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Nicholas91 The Democratic Republic of Kent 06 Jun 20 12.28pm | |
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Originally posted by Belmont
So there should be mistrust of the whole of black culture by the actions of some, there is knife crime for sure there are other issues that we could debate for sure but if people have a mis trust of the whole of black culture based on the actions of some that is why people are marching. This is the point. What really bemuses me is yes, I generally have a negative view of the black community I’ll happily admit that but that’s purely based on my own experiences not some made up notion of racism. I grew up in south London and actually only left last year, I therefore grew up surrounded by black contemporaries and my experience is so called stereotypes are often well earned such as the lack of father figures, glorification of gang lifestyles, general disregard for typically British values, negative attitudes towards women and actually general negative attitude towards white people. I grew up with some social fads including happy slapping, rapping about crime and mugging, ducking mugging was a genuine fad and it wasn’t white kids promoting it and very rarely in my experience practicing it. We had the London riots too but I won’t get into that. I find it shocking there is no admission of willingness to address these issues from the black community and in fact often see this deflected as racism which is infuriating. If experiences of black people need to be acknowledged surely my own have validity too? In spite of this and yes in spite of this I still am very aware of my own biases, my unconscious bias and maintain good relationships with black friends and colleagues, let alone the wide variety of other cultures and ethnicities we have in society. Ethnicity and culture very rarely factor or feature in my day to day experiences, thoughts or decisions if ever. When the missus bought home a cat I wouldn’t of named it bleeding Wilf (even with the whole Arsenal/Evertongate) if i was so inclined. I most certainly don’t have a negative view of ALL black people I’d happily participate in a dialogue about race and would actively participate in promoting equality but this is not a reality however. Left wing media have pummelled people with a one sided, absolute narrative around these issues which has completely distorted the reality and therefore any ability to actually resolve social issues. I would be absolutely slammed for stating this elsewhere which I find astonishing. Whilst so many will disagree with me, I strongly believe and mpredict there will be no strides made towards social harmony with the current status quo. You may get some concessions for certain groups and many halfwits towing the line, although perhaps better to have them on that side, but it will be entirely disingenuous and superficial. You can’t possibly change people with half a brains views and opinions through coercion, you can make them comply butneed to have open discussion from both sides to achieve progress.
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cryrst The garden of England 06 Jun 20 12.29pm | |
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Originally posted by Belmont
If you expect me to say it's like the late 70s where bigoted skins are roaming the streets or there are national front matches going I won't because it isn't it is more subtle than that I will give you a very small example. On these boards there was discussion of how these recent riots would make employers and landlords think twice about dealings with black people in general, when I tried to point out the historic poll tax riots that where predominantly white people were rioting and would white people be viewed the same by employers etc, the replies very specifically drew a distinction in terms of it wasn't white people doing the rioting it was crusties or agitators. So basically if black people are involved in something like rioting they/we are viewed as a collective if white people do that it is only the perpetrators are singled out and described in differing ways and not as a collective. If people get themselves a criminal record by rioting, can that be discrimination if they dont get a job. Whatever colour they are as that's the only way it can impact an offer of a job I reckon.
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Rudi Hedman Caterham 06 Jun 20 12.29pm | |
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Originally posted by Belmont
Yes there is some objection within the black community but they are only a spokesman for themselves no one else as I am for myself and you are for yourself. I always get the impression (and of course I could be wrong) that when a question like that is asked people think because one black person has said something that means we all think the same way. Before you say anything I am not applying that to you it's a just a general observation. Then at some point the usual suspects have to be shouted down. I think that for a situation that’s gone on and allowed to go on for so long, including by politicians in fear of being branded racist by loony lefties, it might be expected that stereotypes occur, people are fearful or take precautions by keeping out of the way. A young lad I know was mugged for his watch at knifepoint by 3 black lads the same age. How did he pay for his watch? Not privilege. His paper round money. This knife stuff needs to be ended. Not good for anyone. The community movement to end knife crime needs to go further.
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Eaglecoops CR3 06 Jun 20 12.34pm | |
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Originally posted by Belmont
If you expect me to say it's like the late 70s where bigoted skins are roaming the streets or there are national front matches going I won't because it isn't it is more subtle than that I will give you a very small example. On these boards there was discussion of how these recent riots would make employers and landlords think twice about dealings with black people in general, when I tried to point out the historic poll tax riots that where predominantly white people were rioting and would white people be viewed the same by employers etc, the replies very specifically drew a distinction in terms of it wasn't white people doing the rioting it was crusties or agitators. So basically if black people are involved in something like rioting they/we are viewed as a collective if white people do that it is only the perpetrators are singled out and described in differing ways and not as a collective. Just to point out that it was mostly the poorer sections of our communities , plus antagonists/activists, plus Middle class hangers on that were involved in the poll tax riots. Colour was irrelevant. As for your second point, if you believe that black people were not involved in the rioting and that it was activists then let’s sort the perpetrators out, because however you describe it, it’s not right. Protesting against something fine, rioting wrong, breaching lockdown by ALL present, white or black, stupidly wrong and putting lives at risk.
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Behind Enemy Lines Sussex 06 Jun 20 12.36pm | |
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Originally posted by Rudi Hedman
Part of the grievance is that British and Americans have benefited from black slavery. There’s the difference. It’s a terrible part of history. It’s in the past, although in America there’s some who still view blacks as a lower species. You then have a load of whites, or people of colour, a term I don’t like for a few reasons, in free Britain with all its opportunities, wanting Britain to fall or suffer because of colonialism. Colonialism that would’ve happened by anyone else if Britain wasn’t there first. Of course, the elephant in the room is that the white European powers purchased the majority of black slaves from black tribal chiefs in Africa. Whilst it is abhorrently wrong for anybody to 'own' anybody else, I feel it is often forgotten that certain black chiefs also benefitted from the disgusting process. I believe that the rulers of Benin today are descended from those same black chiefs (I will be accepting of any counter information to that point).
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Hrolf The Ganger 06 Jun 20 12.37pm | |
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Originally posted by Belmont
Fair enough no I haven't been marching and my personal grievances are the grouse generalisations about the black community based on the actions of some, a fact you can understand growing up in south london, I grew up in south london and I can't understand it. Now you answer my question as fairs fair. Do I actually need to ask people personally about why they marched? Do I think the police in America should do more to root out rogue cops? Yes Do I think his killing was about racism? No. Do I think that Britain has any of those problems? No Do I think Britain is one of the most tolerant places in the world? Yes. Do I find it offensive when Black people think I should kneel or be accused of racism? You are damn right I do. Edited by Hrolf The Ganger (06 Jun 2020 12.41pm)
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Tom-the-eagle Croydon 06 Jun 20 12.41pm | |
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Originally posted by Nicholas91
This is the point. What really bemuses me is yes, I generally have a negative view of the black community I’ll happily admit that but that’s purely based on my own experiences not some made up notion of racism. I grew up in south London and actually only left last year, I therefore grew up surrounded by black contemporaries and my experience is so called stereotypes are often well earned such as the lack of father figures, glorification of gang lifestyles, general disregard for typically British values, negative attitudes towards women and actually general negative attitude towards white people. I grew up with some social fads including happy slapping, rapping about crime and mugging, ducking mugging was a genuine fad and it wasn’t white kids promoting it and very rarely in my experience practicing it. We had the London riots too but I won’t get into that. I find it shocking there is no admission of willingness to address these issues from the black community and in fact often see this deflected as racism which is infuriating. If experiences of black people need to be acknowledged surely my own have validity too? In spite of this and yes in spite of this I still am very aware of my own biases, my unconscious bias and maintain good relationships with black friends and colleagues, let alone the wide variety of other cultures and ethnicities we have in society. Ethnicity and culture very rarely factor or feature in my day to day experiences, thoughts or decisions if ever. When the missus bought home a cat I wouldn’t of named it bleeding Wilf (even with the whole Arsenal/Evertongate) if i was so inclined. I most certainly don’t have a negative view of ALL black people I’d happily participate in a dialogue about race and would actively participate in promoting equality but this is not a reality however. Left wing media have pummelled people with a one sided, absolute narrative around these issues which has completely distorted the reality and therefore any ability to actually resolve social issues. I would be absolutely slammed for stating this elsewhere which I find astonishing. Whilst so many will disagree with me, I strongly believe and mpredict there will be no strides made towards social harmony with the current status quo. You may get some concessions for certain groups and many halfwits towing the line, although perhaps better to have them on that side, but it will be entirely disingenuous and superficial. You can’t possibly change people with half a brains views and opinions through coercion, you can make them comply butneed to have open discussion from both sides to achieve progress. Excellent post
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Belmont 06 Jun 20 12.43pm | |
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Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger
Do I actually need to ask people personally about what they marched? Do I think the police in America should do more to root out rogue cops? Yes Do I think his killing was about racism? No. Do I think that Britain has any of those problems? No Do I think Britain is one of the most tolerant places in the world? Yes. Do I find it offensive when Black people think I should kneel or be accused of racism? You are damn right I do. Ok fair enough you are entitled to believe what you believe, but you stated with such surety why I was wrong I would have thought you would have had some more factual evidence to back it up than that, but I'll leave this one there as we will end up going round in circles.
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Rudi Hedman Caterham 06 Jun 20 12.45pm | |
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Originally posted by Tom-the-eagle
Excellent post Yep.You can’t change without change.
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Rudi Hedman Caterham 06 Jun 20 12.46pm | |
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Originally posted by Belmont
Ok fair enough you are entitled to believe what you believe, but you stated with such surety why I was wrong I would have thought you would have had some more factual evidence to back it up than that, but I'll leave this one there as we will end up going round in circles. I’d like to know the protest reasons your acquaintances have.
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Hrolf The Ganger 06 Jun 20 12.46pm | |
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Originally posted by Belmont
Ok fair enough you are entitled to believe what you believe, but you stated with such surety why I was wrong I would have thought you would have had some more factual evidence to back it up than that, but I'll leave this one there as we will end up going round in circles. No problem. Maybe when this has all blown over, in the fullness of time, people will be able to clear their heads and actually see what this was really all about.
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Belmont 06 Jun 20 12.48pm | |
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Originally posted by Nicholas91
This is the point. What really bemuses me is yes, I generally have a negative view of the black community I’ll happily admit that but that’s purely based on my own experiences not some made up notion of racism. I grew up in south London and actually only left last year, I therefore grew up surrounded by black contemporaries and my experience is so called stereotypes are often well earned such as the lack of father figures, glorification of gang lifestyles, general disregard for typically British values, negative attitudes towards women and actually general negative attitude towards white people. I grew up with some social fads including happy slapping, rapping about crime and mugging, ducking mugging was a genuine fad and it wasn’t white kids promoting it and very rarely in my experience practicing it. We had the London riots too but I won’t get into that. I find it shocking there is no admission of willingness to address these issues from the black community and in fact often see this deflected as racism which is infuriating. If experiences of black people need to be acknowledged surely my own have validity too? In spite of this and yes in spite of this I still am very aware of my own biases, my unconscious bias and maintain good relationships with black friends and colleagues, let alone the wide variety of other cultures and ethnicities we have in society. Ethnicity and culture very rarely factor or feature in my day to day experiences, thoughts or decisions if ever. When the missus bought home a cat I wouldn’t of named it bleeding Wilf (even with the whole Arsenal/Evertongate) if i was so inclined. I most certainly don’t have a negative view of ALL black people I’d happily participate in a dialogue about race and would actively participate in promoting equality but this is not a reality however. Left wing media have pummelled people with a one sided, absolute narrative around these issues which has completely distorted the reality and therefore any ability to actually resolve social issues. I would be absolutely slammed for stating this elsewhere which I find astonishing. Whilst so many will disagree with me, I strongly believe and mpredict there will be no strides made towards social harmony with the current status quo. You may get some concessions for certain groups and many halfwits towing the line, although perhaps better to have them on that side, but it will be entirely disingenuous and superficial. You can’t possibly change people with half a brains views and opinions through coercion, you can make them comply butneed to have open discussion from both sides to achieve progress. I suppose there is a difference between you and me I was told that I didn't belong in this country I had bad BO I shouldn't be going out with a white person but I don't have a bad view of the white community I take as I find.
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