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Stirlingsays 31 Jan 22 6.19pm | |
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Originally posted by EverybodyDannsNow
It sounds entirely logical to me. How do you reckon the men falsely convicted or rape stack up against the women who have been raped without any one being convicted? They probably don't. I'm of the belief that as soon as you take the 'innocent until proven guilty' aspect away from the justice system you essentially aren't doing justice.....you're convicting people based upon prejudice....what you think is statistically likely. I recognise your anger, I just don't really know what can fairly be done about it.
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EverybodyDannsNow SE19 31 Jan 22 6.20pm | |
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Originally posted by Stirlingsays
I think we can all tell he's scum. He's also probably a rapist. I have genuine sympathy for your anger because it's a crime that frequently goes unpunished. I mean others are pretending you can’t tell it’s him on the audio and bits like that, so it’s certainly not ‘all’, but I’m happy with that as a position. It’s made my blood boil all day to be honest
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rikz Croydon 31 Jan 22 6.23pm | |
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Who knows what they are into sexually, could have been recording themselves during role play, she could be into extreme bdsm, someone has hacked the phone and released the pics and recording. Who knows ? Probably unlikely but trial by social media is wrong and it should be innocent untill proven guilty.
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CrazyBadger Ware 31 Jan 22 6.24pm | |
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Originally posted by EverybodyDannsNow
Your first paragraph genuinely reads like a defence attorney - your position seems genuine but I hope you recognise the harm these type of responses do in dissuading other victims to come forward - this woman literally got it on tape and is being doubted and having her trustworthiness questioned - narratives like this are a big part of why the conviction rate sits so disgracefully low. Again, how does one have faith in a system that so plainly doesn’t work? Maybe I've missed my Calling! It's not my intention to discourage any other victims to come forward, I recognise it takes a lot of courage to do so, and I applaud them for it. I'm not questioning anyones trustworthyness or calling her a liar. and isn't faith all about trusting something regardless? We need to recognise that it isn't perfect, but it's much better than the alternatives.
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Stirlingsays 31 Jan 22 6.25pm | |
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Originally posted by EverybodyDannsNow
I mean others are pretending you can’t tell it’s him on the audio and bits like that, so it’s certainly not ‘all’, but I’m happy with that as a position. It’s made my blood boil all day to be honest It's highly unlikely to be anyone else, she'd be putting herself right in it if that were the case as voice match technology is quite good.....and it's highly unlikely that she's in touch with IT fakers though Police should be thorough, phone and bank records and all that. I think you're right to feel that....it's appalling. Edited by Stirlingsays (31 Jan 2022 6.30pm)
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EverybodyDannsNow SE19 31 Jan 22 6.27pm | |
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Originally posted by Stirlingsays
They probably don't. I'm of the belief that as soon as you take the 'innocent until proven guilty' aspect away from the justice system you essentially aren't doing justice.....you're convicting people based upon prejudice....what you think is statistically likely. I recognise your anger, I just don't really know what can fairly be done about it. I don’t disagree that legally it’s a minefield - a problem too hard for me to solve. I just wish that when there is a case as obvious as this, people (and men in particular) were more willing to take a common sense approach and call it what it is, rather than everyone doing their best lawyer impression. I can’t emphasise how much this type of doubting/questioning of credibility prevents genuine victims from coming forward.
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EverybodyDannsNow SE19 31 Jan 22 6.30pm | |
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Originally posted by CrazyBadger
Maybe I've missed my Calling! It's not my intention to discourage any other victims to come forward, I recognise it takes a lot of courage to do so, and I applaud them for it. I'm not questioning anyones trustworthyness or calling her a liar. and isn't faith all about trusting something regardless? We need to recognise that it isn't perfect, but it's much better than the alternatives. F*ck me.
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mtp1958 Oswestry 31 Jan 22 7.01pm | |
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sadly there are to many money makers around for people to trust , very sad if its true , even sadder if its not , if she is not telling the truth , so many woman will feel the hurt and betrayed in trying to prove there case , but if true throw away the key
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Robk 31 Jan 22 7.29pm | |
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Let’s be honest .. the writing has been on the wall for a while... cocky.. arrogant little man... he’s going to get what’s coming to him... how anyone can question it I’m not sure... see that Ronaldo and De Gea have taken him off their social media... kinda tell’s you something......
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cryrst The garden of England 31 Jan 22 8.11pm | |
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Originally posted by EverybodyDannsNow
F*ck me. Who said that?
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BlueJay UK 31 Jan 22 11.33pm | |
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Originally posted by Robk
Let’s be honest .. the writing has been on the wall for a while... cocky.. arrogant little man... he’s going to get what’s coming to him... how anyone can question it I’m not sure... see that Ronaldo and De Gea have taken him off their social media... kinda tell’s you something...... His interviews have always seemed off. Emotionally devoid of any joy. Always came across as very intense and up himself. Like most though, I didn't really think beyond that. Now it's all turned into what looks like a horrendous situation.
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Midlands Eagle 01 Feb 22 10.52am | |
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Originally posted by EverybodyDannsNow
I can’t emphasise how much this type of doubting/questioning of credibility prevents genuine victims from coming forward. But she didn't "come forward" as she just posted it on Instagram where it could have just sunk without trace
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