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Michaelawt85 Flag Bexley 04 May 17 5.52pm Send a Private Message to Michaelawt85 Add Michaelawt85 as a friend

Originally posted by DanH

Yeah just to clarify it was very much a joke. We love each other really

Crack on with the man love then

 


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jamiemartin721 Flag Reading 04 May 17 6.04pm

Originally posted by Stirlingsays

Your attitude is pretty much all that is needed to prove the reality of the title post.

Higher suicide in males is a biological reality of being a male. Look into it.

Masculinity and femininity are part social construct but they are also facets of nature to more or lesser extent in every individual.

Edited by Stirlingsays (03 May 2017 9.11pm)

Except that's not so well born out by social studies which take individual differences and behaviour into account - Problem of biology, is it doesn't factor in differences in individual behaviour.

Suicide isn't a biologically male thing, it is however more likely that women experience less social pressure to 'succeed', and in general have far better social coping mechanisms, such as talking about their emotional problems, failings and a high rate of seeking medical assistance. Women will generally seek out counselling, either formally or informally, in a way that men don't.

Women have high rates of depression, bi-polar disorder but also have a lower rate of suicide. See there is a big issue here, women are far more likely to seek medical help and assistance, when suffering from a mental health problem.

Men also tend to commit more successful suicides, because they tend towards things like hanging, shooting themselves, which have very small windows of opportunity for medical intervention.

Its clearly not biologically defined either, as disparity between male and female suicide rates change over time, quite dramatically, having nearly doubled since records were started in 1981.

Biological behavioural characteristics tend to remain steady in a population. Plus, if it was a biological trait passed genetically, with suicide being the most common cause of death in young men, across a period of history, you would expect evolution to have probably have sorted that out.

Unless its a complex trait, but then those don't tend to be gender specific.

 


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jamiemartin721 Flag Reading 04 May 17 6.08pm

Originally posted by Michaelawt85

Noble sentiments Jamie but this is where about 90% of the human race falls down sadly

I think its probably closer to something like 25% but that 25% is very influential. For example, I would never want the responsibility of being Prime Minister because a) I am not confident that I could do the job b) am rightly very scared of the responsibility.

Now a c**t with an ego a) knows they're special b) doesn't care about the consequences of their actions on other people.

Its why c**ts who don't realise their c**ts get on well in life, they don't have the depth of character to hold themselves back.

 


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Cucking Funt Flag Clapham on the Back 04 May 17 6.08pm Send a Private Message to Cucking Funt Add Cucking Funt as a friend

Originally posted by DanH

Yeah just to clarify it was very much a joke. We love each other really

You sicken me.

 


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Stirlingsays Flag 04 May 17 7.28pm Send a Private Message to Stirlingsays Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add Stirlingsays as a friend

Originally posted by jamiemartin721

Except that's not so well born out by social studies which take individual differences and behaviour into account - Problem of biology, is it doesn't factor in differences in individual behaviour.

Suicide isn't a biologically male thing, it is however more likely that women experience less social pressure to 'succeed', and in general have far better social coping mechanisms, such as talking about their emotional problems, failings and a high rate of seeking medical assistance. Women will generally seek out counselling, either formally or informally, in a way that men don't.

Women have high rates of depression, bi-polar disorder but also have a lower rate of suicide. See there is a big issue here, women are far more likely to seek medical help and assistance, when suffering from a mental health problem.

Men also tend to commit more successful suicides, because they tend towards things like hanging, shooting themselves, which have very small windows of opportunity for medical intervention.

Its clearly not biologically defined either, as disparity between male and female suicide rates change over time, quite dramatically, having nearly doubled since records were started in 1981.

Biological behavioural characteristics tend to remain steady in a population. Plus, if it was a biological trait passed genetically, with suicide being the most common cause of death in young men, across a period of history, you would expect evolution to have probably have sorted that out.

Unless its a complex trait, but then those don't tend to be gender specific.

Biology, doesn't have to factor in differences in individual behaviour.

The proof of biological differences in behaviour like actual suicide is born out by statistics over population. But the reality Jamie is that you shouldn't even require those statistics to know this.

This isn't to belittle suicide in women or saying that 'suicide' is a 'male' behaviour. All these are tendencies for certain actions over large population sizes. It isn't saying that men have harder times than women or anything like that.

As a generalisation males are higher risk takers and more prone to physically violent actions than women. This makes sense biologically for lots of reasons and paradoxically and unfortunately one of the indicators would be more of them taking a decision to end their own lives and doing it.

Of course their will be variations. The cultural environment affects behaviour. That's why the studies that look over large population sizes show the general truths and trends.

Jamie you should just admit it. Biological differences between the sexes lead to different behaviours. It isn't just environment at all....All that 'social construct' stuff only goes so far.

Nature isn't interested in ideology.....There is a good reason that for every 100 born females there are 106 males born.

This video isn't really about suicide but I like how it touches upon the differences between the sexes and how nature deals with it.

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Edited by Stirlingsays (04 May 2017 9.01pm)

 


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Stirlingsays Flag 04 May 17 7.51pm Send a Private Message to Stirlingsays Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add Stirlingsays as a friend

Originally posted by DanH

And what is 'my attitude'?

So, to clarify, because males historically have high rates of suicide we should just accept it and move on? Mental health awareness has increased amazingly in the last few years and hopefully this will lead to a reduction over the years to come.

I've seen people very close to me really struggle because they haven't opened up about their feelings because it's not the 'manly' thing to do. So f*ck this historical notion of how a man should and should not act.

And in my experience, the more 'masculine' a guy acts, the more issues and insecurities they are hiding underneath the surface. Take dannyh for example.

Of course I don't know you but I would say that this utterance, 'Having to pretend to be a big strong man at all times is not healthy. ' pretty much sums up your attitude.

You are anti masculinity....You are essentially the cultural discrimination problem I am talking about in the title post....the ideological shift that went too far. I think your belief in 'pretence' is pretty off.

The difference between males and females are a reality of nature. It isn't 'good' or 'bad' it is how the species was 'designed'...though I'm not claiming a god with this.

You need to accept biological realities between the sexes if you are going to treat them fairly.

Of course this isn't to say that encouraging moderating behaviour in the worst excesses of both isn't a bad thing....but I think we can see from your attitude and from others that this isn't really what's happening in society....The article link in the title post is evidence for that too.

So working on male mental health.....in fact the mental health of both genders is a good thing. Whether or not we should put more into male mental health to reduce the higher suicide is a point that's much higher than my pay grade.

As a layman I'd say no....As I don't think it would make that much of a difference to outcomes. It's an attempt to subvert nature and it would probably fail.

But whatever is most effective for the greater good...I'm not ideological about it. What I do react against is this idea that masculinity should be regarded negatively. It's no different to saying someone born gay should be treated negatively.

Edited by Stirlingsays (04 May 2017 8.59pm)

 


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Stirlingsays Flag 04 May 17 7.58pm Send a Private Message to Stirlingsays Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add Stirlingsays as a friend

Originally posted by Kermit8

There is a lot to be said for just being yourself, bigging up yer self-esteem, and fvck to anyone who has a problem with that. Being like Boy George then.

Edited by Kermit8 (04 May 2017 5.21pm)

Boy George can be annoying....But essentially I agree with you.

Masculinity isn't really about who you are f-ucking as such. Homosexuality is built into nature with all animals....A minority with a tendency to find the same sex attractive makes no difference to the propagation of the species.

I wonder if the number of humans dramatically reduced if 'nature' would respond by reducing homosexual tendeices in children....though we know it's not all about genetics.

I don't know...I'm musing....No this isn't about hetro/homo stuff.

Edited by Stirlingsays (05 May 2017 1.13am)

 


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Kermit8 Flag Hevon 04 May 17 8.27pm Send a Private Message to Kermit8 Add Kermit8 as a friend

Originally posted by Stirlingsays

Boy George can be annoying....But essentially I agree with you.

Masculinity isn't really about who you are f-ucking as such. Homosexuality is built into nature with all animals....A minority with a tendency to find the same sex attractive makes no difference to the propagation of the species.

I wonder if the number of humans dramatically reduced if 'nature' would response by reducing homosexuality.

I don't know...I'm musing....No this isn't about hetro/homo stuff.

As you know we all start off essentially female but then just less than half of us are warped into being blokes

Having a mature relationship with one's own emotions, self-awareness and the ability to self-criticise in a constructive way, must be a lot healthier than having to be superficial everyday and worrying about image.

Some blokes are naturally testosterone-fuelled big-time, some blokes pretend to be, and some blokes are just easy-going. On the other end of the scale , of course, you have screaming queens who are faking how gay they really are.

Graham Norton is a bloke just being himself I reckon. Rather that than pretending to be someone yer not every day.

'Billy Big Bollocks' types are comical. Last thing they want to hear of course.

 


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Stirlingsays Flag 04 May 17 8.43pm Send a Private Message to Stirlingsays Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add Stirlingsays as a friend

Originally posted by Kermit8

As you know we all start off essentially female but then just less than half of us are warped into being blokes

Having a mature relationship with one's own emotions, self-awareness and the ability to self-criticise in a constructive way, must be a lot healthier than having to be superficial everyday and worrying about image.

Some blokes are naturally testosterone-fuelled big-time, some blokes pretend to be, and some blokes are just easy-going. On the other end of the scale , of course, you have screaming queens who are faking how gay they really are.

Graham Norton is a bloke just being himself I reckon. Rather that than pretending to be someone yer not every day.

'Billy Big Bollocks' types are comical. Last thing they want to hear of course.

I agree....though I don't think it's that we start off as female as such but rather that what it is to be human comes from a 'template' that then separates. I'm hazy as too what I read in the past.

But yeah....Every human comes from both sexes so variations on the theme are huge...though I'm hearing about work being done to alter that in the lab for some reason.

 


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nickgusset Flag Shizzlehurst 04 May 17 9.07pm

Originally posted by Stirlingsays

I agree....though I don't think it's that we start off as female as such but rather that what it is to be human comes from a 'template' that then separates. I'm hazy as too what I read in the past.

But yeah....Every human comes from both sexes so variations on the theme are huge...though I'm hearing about work being done to alter that in the lab for some reason.

Because they can? Pushing the boundaries?
An ethical and moral minefield.

 

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matt_himself Flag Matataland 04 May 17 9.12pm Send a Private Message to matt_himself Add matt_himself as a friend

Originally posted by Kermit8

As you know we all start off essentially female but then just less than half of us are warped into being blokes

Having a mature relationship with one's own emotions, self-awareness and the ability to self-criticise in a constructive way, must be a lot healthier than having to be superficial everyday and worrying about image.

Some blokes are naturally testosterone-fuelled big-time, some blokes pretend to be, and some blokes are just easy-going. On the other end of the scale , of course, you have screaming queens who are faking how gay they really are.

Graham Norton is a bloke just being himself I reckon. Rather that than pretending to be someone yer not every day.

'Billy Big Bollocks' types are comical. Last thing they want to hear of course.

What about annoyingly bellend females? They exist.

Why do you put down men, white people, christians, the working class and ordinary people going about their business so regularly, Michael? Why have that chip on your shoulder?

 


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Kermit8 Flag Hevon 04 May 17 9.35pm Send a Private Message to Kermit8 Add Kermit8 as a friend

Originally posted by matt_himself

What about annoyingly bellend females? They exist.

Why do you put down men, white people, christians, the working class and ordinary people going about their business so regularly, Michael? Why have that chip on your shoulder?

 


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