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bubble wrap Carparks in South East London 02 May 17 10.03am | |
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Originally posted by Ray in Houston
If you don't get consent, you're a rapist, because you don't know if she wants it but you do it anyway. Edited by Ray in Houston (01 May 2017 8.15pm) Does that count in Newcastle though? From experiance they all want it. I went back with a Young lady and she took me up to her house. Took her up stairs and smashed the life out of her. When i went down stairs to leave her Mum came out the living room and said my turn now is it, Would have been rude not too and i ended up staying for 3 days. Had to leave when the 92 yr old Nan turned up. There is a line.
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jamiemartin721 Reading 02 May 17 10.15am | |
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Originally posted by bubble wrap
Does that count in Newcastle though? From experiance they all want it. I went back with a Young lady and she took me up to her house. Took her up stairs and smashed the life out of her. When i went down stairs to leave her Mum came out the living room and said my turn now is it, Would have been rude not too and i ended up staying for 3 days. Had to leave when the 92 yr old Nan turned up. There is a line. I think that counts as consent.....
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Michaelawt85 Bexley 02 May 17 10.42am | |
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Originally posted by bubble wrap
Does that count in Newcastle though? From experiance they all want it. I went back with a Young lady and she took me up to her house. Took her up stairs and smashed the life out of her. When i went down stairs to leave her Mum came out the living room and said my turn now is it, Would have been rude not too and i ended up staying for 3 days. Had to leave when the 92 yr old Nan turned up. There is a line. Call bulls*** on that!
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Superfly The sun always shines in Catford 02 May 17 10.52am | |
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Deffo! There's no way he'd turn down the nan.
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bubble wrap Carparks in South East London 02 May 17 12.48pm | |
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Originally posted by Michaelawt85
Call bulls*** on that! 100% True. Was years back. Have been everytime we have played them since and one of my favorite away games. s***r view but the town is something else at night. Most of the men get pissed in the day at football and are home in bed whilst the women go out on the rampage.
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Stirlingsays 02 May 17 1.20pm | |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
Well for a start Bladerunner is a work of fiction, so its largely irrelevant. Of course you could just ask, and act responsibly as a man, to ensure that you aren't putting yourself in a situation where you could be accused, or actually commmiting rape. Its astonishing when I look back how many men thought it was 'ok to ply someone with drinks in order to get them into bed'. So what if the scene is fiction?....It would have described many a real life scene or variations on it. Also Men have been buying women drinks for obvious reasons for centuries and women have been accepting them or turning them down for centuries. Most women in those situations can handle themselves and those that can't shouldn't be in them. If a bloke is out of order then they should be dealt with and often is. But I do think it's astonishing that you think it's astonishing. You sound like you'd have a rape unit in every nightclub ready to pounce if a bloke looks the wrong way.
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jamiemartin721 Reading 02 May 17 1.36pm | |
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Originally posted by Stirlingsays
So what if the scene is fiction?....It would have described many a real life scene or variations on it. Because people's lives are not traumatised, damaged and destroyed by fictional acts on screen. Originally posted by Stirlingsays
Also Men have been buying women drinks for obvious reasons for centuries and women have been accepting them for centuries. Its not the drinks or buying the drinks, its the intention behind plying someone with drinks that is highly suspect. Its what it says about how we view women and sex, that we'd defend someone who exploits someone who is drunk to solely gratify their own sexual desire, and the inherent disregard that entails of a women as a person. If it was a man, getting someone drunk, raping them and claiming consent, then we'd likely see a much harsher sentencing of sex offenders, as well as a systematic destruction of the idea of 'victim blaming'. Originally posted by Stirlingsays
Most women in those situations can handle themselves and those that can't shouldn't be in them. If a bloke is out of order then they should be dealt with. There is a massive problem in the UK with dealing with men who are 'out of order'. Few make it to court, even less end with convictions, and the sentencing for those convicted is quite light - given the severity - With minimal efforts available towards rehabilitation once in prison. We're failing to protect women on a drastic scale. Originally posted by Stirlingsays
But I do think it's astonishing that you think it's astonishing. You sound like you'd have a rape unit in every nightclub ready to pounce if a bloke looks the wrong way. Hyperbole, but we do know that there is a problem in society with sexual violence against women, and that there is a casual acceptance of predatory males. No, but I'd say that women who are raped, and sexually assaulted, deserve justice, and that far to many rapists get away to do it again, because we spend far to much time and effort protecting them over the women they have brutalised and violated. Its absurd that so many women are raped, and so few rapists end up in prison, given that its regarded as the second most serious crime, behind murder. If our murder conviction rate was even twice that of rape convictions, we'd call it a monumental failure.
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Stirlingsays 02 May 17 1.42pm | |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
Because people's lives are not traumatised, damaged and destroyed by fictional acts on screen. Its not the drinks or buying the drinks, its the intention behind plying someone with drinks that is highly suspect. Its what it says about how we view women and sex, that we'd defend someone who exploits someone who is drunk to solely gratify their own sexual desire, and the inherent disregard that entails of a women as a person. If it was a man, getting someone drunk, raping them and claiming consent, then we'd likely see a much harsher sentencing of sex offenders, as well as a systematic destruction of the idea of 'victim blaming'. There is a massive problem in the UK with dealing with men who are 'out of order'. Few make it to court, even less end with convictions, and the sentencing for those convicted is quite light - given the severity - With minimal efforts available towards rehabilitation once in prison. We're failing to protect women on a drastic scale. Hyperbole, but we do know that there is a problem in society with sexual violence against women, and that there is a casual acceptance of predatory males. No, but I'd say that women who are raped, and sexually assaulted, deserve justice, and that far to many rapists get away to do it again, because we spend far to much time and effort protecting them over the women they have brutalised and violated. Its absurd that so many women are raped, and so few rapists end up in prison, given that its regarded as the second most serious crime, behind murder. If our murder conviction rate was even twice that of rape convictions, we'd call it a monumental failure. Mmmm....I don't think we agree on any of this....Interesting really. Edited by Stirlingsays (02 May 2017 1.44pm)
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Ray in Houston Houston 02 May 17 3.35pm | |
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Originally posted by Stirlingsays
How about a written letter specifying a time and date and for how long. Is the sex scene in Bladerunner rape? It is certainly uncomfortable. I think in today's climate it would be seen as rape. I wouldn't be surprised if the 'right on' crowd started censoring it.
Here's a free tip: if she's that wasted, be a man and get her back to her friends or get her home. If she likes you, she'll definitely f*** you next time because you're awesome. If she doesn't like you, you've just avoided raping her. Win-win. Also, who - other than Jimmy Saville - wants to f*** a lifeless piece of meat? Edited by Ray in Houston (02 May 2017 3.35pm)
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Ray in Houston Houston 02 May 17 3.38pm | |
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Originally posted by Part Time James
That said, there'll be "cuddle rape" next. "He put his arms round me...while I was sleeping....I woke up and he was pitching a tent"
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Michaelawt85 Bexley 02 May 17 4.09pm | |
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Originally posted by bubble wrap
100% True. Was years back. Have been everytime we have played them since and one of my favorite away games. s***r view but the town is something else at night. Most of the men get pissed in the day at football and are home in bed whilst the women go out on the rampage. Shall I put you down as a yes for st James park then?
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Michaelawt85 Bexley 02 May 17 4.11pm | |
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Originally posted by Ray in Houston
Here's a free tip: if she's that wasted, be a man and get her back to her friends or get her home. If she likes you, she'll definitely f*** you next time because you're awesome. If she doesn't like you, you've just avoided raping her. Win-win. Also, who - other than Jimmy Saville - wants to f*** a lifeless piece of meat? Edited by Ray in Houston (02 May 2017 3.35pm) Well said ..
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