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dannyboy1978 Flag 27 May 19 10.22pm Send a Private Message to dannyboy1978 Add dannyboy1978 as a friend

So if I get a bunch of parents to protest that they want to take children out of school during term time to avoided hiked up holiday prices should the school bow down to pressure?
If it works for Muslims why not others?

 

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Stirlingsays Flag 27 May 19 10.27pm Send a Private Message to Stirlingsays Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add Stirlingsays as a friend

Originally posted by dannyboy1978

So if I get a bunch of parents to protest that they want to take children out of school during term time to avoided hiked up holiday prices should the school bow down to pressure?
If it works for Muslims why not others?


They already do take their children out....they just pay the fine.

I was on the side of the parents on that one too.

 


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Rudi Hedman Flag Caterham 27 May 19 11.25pm Send a Private Message to Rudi Hedman Add Rudi Hedman as a friend

I used to agree with Stirlingbon this but I sympathise with children raised in same sex households, with no say in the matter and vulnerable to being weird and freaks. No ‘treat others...’ talks will address any bullying, and no kid deserves that because something that is actually unnatural has been decided by their parents or not even their biological parent(s). It’s becoming a complex and confusing world and innocent kids don’t deserve any of it.

 


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Invalid user 2019 Flag 27 May 19 11.58pm

Originally posted by Rudi Hedman

I used to agree with Stirlingbon this but I sympathise with children raised in same sex households, with no say in the matter and vulnerable to being weird and freaks. No ‘treat others...’ talks will address any bullying, and no kid deserves that because something that is actually unnatural has been decided by their parents or not even their biological parent(s). It’s becoming a complex and confusing world and innocent kids don’t deserve any of it.

One of my best mates is mixed race and was teased mercilessly in the rural area he grew up in, for his 'hair' of all things. His mother could've made different choices in life, possibly ruled out marrying someone of a different race because of the potential for bullying, but that would've been an odd choice and I don't think that's how life or love really works is it. You wind up in the relationship you wind up in and make the best of it. You can't base choices solely on how much of a problem others have with it. If you did that, you'd do nothing and be nothing.

Of course, now his kid goes to school in the same area. It's still not very mixed, but society has by and large moved on from seeing someone who's 'neither this nor that' racially as a problem, and he mentally has absolutely no comprehension of the struggles his father faced, so there is no problem, and what problem there was previously wasn't 'their' problem either. If you run away you take your problems with you. Better to face them down.

Kids in part target who they learn from their surroundings that they should, or can get away with targeting. It's important to create a situation where people realise they can't get away with behaving this way, or at least that there are consequences if they do. It won't ever be perfect. I'd say that a kid who is effeminate is more likely to get bullied than due to the parenting arrangement, but then if you're in Birmingham for instance I can't imagine either situation being a lot of fun and it just got worse.

While I agree teaching should be age appropriate, it's worth pointing out that this programme had been running for 4 years, it wasn't new. And it addressed other areas, such as bullying based on race and disability and so on. With that in mind, I can perfectly see why the idea of suspending it because of an egg throwing, placard carrying mob would be seen as a bad idea. In any case, it has been suspended and so violence and aggression and appealing to 'religious sensitivities' wins the day.

Edited by dollardays (28 May 2019 12.15am)

 

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Rudi Hedman Flag Caterham 28 May 19 12.44am Send a Private Message to Rudi Hedman Add Rudi Hedman as a friend

There’s a slight difference between a heterosexual mixed face couple falling in love and having children and a same sex couple deciding to have kids and looking for sperm donors or surrogate mothers or whatever gay men do. It’s so different and unnatural, no matter how much people say they can raise a child just as well, if not better, which can be true.

 


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Invalid user 2019 Flag 28 May 19 12.55am

Originally posted by Rudi Hedman

There’s a slight difference between a heterosexual mixed face couple falling in love and having children and a same sex couple deciding to have kids and looking for sperm donors or surrogate mothers or whatever gay men do. It’s so different and unnatural, no matter how much people say they can raise a child just as well, if not better, which can be true.

I was pointing out a commonality, that a possible reaction from bullies can both of 'of its time' and also is not a reason 'not' to do something.

I certainly agree with you that not all couples are identical by any means, there are variations every which way. Sometimes, heterosexual couples also need to look for sperm donors or surrogates and so there is a third person involved in that process too. And of course some people foster or adopt. Life is full of variations that exist outside of what may be deemed as a preferable scenario without being aware of any other factors, such as the character, values and finances of those involved and so on. Life throws up variables that are specific to the individuals involved and they take it from there. That's what everyone does really, and I don't laud over others to such an extent that I decree who can or can't raise children unless it's a dangerous or violent situation.

Edited by dollardays (28 May 2019 1.00am)

 

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Stirlingsays Flag 28 May 19 10.09am Send a Private Message to Stirlingsays Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add Stirlingsays as a friend

Originally posted by dollardays

Who would be teaching anything 'entirely different'?

Rather obviously a socially conservative family would be role modelling the male/female structure. The very fact this sexual 'identity politics' has now been aimed at very young children means that religious and just socially conservative families will respond by enforcement.

It doesn't work it just creates unnecessary discord. Now in a sense, this doesn't bother me that much because of previously stated reasons but apparently for people like yourself that's not the intent.

Originally posted by dollardays

If a school was solely teaching kids about gay people, couples and parents, then yes that would be exceedingly strange and inappropriate, and indeed what they would need to be taught elsewhere would be very different. However, as I've said, highlighting at some point during school life, that while most people will wind up in heterosexual relationships and family units that some will not, and that they deserve to be treated with respect, is a simple reality, it's not something entirely different than what you would be teaching them.

I'm not on here arguing that this subject can't be broached. I think I've made it quite clear that age matters as does social conservatism.....something the people who passed this law didn't give a damn about.

If the programme was how you suggest here, a sensible chat about how humans are and their differences and not an entire programme called 'no outsiders' with books with pictures portraying alternative families and sexualities then I would regard it differently....but five would still be too young.

Originally posted by dollardays

Saying that there's no way your intended path could mess with their heads is as off kilter as saying that if I close my eyes nobody can see me. The reality will still exist, in that if they end up gay, they will have had a Father who tore them away from school and their friends to be home schooled, rather than let them attended a class that addresses gay people and their relationships, and will have taught them that homosexuality is a 'lifestyle I don't like' all in the face of reality of other gay family members trying to make their way in life. If they're straight, they will likely perpetuate the behaviour shown here and towards others, so there is no gain, just the likelihood of treating other families and people they come across as lesser.

This whole section is hyperbolic, 'tore them away'...when children change school several times in their life. Indeed, children are pulled from classes all the time and don't attend for many different reasons. No one needs to make a big deal of it.

Again, I raise the reality that in religious families this approach is going to cause far more discord and upset to gay children at an age where they shouldn't be dealing with it.

There isn't only one way to think in a healthy way regarding homosexuality. I regard most families as being far better methods with its emotional ties within them than the politically correct and 30 -1 nature of a class.

Again, I'll repeat there are many homosexuals who wouldn't agree with this programme at this age so there is no consensus....only consensus from activists and virtue signalers.

Originally posted by dollardays

You keep calling this truism 'indoctrination'. It's a term you readily throw around. You also cried government 'indoctrination' at a baby being put in care due to parents who 1) were members of an extreme neo-Nazi group 2) were plotting acts of terror and 3) called their baby Adolf. It appears that your threshold for what reaches a point of concern within the family structure of which you approve is extreme to put it mildly. And yet with gay families, your threshold is a total personal rejection of them raising kids at all, OTT drastic upheaval of kids lives if a school so much as broaches the subject, and the cliched 'lifestyle choice' mantra. It's unnerving that in this pairing, it's the dreaded default 'gay family' that provokes a reaction from you rather than a couple of dangerous neo nazis. [Link]


Oh dear.

I've noticed this in your posts. You start to get emotional and then the rational and intelligently argued element is replaced by increasing hyperbole and weak deductions.

I don't know if what I believe is a total rejection....if I had to revisit it I'd probably make the adoption aspect from 16 onwards.

Originally posted by dollardays

The indoctrination I'm afraid is coming from you. Anyway, I'm a libertarian, so as far as I'm concerned ultimately you can do as you wish. Clearly you think you're doing a fine job. Your freedoms-lite approach to life, which sees you wanting the government to 'lend a brutha a hand' in keeping certain teachings away and using the government to attempt restrict or complicate parenting on the grounds of sexuality is unfortunate, but so be it.

I am a big supporter of freedom of speech and expression no matter how nuts.. you'll be relieved to know. I'm also a staunch critic of censorship, from both left and right, and basically any government interference in peoples lives unless there is no other option. This is because the political tides go this way and that and I have a full appreciation of that fact. You could do with taking that on board too, rather than a 'my' freedoms approach with a selective, self interested authoritarian bent.

'Indoctrination' comes from everybody.

All societies are a mixture of libertarianism and authoritarianism just differing on the extent and areas. So again, it's a non point. While we both are probably similar on free speech, here you have been arguing for the mandating of this programme that I don't...Yet you correctly pointed out that in others areas I would mandate.....So like I say you are no different to me you just have your mixture of authoritarianism/freedom in different areas.

Edited by Stirlingsays (28 May 2019 3.40pm)

 


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Rudi Hedman Flag Caterham 28 May 19 10.49am Send a Private Message to Rudi Hedman Add Rudi Hedman as a friend

Originally posted by dollardays

I was pointing out a commonality, that a possible reaction from bullies can both of 'of its time' and also is not a reason 'not' to do something.

I certainly agree with you that not all couples are identical by any means, there are variations every which way. Sometimes, heterosexual couples also need to look for sperm donors or surrogates and so there is a third person involved in that process too. And of course some people foster or adopt. Life is full of variations that exist outside of what may be deemed as a preferable scenario without being aware of any other factors, such as the character, values and finances of those involved and so on. Life throws up variables that are specific to the individuals involved and they take it from there. That's what everyone does really, and I don't laud over others to such an extent that I decree who can or can't raise children unless it's a dangerous or violent situation.

Edited by dollardays (28 May 2019 1.00am)

Sperm donors or surrogate mothers are far more natural, or facilitate a more natural life for the family than gay parents, and gay parents are blindingly obvious to the public and the classroom than how a mother got pregnant, which they’d probably never know.

 


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Invalid user 2019 Flag 28 May 19 9.33pm

Originally posted by Stirlingsays

harm is being done here and is being licensed by the state.


I'm picking and choosing in relation to how I think society should work.

How are you different?
Edited by Stirlingsays (27 May 2019 10.15pm)



A groups of people whose religious views have resulted in many deaths to the type of individuals and families they're protesting abroad, and are very full on at home should not hold sway on whether basic lessons on societal realities of the country they live in take place.

You put your long term staunch belief on how we shouldn't listen to Muslims religious sensibilities and objections on ice because you agree with them on this one particular issue. It's farcical to suddenly adopt the opposite worldview about making compromises and how we should seek to serve the local Muslim community because it might 'make things worse' if we don't, just because it intersects with your stance on one particular argument.

If people want to homeschool, go for it but we all learned things at school that we disagreed with. In fact, it's part of learning, as parental adjustments and other input factor in too throughout life. Realities present themselves regardless, and so a parental view is often in response to external information.

Do you want tearful leftie parents removing their kids from school when the 'ills of the empire' aren't covered in history.. or when someones 'pronoun' isn't respected... Or maybe you recognise the snowflake moves of others, just not your own. Perhaps you wish to solely appeal to the 'sensitivities' of the Muslim community in history lessons in Birmingham too? I mean, it's got to be 'local' and sensitive to their cultural and conservative religious background now right according to you? I doubt they want to learn about British stuff, our military and the like. There might be a few white kids in class slightly confused by not ever being factored in, but I mean who cares about them, let's keep it Muslim and traditional in line with your newly minted approach! Things get confusing when staunch beliefs are in fact situational 'how do I get my way here' ad hoc statements. The disposable contact lense that is opinion based on feels.


 

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Invalid user 2019 Flag 28 May 19 10.26pm

Originally posted by Stirlingsays

Oh dear.

I've noticed this in your posts. You start to get emotional and then the rational and intelligently argued element is replaced by increasing hyperbole and weak deductions.


Edited by Stirlingsays (28 May 2019 3.40pm)

Absolutely not. You are publicly on record as being angry that a baby was removed from a neo nazi couple, on account that it was going to be 'indoctrinated' by the state. What was known about this family was deeply disturbing. They named their baby Adolf, posed in front of swaztikas and the like. The couple had stated that they would be willing to murder a mixed race child.

Despite being aware of all of the above factors you stated that this didn't meet your threshold for removing the child because no-one had been physically hurt. This is not hyperbole. It is an accurate and provable statement of fact.

They were researching bomb making. They found all non whites intolerable. The father said that “all Jews must be put to death”. Not a chocolate box family.

So no, I think it's very pertinent to this issue to highlight your anger at what you perceived to be state 'indocrination' of this baby and that "it appears that your threshold for what reaches a point of concern within the family structure of which you approve is extreme to put it mildly. And yet with gay families, your threshold is a total personal rejection of them raising kids at all".

That the former couple are in any way better suited to raise a child than two ordinary people, no matter their sexuality is clearly a preposterous idea. Or that their rights are the ones you choose to defend out of the two groups. An utterly bizarre stance. So this isn't 'think of the children', much like your sensitivities of the Muslim community about-turn, it's about finding a way to stick it to a group of people you're not particularly keen on. Perhaps going forward you can manage to muster the consideration and empathy that you managed to demonstrate to these neo nazis, to other groups of people. You seemingly inhabit a place that you appear to imagine is 'conventional', while simultaneously holding some single percentile stances that 99% of people regardless of their politics would never even begin to entertain.

Edited by dollardays (28 May 2019 10.35pm)

 

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Stirlingsays Flag 28 May 19 11.06pm Send a Private Message to Stirlingsays Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add Stirlingsays as a friend

Originally posted by dollardays

Absolutely not. You are publicly on record as being angry that a baby was removed from a neo nazi couple, on account that it was going to be 'indoctrinated' by the state. What was known about this family was deeply disturbing. They named their baby Adolf, posed in front of swaztikas and the like. The couple had stated that they would be willing to murder a mixed race child.

Despite being aware of all of the above factors you stated that this didn't meet your threshold for removing the child because no-one had been physically hurt. This is not hyperbole. It is an accurate and provable statement of fact.

They were researching bomb making. They found all non whites intolerable. The father said that “all Jews must be put to death”. Not a chocolate box family.

So no, I think it's very pertinent to this issue to highlight your anger at what you perceived to be state 'indocrination' of this baby and that "it appears that your threshold for what reaches a point of concern within the family structure of which you approve is extreme to put it mildly. And yet with gay families, your threshold is a total personal rejection of them raising kids at all".

So you know all this to be true do you. You trust the state entirely do you.

I don't, I've seen the state lie directly. I've seen you manipulate the truth here and twist the truth to suit the narrative you want to present.

For example, with the above. In this case I condemned the behaviour of this couple and I expressed concern for that child in their care.

Where is your mention of that? Nowhere.....It shows you lack of care for the truth of a situation. You are the kind of person who doesn't present the truth.

You just present my concerns about the future of that child within state care....which I know something about and you present my concern that the child will be indoctrinated against its own parents.....that's one mixed up future. I lament the whole situation because whatever happens to that child the likely outcome is a s***e sandwich.

But instead that's not what you took from that exchange, instead you took what you wanted out of it and presented BS.....true to form.

You have no concerns about twisting truth to suit your own pathetic beta male or female narrative.....reasonably intelligent but pathetic.

Originally posted by dollardays

That the former couple are in any way better suited to raise a child than two ordinary people, no matter their sexuality is clearly a preposterous idea. Or that their rights are the ones you choose to defend out of the two groups. An utterly bizarre stance. So this isn't 'think of the children', much like your sensitivities of the Muslim community about-turn, it's about finding a way to stick it to a group of people you're not particularly keen on. Perhaps going forward you can manage to muster the consideration and empathy that you managed to demonstrate to these neo nazis, to other groups of people. You seemingly inhabit a place that you appear to imagine is 'conventional', while simultaneously holding some single percentile stances that 99% of people regardless of their politics would never even begin to entertain.

'No matter their sexuality'. So sorry, Word Up but when it comes to a child being reared every child has an intrinsic right to a mother and a father.

It may not always be possible because real life is full of broken families.....but it's the ideal and up until the hyper advance of social liberalism on steroids it was fully recognised as the ideal.

You are a part of society which thinks it's ok to lie to children and present other alternatives as equal.

I regard you as the same as the others....a collaborator to a soft form of child abuse for that percentage of children who will grow up with resentment and feeling cheated.....gay, straight or frigging whatever.

Edited by Stirlingsays (28 May 2019 11.15pm)

 


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Originally posted by dollardays

A groups of people whose religious views have resulted in many deaths to the type of individuals and families they're protesting abroad, and are very full on at home should not hold sway on whether basic lessons on societal realities of the country they live in take place.

You put your long term staunch belief on how we shouldn't listen to Muslims religious sensibilities and objections on ice because you agree with them on this one particular issue. It's farcical to suddenly adopt the opposite worldview about making compromises and how we should seek to serve the local Muslim community because it might 'make things worse' if we don't, just because it intersects with your stance on one particular argument.

If people want to homeschool, go for it but we all learned things at school that we disagreed with. In fact, it's part of learning, as parental adjustments and other input factor in too throughout life. Realities present themselves regardless, and so a parental view is often in response to external information.

Do you want tearful leftie parents removing their kids from school when the 'ills of the empire' aren't covered in history.. or when someones 'pronoun' isn't respected... Or maybe you recognise the snowflake moves of others, just not your own. Perhaps you wish to solely appeal to the 'sensitivities' of the Muslim community in history lessons in Birmingham too? I mean, it's got to be 'local' and sensitive to their cultural and conservative religious background now right according to you? I doubt they want to learn about British stuff, our military and the like. There might be a few white kids in class slightly confused by not ever being factored in, but I mean who cares about them, let's keep it Muslim and traditional in line with your newly minted approach! Things get confusing when staunch beliefs are in fact situational 'how do I get my way here' ad hoc statements. The disposable contact lense that is opinion based on feels.


I've answered all these points and your continual bleating around the same point is beyond boring now.

You should sign up for the 'no outsiders' programme as you sound so desperately committed to convincing five year olds on just how friendly you are.

Cool, but it won't be happening around my kids.

 


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