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 eagleman13  On The Road To Hell & Alicante 14 Mar 17 6.07pm |
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Originally posted by Part Time James
And yes it does. I told my colleagues that if I lost my job I'd sell hand jobs to blokes for £15 each and one of my colleagues was clearly toying with getting his wallet (etc) out. For me, it's not a lot different from getting a bit of ketchup on your hands, it all washes off. That said, I don't like getting ketchup on my hands either, always have to have some kitchen towel on the table when I eat dinner.
Doesn't swallow, doesn't like it dribbling over hand, why don't you just do as we did in the scouts(bob-a-job week) put your thumb over the end & threaten to blow their bollox off unless they paid you more.....simples
This operation, will make the 'Charge Of The Light Brigade' seem like a simple military exercise. |
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7mins  In the bush 15 Mar 17 1.12pm |
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James is right, if you want to sleep with some old rough sort, you can score 4 times a week easy. Single mums are even easier in my experience. The younger me would have been "up to my nuts in guts". I'm a little older now and I'm a tad more selective.
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| Part Time James 15 Mar 17 1.14pm |
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Originally posted by 7mins
James is right, if you want to sleep with some old rough sort, you can score 4 times a week easy. Single mums are even easier in my experience. The younger me would have been "up to my nuts in guts". I'm a little older now and I'm a tad more selective. Well I'm a bit gutted having read this. I found myself rather attached to a single mum but she gave me the big E. To be fair, my sexual performances were often hampered by her cats wandering about and my fear for my testicular safety.
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 steph_eagle Thornton Heath 15 Mar 17 1.38pm |
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Originally posted by Michaelawt85
Right. Unless Steph, Becky or miss Smith come along then your not likely to get a female perspective on here about the issues you have raised so here goes... First of all with regards to who pays for what on a date , first or otherwise. I would go out fully expecting and intending to pay half at the end of the meal on a date. Some men are taken a back by this. Not a date I know but I went to the west ham away game with a few guys and when it was the next round and I went and got the drinks in a couple of them seemed genuinely taken a back that I would have done it and paid . To me it was the most normal thing to do in the world but some people find it strange. All depends on your beliefs and the way you were brought up I think. With regards to your finances. Be honest with yourself do you talk about your properties, finances , what car you drive , materialistic things a lot . You may do it without realising you do it. If so then whilst the woman was a bit rude looking at your post (you left it out so a bit of advice is probably put something away you don't want seen either accidentally or deliberately) I am very surprised she admitted to it. All women will look or snoop about if they can. If you don't want to attract gold diggers then you really need to think about the signals and vibes you are sending out. It's a two way street. With regards to the texting thing.. abuse like that is out of order but I believe men and women think differently about sex in general . You might have been busy but it literally takes less than 30 seconds to text someone (even if you were on the loo doing it) to say hi, really enjoyed last night (even if you didn't women like to be complimented / made to feel special) got a lot on this week but looking forward to seeing you again. Or words to that effect . To say absolutely nothing is a bit rude. Sorry Have to agree with this. Michaela, was the bit in bold Del, he just likes it when anyone buys him a drink
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| steph_eagle Thornton Heath 15 Mar 17 1.41pm |
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Originally posted by 7mins
Is not texting someone for three days after one date a bit rude? Could this be a generational thing? I said I'll contact her when I'm back down south, I stuck to that. You say men are shocked when you pay your fair share, that probably means you're the exception to the rule (otherwise they wouldn't be shocked) I must say 80% of women expect the man to pay in my experience, and the 20% that don't, get offended if you do. I know plenty of women that expect men to pay but thankfully I'm not one of them. It annoys me when women expect drinks/meals just because they are female.
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| Part Time James 15 Mar 17 1.42pm |
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Originally posted by steph_eagle
I know plenty of women that expect men to pay but thankfully I'm not one of them. It annoys me when women expect drinks/meals just because they are female. What do gay women do on dates? Do either of them pay?
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| Willo South coast - west of Brighton. 15 Mar 17 1.49pm |
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Originally posted by steph_eagle
In my heyday it was the done thing that men treated ladies when they were out on a 'date'.Got stung a few times with all that 'Brandy and Babycham' stuff and other more expensive drinks.In those days it was the man who always drove as well so he couldn't really have a drink whilst his partner could get all merry.Really not sure what goes on with the youngsters of today.
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| steph_eagle Thornton Heath 15 Mar 17 1.53pm |
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Originally posted by Part Time James
What do gay women do on dates? Do either of them pay? Now I'm really not sure about that one. Maybe they pretend to be just friends and hope blokes buy them both drinks before informing them at the end of the night they are lesbians.
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| steph_eagle Thornton Heath 15 Mar 17 1.54pm |
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Originally posted by Willo
In my heyday it was the done thing that men treated ladies when they were out on a 'date'.Got stung a few times with all that 'Brandy and Babycham' stuff and other more expensive drinks.In those days it was the man who always drove as well so he couldn't really have a drink whilst his partner could get all merry.Really not sure what goes on with the youngsters of today. I'm not saying men shouldn't buy ladies a drink, I'm saying ladies shouldn't expect it.
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| Part Time James 15 Mar 17 1.54pm |
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Originally posted by steph_eagle
Now I'm really not sure about that one. Maybe they pretend to be just friends and hope blokes buy them both drinks before informing them at the end of the night they are lesbians. I wonder if one ever looks at the other and says "your hair is shorter, you're....you know...a bit butch" and then never hears from them ever again.
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| Part Time James 15 Mar 17 1.57pm |
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Originally posted by steph_eagle
I'm not saying men shouldn't buy ladies a drink, I'm saying ladies shouldn't expect it. I think there should be a kitty at the start of the evening which both parties top up as the night goes on. It ought to be kept in a hat between the two daters to ensure that no one tries to do a bunk and leave the other out of pocket.
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| Midlands Eagle 15 Mar 17 1.58pm |
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Originally posted by Willo
Got stung a few times with all that 'Brandy and Babycham' stuff What's Babycham?
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