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Wisbech Eagle Flag Truro Cornwall 22 Nov 21 10.03pm Send a Private Message to Wisbech Eagle Add Wisbech Eagle as a friend

Originally posted by Stirlingsays

I say to people watch what happens in a practical sense at the end of this process.

Once all the virtual signalling and feel good language is finished look at the end result, who benefited and who had their careers destroyed and upon what evidence and reliability base that relied upon.

Therein the real judgement rests and upon it what the real realities are and how reasonable they are.

It will reveal where the real power lies and what its ethics are.

Edited by Stirlingsays (22 Nov 2021 9.39pm)

If the process goes as I hope, and expect, no-one will lose their careers. There will be new guidance and over-sight alongside a "truth and reconciliation" procedure, held in private, during which people can speak freely and then move forward.

If it was a culture that was to blame, then any individual caught up in it, isn't.

Only those unable to divest themselves of their past have anything to fear. Forgiveness now. Not in the future.

 


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Stirlingsays Flag 22 Nov 21 10.04pm Send a Private Message to Stirlingsays Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add Stirlingsays as a friend

You are talking out of your Cornwall again.....Rafiq has directly named loads of people.

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Edited by Stirlingsays (22 Nov 2021 10.05pm)

 


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Stirlingsays Flag 22 Nov 21 10.08pm Send a Private Message to Stirlingsays Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add Stirlingsays as a friend

Originally posted by Wisbech Eagle

If the process goes as I hope, and expect, no-one will lose their careers. There will be new guidance and over-sight alongside a "truth and reconciliation" procedure, held in private, during which people can speak freely and then move forward.

If it was a culture that was to blame, then any individual caught up in it, isn't.

Only those unable to divest themselves of their past have anything to fear. Forgiveness now. Not in the future.

You forgot to add the 'Imagine' lyrics to the end of that.

We will see won't we....I think you making the requirement at the end is telling. I also don't think you're accurate at all.

 


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Wisbech Eagle Flag Truro Cornwall 22 Nov 21 10.17pm Send a Private Message to Wisbech Eagle Add Wisbech Eagle as a friend

Originally posted by Helmet46

And that’s fine IF the apology of Hales and others are graciously accepted.
But you’re right - it does appear to be a widespread cultural issue - like the rapes of teenage girls in Rochdale (that are not widely reported). You see once you open Pandora’s box you need to deal appropriately, equally, openly and in a balanced way with everything that comes out. As soon as some is brushed under the carpet and not widely reported on in a balanced, fair and even handed way then you create prejudices and mistrust that need not be created.
That is the problem if the minority (OR majority) are seemingly perceived to be treated in a different way. That seems to me what you, and others on here, are advocating. I just cannot see your balance, just finger pointing.
The alcohol thing is not racist but it is abuse and needs to be dealt with.


Edited by Helmet46 (22 Nov 2021 8.09pm)

Is it abuse? Seems an overly strong term to me. Unwise, possibly illegal, but she wasn't forced, she was offered, and she accepted.

we ought not divert the thread by opening up the Pandora's box you mention, or it will go right off the tracks. That has its own, well-used thread.

I am not pointing fingers!

I don't think we ought to be even thinking about trying to find a balance between widespread institutional racism and any individual's mistakes. The scales lean overwhelmingly in one direction.

 


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Teddy Eagle Flag 22 Nov 21 10.23pm Send a Private Message to Teddy Eagle Add Teddy Eagle as a friend

Originally posted by Wisbech Eagle

I haven't seen that. Can you provide a link?

It was in The Times.


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Wisbech Eagle Flag Truro Cornwall 22 Nov 21 10.26pm Send a Private Message to Wisbech Eagle Add Wisbech Eagle as a friend

Originally posted by Stirlingsays

You are talking out of your Cornwall again.....Rafiq has directly named loads of people.

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Edited by Stirlingsays (22 Nov 2021 10.05pm)

Once again, I have to wonder if you actually read what I write or only see that you want to see!

That he "named" people does not mean he accused them. Which is what I have already said several times. He identified people, and what they did, as examples of the wider cultural problem. He not only described their behaviour, he described his own as a result of it.

 


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Stirlingsays Flag 22 Nov 21 10.39pm Send a Private Message to Stirlingsays Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add Stirlingsays as a friend

People need to think of the consequences, in the mist of all this puritanical virtual signalling I honesty don't think they are.

Banter is a part of cricket from the local clubhouse to the England team. All that is going to be achieved is distrust and separation....this will exclude not include.

I certainly think that genuine abuse should be sensibly sorted out by people on the ground when it happens......Also players really need to be better judges as to who can take a joke and who can't.....They face the rather unpleasant reality that if they fall out with certain players that they can use the race card against them....that will lower trust.

It should definitely have never reached this stage....careers have already been unavoidably damaged and I can't see how anybody honest could conclude otherwise.

From what has emerged and what I've read I don't think Rafiq is ethical. There may be various levels of truth to what he says but I don't think he's given anyone the benefit of the doubt and has turned up stuff to eleven.

He has used the race card to hurt people while claiming that he's the victim and in the current race climate I think it's stuff that those in power bend to....or shall I say kneel to. They may perhaps actually want to hear it as it as they can score easy virtual signalling points off of it.

As for what's real, fair and balanced. I don't think that we live in a society that puts that first anymore.

 


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Stirlingsays Flag 22 Nov 21 10.41pm Send a Private Message to Stirlingsays Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add Stirlingsays as a friend

Originally posted by Wisbech Eagle

Once again, I have to wonder if you actually read what I write or only see that you want to see!

That he "named" people does not mean he accused them. Which is what I have already said several times. He identified people, and what they did, as examples of the wider cultural problem. He not only described their behaviour, he described his own as a result of it.

And you wonder why people accuse you of dishonesty.

I honesty think you have a pathological issue....probably already diagnosed.

 


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Wisbech Eagle Flag Truro Cornwall 22 Nov 21 10.51pm Send a Private Message to Wisbech Eagle Add Wisbech Eagle as a friend

Originally posted by Teddy Eagle

It was in The Times.


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That isn't the Times, but thanks anyway.

It seems this wasn't part of his testimony to the committee, but as a consequence of a witness statement he gave to an employment tribunal. Now backed up by other witnesses.

He says people should be given a second chance, but that outright denial, after others have confirmed what he claimed, isn't tenable.

When put in an awkward spot by a journalist, he gave the reply he did. This was only asking Vaughan to apologise and he, perhaps unwisely, then answered the follow-up question, on what the BBC should do if he didn't, without too much thought it seems.

Rafiq is not a skilled politician who is used to fielding trick questions. The committee handled him gently and coaxed answers from him. I think his true position was stated then.

Hopefully it's a storm in a teacup. vaughan may genuinely not remember what Rafiq does clearly. If that was the prevailing culture, that wouldn't be surprising.

 


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Teddy Eagle Flag 22 Nov 21 10.55pm Send a Private Message to Teddy Eagle Add Teddy Eagle as a friend

Originally posted by Wisbech Eagle

Once again, I have to wonder if you actually read what I write or only see that you want to see!

That he "named" people does not mean he accused them. Which is what I have already said several times. He identified people, and what they did, as examples of the wider cultural problem. He not only described their behaviour, he described his own as a result of it.

He described his own after it was reported in The Times.

 

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Wisbech Eagle Flag Truro Cornwall 22 Nov 21 11.14pm Send a Private Message to Wisbech Eagle Add Wisbech Eagle as a friend

Originally posted by Stirlingsays

And you wonder why people accuse you of dishonesty.

I honesty think you have a pathological issue....probably already diagnosed.

For someone who likes to present himself as an intellectual wordsmith, you do struggle with quite simple ideas sometimes.

You can name someone, as an example of something collective, without accusing them individually of anything. It's really not complicated. It's the collective that's accused!

Then you deviate, yet again, and use another tedious, very distasteful, and completely unacceptable, ad hominem.

I am sorry to disappoint you, but the only thing I have been diagnosed with is prostate cancer. Of course, as well as being a failed teacher, you are a physician who is so skilful they can make a diagnosis over the web.

The ONLY place I ever get accused of dishonesty is here, by you and the tiny group who hang on your coat-tails. Those with any kind of objectivity, even those who disagree with me politically, know why that is.

 


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Teddy Eagle Flag 22 Nov 21 11.22pm Send a Private Message to Teddy Eagle Add Teddy Eagle as a friend

Originally posted by Wisbech Eagle

That isn't the Times, but thanks anyway.

It seems this wasn't part of his testimony to the committee, but as a consequence of a witness statement he gave to an employment tribunal. Now backed up by other witnesses.

He says people should be given a second chance, but that outright denial, after others have confirmed what he claimed, isn't tenable.

When put in an awkward spot by a journalist, he gave the reply he did. This was only asking Vaughan to apologise and he, perhaps unwisely, then answered the follow-up question, on what the BBC should do if he didn't, without too much thought it seems.

Rafiq is not a skilled politician who is used to fielding trick questions. The committee handled him gently and coaxed answers from him. I think his true position was stated then.

Hopefully it's a storm in a teacup. vaughan may genuinely not remember what Rafiq does clearly. If that was the prevailing culture, that wouldn't be surprising.

It isn’t because The Times has subscriber only content.
Storm in a teacup or not Michael Vaughan was still suspended from his job following this lack of media savvy.

 

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