its the Race vs IQ scenario all over again. The evidence for racial bias in intelligence doesn't dismiss the value of additional resources aimed at improving the education of black students - because there are more than one or two deterministic factors involved. Similarly, you wouldn't try to treat mental disorder through psychotherapy alone. Most psychiatrists worth their salt, would resolve the issue through the use of several tools - without just focusing on say the genetic research evidence.
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jamiemartin721 Reading 14 Aug 17 3.53pm | |
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Originally posted by Stirlingsays
Well, in the point you were referring to...if I remember correctly....that, 'men are better at management'. Well that's a pretty vague statement. Taken as 'all' men it's just wrong. Taken as 'more men than women' well scientific research could both back that up and dismiss it depending upon what type of management being referred too.....It's also just a percentages argument. So unless this guy was being a real jerk about it and continually picking on a women or deliberately creating an adversarial atmosphere then it would probably be better to view comments like that as just the usual attitudes that some people hold on gender. It's there view and people shouldn't be offended by casual remarks or opinions. By being 'offended' some people are looking to use attitudes to demonise and close down others and push their own agendas.....hey, people get sacked for 'wrong-think'. Offence has its place but in today's environment its weight is disproportionate to its influence. Edited by Stirlingsays (14 Aug 2017 12.06pm) Oddly its rarely the prejudice that offends me, its more the stupidity of the statement. Racists general don't offend me because of their views, its usually because they're ability to rationally present those views is incredibly poor, and fraught with contradictions and a lack of reasonable evidence (usually relying on third hand anectodal evidence). Sacking someone should be a last resort, where people are generally just jerks. Not this guy here, but the kind of guy who won't temper their attitude, despite constant complaints from different employees. My experience is that women make different managers than men; but that both women and men can both be s**t managers, and I've worked with excellent male and female managers. Working in IT, my experience is that women generally make better managers - but that's biased because I've only had two female managers and they were both very good.
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Kermit8 Hevon 14 Aug 17 4.02pm | |
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That kid left that morning to do a job but took his work face mask off and aired his own thoughts on ideology when no-one asked for it and is know crying that his removal is 'unfair'. I mean it's not as if Google have been fvcking up as a business. This little underling just doesn't like the way that they do things.
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