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jamiemartin721 Reading 08 Mar 16 4.40pm
Originally posted by Part Time James I would've thought "queer" was an offensive term in that it presumably originated from homosexual people being seen as "strange". Who knows what to call anyone these days? I generally label myself as misanthropic, as it covers most bases. Weirdly, I find I am more attracted sexually to people I don't like, than people I actually care about - Which is a bit awkward. The best shag is always the one where you hate yourself only slightly less for doing it, than the person your are inside. "One Nation Under God, has turned into One Nation Under the Influence of One Drug" [Link]
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Reading 08 Mar 16 4.40pm

Originally posted by Part Time James

I would've thought "queer" was an offensive term in that it presumably originated from homosexual people being seen as "strange". Who knows what to call anyone these days?

I generally label myself as misanthropic, as it covers most bases. Weirdly, I find I am more attracted sexually to people I don't like, than people I actually care about - Which is a bit awkward.

The best shag is always the one where you hate yourself only slightly less for doing it, than the person your are inside.

"One Nation Under God, has turned into One Nation Under the Influence of One Drug"
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Part Time James 08 Mar 16 4.40pm
Originally posted by jamiemartin721 Also, its good insurance when they're selecting redundancies or looking for someone to come in on weekends. Don't try it use Romani, they'll just sack you. Apparently you can still be racist if its towards 'Gypsies'. It's also handy to create an alter ego to blame stuff on. When the boss says "ok, who did a poo in the urinal again?" I can go "I think it was that gay Chinese lady". Edited by Part Time James (08 Mar 2016 4.43pm)
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08 Mar 16 4.40pm

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Originally posted by jamiemartin721

Also, its good insurance when they're selecting redundancies or looking for someone to come in on weekends.

Don't try it use Romani, they'll just sack you. Apparently you can still be racist if its towards 'Gypsies'.

It's also handy to create an alter ego to blame stuff on. When the boss says "ok, who did a poo in the urinal again?" I can go "I think it was that gay Chinese lady".

Edited by Part Time James (08 Mar 2016 4.43pm)

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Part Time James 08 Mar 16 4.42pm
Originally posted by jamiemartin721 I generally label myself as misanthropic, as it covers most bases. Weirdly, I find I am more attracted sexually to people I don't like, than people I actually care about - Which is a bit awkward. The best shag is always the one where you hate yourself only slightly less for doing it, than the person your are inside. I know what you mean. I always go for women I find uglier than myself and given that I have very realistically low self esteem, that really does put me in the market for utter goblins. I like to feel superior whilst I am on the job.
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08 Mar 16 4.42pm

Originally posted by jamiemartin721

I generally label myself as misanthropic, as it covers most bases. Weirdly, I find I am more attracted sexually to people I don't like, than people I actually care about - Which is a bit awkward.

The best shag is always the one where you hate yourself only slightly less for doing it, than the person your are inside.

I know what you mean. I always go for women I find uglier than myself and given that I have very realistically low self esteem, that really does put me in the market for utter goblins. I like to feel superior whilst I am on the job.

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jamiemartin721 Reading 08 Mar 16 4.52pm
Originally posted by Part Time James I know what you mean. I always go for women I find uglier than myself and given that I have very realistically low self esteem, that really does put me in the market for utter goblins. I like to feel superior whilst I am on the job. Ugly women always know how to cook. That's a big thing for me, as I like to get a free meal out of the deal. "One Nation Under God, has turned into One Nation Under the Influence of One Drug" [Link]
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Reading 08 Mar 16 4.52pm

Originally posted by Part Time James

Ugly women always know how to cook. That's a big thing for me, as I like to get a free meal out of the deal.

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Part Time James 08 Mar 16 4.55pm
Originally posted by jamiemartin721 Ugly women always know how to cook. That's a big thing for me, as I like to get a free meal out of the deal. I like cooking and it is very much my domain. I don't want some woman putting a mushroom in a lasagne or something weird. By the way, my fiancée doesn't come under the categories mentioned above. I felt a bit guilty and had to clear that up, despite the fact she will never read anything I wrote on here!
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Part Time James

08 Mar 16 4.55pm

Originally posted by jamiemartin721

Ugly women always know how to cook. That's a big thing for me, as I like to get a free meal out of the deal.

I like cooking and it is very much my domain. I don't want some woman putting a mushroom in a lasagne or something weird.

By the way, my fiancée doesn't come under the categories mentioned above. I felt a bit guilty and had to clear that up, despite the fact she will never read anything I wrote on here!

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Kermit8 Hevon 08 Mar 16 4.57pm
Originally posted by jamiemartin721 I generally label myself as misanthropic, as it covers most bases. Weirdly, I find I am more attracted sexually to people I don't like, than people I actually care about - Which is a bit awkward. The best shag is always the one where you hate yourself only slightly less for doing it, than the person your are inside. I can relate to only 95% of that. Could shag girls I fancied but didn't like/respect/want to be a partner of, for literally hours but put one in front of me that I could fall for then they were lucky to get 7 minutes. Big chest and massive boobs [Link]
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721

I generally label myself as misanthropic, as it covers most bases. Weirdly, I find I am more attracted sexually to people I don't like, than people I actually care about - Which is a bit awkward.

The best shag is always the one where you hate yourself only slightly less for doing it, than the person your are inside.

I can relate to only 95% of that.

Could shag girls I fancied but didn't like/respect/want to be a partner of, for literally hours but put one in front of me that I could fall for then they were lucky to get 7 minutes.

Big chest and massive boobs

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Vaibow vancouver/croydon 08 Mar 16 5.07pm
it's a shame that specific communities feel they are outcasts, so create a new community where anything else is viewed an outcast - if that makes sense. I don't care where you put your willy, if you chop it off or make one from taking a lot of hormones and surgery. I don't care if you like someone with the same organs as you or not, i especially don't care how you dress, speak or act. All i care about is if you are happy, treat people with respect and live a positive lifestyle - as that is how i try and live mine. some of the funniest people i know are gay, smartest people different skin colour to me, caring people trans - In the same hand, some are right fools... it's all about how you act, that defines you. This was once a quality forum....
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it's a shame that specific communities feel they are outcasts, so create a new community where anything else is viewed an outcast - if that makes sense.
I don't care where you put your willy, if you chop it off or make one from taking a lot of hormones and surgery. I don't care if you like someone with the same organs as you or not, i especially don't care how you dress, speak or act.

All i care about is if you are happy, treat people with respect and live a positive lifestyle - as that is how i try and live mine.

some of the funniest people i know are gay, smartest people different skin colour to me, caring people trans - In the same hand, some are right fools...

it's all about how you act, that defines you.

This was once a quality forum....

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jamiemartin721 Reading 08 Mar 16 5.08pm
Originally posted by EaglesEaglesEagles It's actually LGBTQIA Q stands for Queer I stands for Intersex A stands for Asexual So all of you are either horrible bigots for not knowing that and making fun of a ostracized community of people in need of support. Or you require some kind, sensitive teaching in understanding the multiple ways the human race define themselves. This is on a long-term mission to liberate those undermined by our society. Why are there no publicly asexual celebrities I ask you? Answer=prejudice!!! Bit prejudicial, lumping androgen and estrogenic asexuality in together. That's like saying that gay covers men and lesbians. "One Nation Under God, has turned into One Nation Under the Influence of One Drug" [Link]
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Reading 08 Mar 16 5.08pm

Originally posted by EaglesEaglesEagles

It's actually LGBTQIA

Q stands for Queer

I stands for Intersex

A stands for Asexual

So all of you are either horrible bigots for not knowing that and making fun of a ostracized community of people in need of support.

Or you require some kind, sensitive teaching in understanding the multiple ways the human race define themselves. This is on a long-term mission to liberate those undermined by our society. Why are there no publicly asexual celebrities I ask you? Answer=prejudice!!!

Bit prejudicial, lumping androgen and estrogenic asexuality in together. That's like saying that gay covers men and lesbians.

"One Nation Under God, has turned into One Nation Under the Influence of One Drug"
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johnfirewall 08 Mar 16 5.10pm
Originally posted by EaglesEaglesEagles It's actually LGBTQIA Q stands for Queer I stands for Intersex A stands for Asexual So all of you are either horrible bigots for not knowing that and making fun of a ostracized community of people in need of support. Or you require some kind, sensitive teaching in understanding the multiple ways the human race define themselves. This is on a long-term mission to liberate those undermined by our society. Why are there no publicly asexual celebrities I ask you? Answer=prejudice!!! I'm intasex. A lot of it.
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johnfirewall

08 Mar 16 5.10pm

Originally posted by EaglesEaglesEagles

It's actually LGBTQIA

Q stands for Queer

I stands for Intersex

A stands for Asexual

So all of you are either horrible bigots for not knowing that and making fun of a ostracized community of people in need of support.

I'm intasex. A lot of it.

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matt_himself Matataland 08 Mar 16 5.11pm
Originally posted by jamiemartin721 Bit prejudicial, lumping androgen and estrogenic asexuality in together. That's like saying that gay covers men and lesbians. This was bothering me as well. Why would the staunchly non sexual want to be lumped together with gay men who, frankly, largely have a vociferous sexual appetite involving many practices that most would shy from? "That was fun and to round off the day, I am off to steal a charity collection box and then desecrate a place of worship.” - Smokey, The Selhurst Arms, 26/02/02
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Matataland 08 Mar 16 5.11pm

Originally posted by jamiemartin721

Bit prejudicial, lumping androgen and estrogenic asexuality in together. That's like saying that gay covers men and lesbians.

This was bothering me as well. Why would the staunchly non sexual want to be lumped together with gay men who, frankly, largely have a vociferous sexual appetite involving many practices that most would shy from?

"That was fun and to round off the day, I am off to steal a charity collection box and then desecrate a place of worship.” - Smokey, The Selhurst Arms, 26/02/02

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