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Stirlingsays 07 Aug 17 3.12pm
Originally posted by wordup Of course context matters, for instance at a comedy show. All I've really stated is that a racist comment involving the n word being bellowing into my ear is something that's not acceptable to most sensible people. Or rather an equal unpleasant reaction can be expected. People seem to have this fantasy outlook that they can reel off the most grossly offensive things to man, then go into snowflake mode once they get a reaction. No, they get their say and they get a reaction. Part and parcel. Edited by wordup (07 Aug 2017 3.07pm) Well...I kind of agree with you....people should get feedback from what they say....Bill Burr is a controversial comedian who gets a lot of negative feedback from 'progressives'.....At what point though does this actually make people just play everything safe? Look at the BBC for example....No adult watches their stuff and enjoys it anymore because it's been sanitized into the wall. Edited by Stirlingsays (07 Aug 2017 3.18pm) 'Who are you and how did you get in here? I'm a locksmith. And, I'm a locksmith.' (Leslie Nielsen)
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07 Aug 17 3.12pm

Originally posted by wordup

Of course context matters, for instance at a comedy show. All I've really stated is that a racist comment involving the n word being bellowing into my ear is something that's not acceptable to most sensible people. Or rather an equal unpleasant reaction can be expected. People seem to have this fantasy outlook that they can reel off the most grossly offensive things to man, then go into snowflake mode once they get a reaction. No, they get their say and they get a reaction. Part and parcel.

Edited by wordup (07 Aug 2017 3.07pm)

Well...I kind of agree with you....people should get feedback from what they say....Bill Burr is a controversial comedian who gets a lot of negative feedback from 'progressives'.....At what point though does this actually make people just play everything safe?

Look at the BBC for example....No adult watches their stuff and enjoys it anymore because it's been sanitized into the wall.

Edited by Stirlingsays (07 Aug 2017 3.18pm)

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jamiemartin721 Reading 07 Aug 17 3.23pm
Originally posted by Stirlingsays What other opinions are people 'animals' for holding? Edited by Stirlingsays (07 Aug 2017 3.05pm) Miss use of the word literally, and not being able to reference a document in IT. I'd question anyone who is seriously venting an opinion at football match in a serious way. Football is like pantomime, but for so called grown ups. Its basically a catharsis of shouting advice or abuse at people who are vastly more skilled than you'll ever be and generally have the life you can only dream of. Which kind of shows the absurdity of shouting what might be homophobic (or more correctly childish school playground nonsense) at people who earn more in a week than most of us will earn in a year, questioning their sexuality (when we've no idea of their actual preference - but likely regularly can involve access to every fantasy we've had). If a footballer can ignore the insults regularly thrown at them by the opposition fans (and players) I doubt they'll be too concerned about people questioning their sexuality based on their teams location. Taking this kind of thing too seriously at football is a bit silly. We should really be more concerned about maybe is how serious some of the people in the game and fans may take that - Because it does seem odd that players are only out after their career ends. Whilst the fans might contribute to it, the atmosphere in the dressing room and clubs is probably far more significant than Palace fans shouting abuse at Brighton. I think its odd that there seems to be as much focus on what we're shouting at a game, as there has been about pedophiles in the game being protected by clubs and owners. "One Nation Under God, has turned into One Nation Under the Influence of One Drug" [Link]
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Reading 07 Aug 17 3.23pm

Originally posted by Stirlingsays

What other opinions are people 'animals' for holding?

Edited by Stirlingsays (07 Aug 2017 3.05pm)

Miss use of the word literally, and not being able to reference a document in IT.

I'd question anyone who is seriously venting an opinion at football match in a serious way. Football is like pantomime, but for so called grown ups. Its basically a catharsis of shouting advice or abuse at people who are vastly more skilled than you'll ever be and generally have the life you can only dream of.

Which kind of shows the absurdity of shouting what might be homophobic (or more correctly childish school playground nonsense) at people who earn more in a week than most of us will earn in a year, questioning their sexuality (when we've no idea of their actual preference - but likely regularly can involve access to every fantasy we've had).

If a footballer can ignore the insults regularly thrown at them by the opposition fans (and players) I doubt they'll be too concerned about people questioning their sexuality based on their teams location.

Taking this kind of thing too seriously at football is a bit silly. We should really be more concerned about maybe is how serious some of the people in the game and fans may take that - Because it does seem odd that players are only out after their career ends.

Whilst the fans might contribute to it, the atmosphere in the dressing room and clubs is probably far more significant than Palace fans shouting abuse at Brighton.

I think its odd that there seems to be as much focus on what we're shouting at a game, as there has been about pedophiles in the game being protected by clubs and owners.

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wordup 07 Aug 17 3.27pm
Originally posted by Stirlingsays So people are 'animals' if they say stupid things you don't like? Are people 'animals' if they don't feel ok with say homosexuality? Should they be banned from ever mentioning that? What other opinions are people 'animals' for holding? Edited by Stirlingsays (07 Aug 2017 3.05pm) I didn't say that anyone 'is' an animal. I just said that is someone is hurling out '****** this', 'queer that', thinking up terrible illnesses to wish upon people they are behaving in a way befitting of any worthwhile value system. It's not 'things I don't like', most people are against this kind of treatment of others. Edited by wordup (07 Aug 2017 3.29pm)
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07 Aug 17 3.27pm

Originally posted by Stirlingsays

So people are 'animals' if they say stupid things you don't like?

Are people 'animals' if they don't feel ok with say homosexuality? Should they be banned from ever mentioning that?

What other opinions are people 'animals' for holding?

Edited by Stirlingsays (07 Aug 2017 3.05pm)

I didn't say that anyone 'is' an animal. I just said that is someone is hurling out '****** this', 'queer that', thinking up terrible illnesses to wish upon people they are behaving in a way befitting of any worthwhile value system.

It's not 'things I don't like', most people are against this kind of treatment of others.

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jamiemartin721 Reading 07 Aug 17 3.29pm
Originally posted by Stirlingsays Well...I kind of agree with you....people should get feedback from what they say....Bill Burr is a controversial comedian who gets a lot of negative feedback from 'progressives'.....At what point though does this actually make people just play everything safe? Look at the BBC for example....No adult watches their stuff and enjoys it anymore because it's been sanitized into the wall. Edited by Stirlingsays (07 Aug 2017 3.18pm) Bill Burr is however funny, and I guess not serious. There is a classic rule of thumb, I like, which is if you laugh your not offended. The skill of a good comedian is to make people laugh, not to preach the truth of life - and by poking fun at things. The difference between a good controversial comedian and one who's just s*t, is how they craft their humour. I like Burr and Frankie Boyle because they're really juxtapositioning the absurdity of existence with how our own self importance frames our beliefs. Same as George Carlin and Bill Hicks, Lenny Bruce, Richard Pryor etc. That's not to say every 'controversial comedian' is great, its a very fine skill set. Just laughing at the nggers or the queers isn't enough, you have to make people laugh about how absurd it is that people care whether someone is gay or not, when we have a finite duration of life and things we could care about. "One Nation Under God, has turned into One Nation Under the Influence of One Drug" [Link]
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Reading 07 Aug 17 3.29pm

Originally posted by Stirlingsays

Look at the BBC for example....No adult watches their stuff and enjoys it anymore because it's been sanitized into the wall.

Edited by Stirlingsays (07 Aug 2017 3.18pm)

Bill Burr is however funny, and I guess not serious. There is a classic rule of thumb, I like, which is if you laugh your not offended. The skill of a good comedian is to make people laugh, not to preach the truth of life - and by poking fun at things.

The difference between a good controversial comedian and one who's just s**t, is how they craft their humour. I like Burr and Frankie Boyle because they're really juxtapositioning the absurdity of existence with how our own self importance frames our beliefs.

Same as George Carlin and Bill Hicks, Lenny Bruce, Richard Pryor etc. That's not to say every 'controversial comedian' is great, its a very fine skill set.

Just laughing at the n*ggers or the queers isn't enough, you have to make people laugh about how absurd it is that people care whether someone is gay or not, when we have a finite duration of life and things we could care about.

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wordup 07 Aug 17 3.33pm
Originally posted by jamiemartin721 Bill Burr is however funny, and I guess not serious. There is a classic rule of thumb, I like, which is if you laugh your not offended. The skill of a good comedian is to make people laugh, not to preach the truth of life - and by poking fun at things. The difference between a good controversial comedian and one who's just s*t, is how they craft their humour. I like Burr and Frankie Boyle because they're really juxtapositioning the absurdity of existence with how our own self importance frames our beliefs. Same as George Carlin and Bill Hicks, Lenny Bruce, Richard Pryor etc. That's not to say every 'controversial comedian' is great, its a very fine skill set. Just laughing at the nggers or the queers isn't enough, you have to make people laugh about how absurd it is that people care whether someone is gay or not, when we have a finite duration of life and things we could care about. I pretty much agree. Good comedians examine takes on life. They're often self critical and allow us to hold a mirror to our own experiences and beliefs. It's not just laughing at skin colour or sex acts or whatever. There is something to it.
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07 Aug 17 3.33pm

Originally posted by jamiemartin721

Same as George Carlin and Bill Hicks, Lenny Bruce, Richard Pryor etc. That's not to say every 'controversial comedian' is great, its a very fine skill set.

I pretty much agree. Good comedians examine takes on life. They're often self critical and allow us to hold a mirror to our own experiences and beliefs. It's not just laughing at skin colour or sex acts or whatever. There is something to it.

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Stirlingsays 07 Aug 17 3.35pm
Originally posted by wordup I didn't say that anyone 'is' an animal. I just said that is someone is hurling out '****** this', 'queer that', thinking up terrible illnesses to wish upon people they are behaving in a way befitting of any worthwhile value system. It's not 'things I don't like', most people are against this kind of treatment of others. Edited by wordup (07 Aug 2017 3.29pm) 'I don't know or care if Campbell is gay. Clearly those hurling abuse cared. He used to get loads of stupid AIDS comments shouted at him too. If people behave like animals, they cannot expect for things to always go their way. ' I don't know why you are now jumping around a pin on this....you related people to 'animals' for saying stupid stuff. We all 'behave like' animals, because that's exactly what we are. The only animals that can talk English anyway. 'Who are you and how did you get in here? I'm a locksmith. And, I'm a locksmith.' (Leslie Nielsen)
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07 Aug 17 3.35pm

Originally posted by wordup

It's not 'things I don't like', most people are against this kind of treatment of others.

Edited by wordup (07 Aug 2017 3.29pm)

'I don't know or care if Campbell is gay. Clearly those hurling abuse cared. He used to get loads of stupid AIDS comments shouted at him too. If people behave like animals, they cannot expect for things to always go their way. '

I don't know why you are now jumping around a pin on this....you related people to 'animals' for saying stupid stuff.

We all 'behave like' animals, because that's exactly what we are. The only animals that can talk English anyway.

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wordup 07 Aug 17 3.43pm
Originally posted by Stirlingsays Well...I kind of agree with you....people should get feedback from what they say....Bill Burr is a controversial comedian who gets a lot of negative feedback from 'progressives'.....At what point though does this actually make people just play everything safe? Look at the BBC for example....No adult watches their stuff and enjoys it anymore because it's been sanitized into the wall. Edited by Stirlingsays (07 Aug 2017 3.18pm) I don't think with comedy, it's easy to pigeonhole who likes what. It comes down to context again. Comedy is an examination of the human experience. It's not often an act of just mindlessly hurling out insults for the sake of it or to get a reaction. I like Bill Burr and even the likes of Norm Macdonald. They've both said all manner of things about race and sexuality but there is no malice there.
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07 Aug 17 3.43pm

Originally posted by Stirlingsays

Look at the BBC for example....No adult watches their stuff and enjoys it anymore because it's been sanitized into the wall.

Edited by Stirlingsays (07 Aug 2017 3.18pm)

I don't think with comedy, it's easy to pigeonhole who likes what. It comes down to context again. Comedy is an examination of the human experience. It's not often an act of just mindlessly hurling out insults for the sake of it or to get a reaction.

I like Bill Burr and even the likes of Norm Macdonald. They've both said all manner of things about race and sexuality but there is no malice there.

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Stirlingsays 07 Aug 17 3.46pm
Originally posted by jamiemartin721 Bill Burr is however funny, and I guess not serious. There is a classic rule of thumb, I like, which is if you laugh your not offended. The skill of a good comedian is to make people laugh, not to preach the truth of life - and by poking fun at things. The difference between a good controversial comedian and one who's just s*t, is how they craft their humour. I like Burr and Frankie Boyle because they're really juxtapositioning the absurdity of existence with how our own self importance frames our beliefs. Same as George Carlin and Bill Hicks, Lenny Bruce, Richard Pryor etc. That's not to say every 'controversial comedian' is great, its a very fine skill set. Just laughing at the nggers or the queers isn't enough, you have to make people laugh about how absurd it is that people care whether someone is gay or not, when we have a finite duration of life and things we could care about. Well, I agree with you but Burr gets a lot of sh1t for his routines.....It's definitely wearing him down a bit. I listened to one of his podcasts on it. It comes down to subjectivity whether someone is offended or not. We need to allow for people to be offended.. Edited by Stirlingsays (07 Aug 2017 3.48pm) 'Who are you and how did you get in here? I'm a locksmith. And, I'm a locksmith.' (Leslie Nielsen)
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07 Aug 17 3.46pm

Originally posted by jamiemartin721

Same as George Carlin and Bill Hicks, Lenny Bruce, Richard Pryor etc. That's not to say every 'controversial comedian' is great, its a very fine skill set.

Well, I agree with you but Burr gets a lot of sh1t for his routines.....It's definitely wearing him down a bit. I listened to one of his podcasts on it.

It comes down to subjectivity whether someone is offended or not. We need to allow for people to be offended..

Edited by Stirlingsays (07 Aug 2017 3.48pm)

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wordup 07 Aug 17 3.49pm
Originally posted by Stirlingsays 'I don't know or care if Campbell is gay. Clearly those hurling abuse cared. He used to get loads of stupid AIDS comments shouted at him too. If people behave like animals, they cannot expect for things to always go their way. ' I don't know why you are now jumping around a pin on this....you related people to 'animals' for saying stupid stuff. We all 'behave like' animals, because that's exactly what we are. The only animals that can talk English anyway. I was replying to someone saying basically who care about what is said about Sol Campbell, so that was my reply. Your problem I'm afraid is that you consistently have the sensitivity of a ballerina and a real visceral pained reaction to anything said and done by the left... but a zero empathy, 'who cares' take on anything said about minorities. There is no connection there. You get the theory of it, but you don't really care. That's why you can't let go of this 'animal' comment. You think you've caught me out somehow, when really you just reveal that you don't care if people have spittle flying out of their mouth as they yell out stuff about aids or ******s. Well done you. Edited by wordup (07 Aug 2017 3.50pm)
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07 Aug 17 3.49pm

Originally posted by Stirlingsays

I don't know why you are now jumping around a pin on this....you related people to 'animals' for saying stupid stuff.

We all 'behave like' animals, because that's exactly what we are. The only animals that can talk English anyway.

I was replying to someone saying basically who care about what is said about Sol Campbell, so that was my reply.

Your problem I'm afraid is that you consistently have the sensitivity of a ballerina and a real visceral pained reaction to anything said and done by the left... but a zero empathy, 'who cares' take on anything said about minorities. There is no connection there. You get the theory of it, but you don't really care. That's why you can't let go of this 'animal' comment. You think you've caught me out somehow, when really you just reveal that you don't care if people have spittle flying out of their mouth as they yell out stuff about aids or ******s. Well done you.

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Stirlingsays 07 Aug 17 3.49pm
Originally posted by wordup I don't think with comedy, it's easy to pigeonhole who likes what. It comes down to context again. Comedy is an examination of the human experience. It's not often an act of just mindlessly hurling out insults for the sake of it or to get a reaction. I like Bill Burr and even the likes of Norm Macdonald. They've both said all manner of things about race and sexuality but there is no malice there. I agree with you....but he gets a lot of sh1t for it....Chris Rock won't do college campuses anymore...neither does Burr....It's a problem. 'Who are you and how did you get in here? I'm a locksmith. And, I'm a locksmith.' (Leslie Nielsen)
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07 Aug 17 3.49pm

Originally posted by wordup

I like Bill Burr and even the likes of Norm Macdonald. They've both said all manner of things about race and sexuality but there is no malice there.

I agree with you....but he gets a lot of sh1t for it....Chris Rock won't do college campuses anymore...neither does Burr....It's a problem.

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wordup 07 Aug 17 3.50pm
Originally posted by Stirlingsays I agree with you....but he gets a lot of sh1t for it....Chris Rock won't do college campuses anymore...neither does Burr....It's a problem. America has lots of problems right now. This indeed is one of them. Edited by wordup (07 Aug 2017 3.52pm)
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07 Aug 17 3.50pm

Originally posted by Stirlingsays

I agree with you....but he gets a lot of sh1t for it....Chris Rock won't do college campuses anymore...neither does Burr....It's a problem.

America has lots of problems right now. This indeed is one of them.

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Stirlingsays 07 Aug 17 4.00pm
Originally posted by wordup I was replying to someone saying basically who care about what is said about Sol Campbell, so that was my reply. Your problem I'm afraid is that you consistently have the sensitivity of a ballerina and a real visceral pained reaction to anything said and done by the left... but a zero empathy, 'who cares' take on anything said about minorities. There is no connection there. You get the theory of it, but you don't really care. That's why you can't let go of this 'animal' comment. You think you've caught me out somehow, when really you just reveal that you don't care if people have spittle flying out of their mouth as they yell out stuff about aids or ******s. Well done you. Edited by wordup (07 Aug 2017 3.50pm) 'Pained reaction'....I don't really care about a left wing person having opinions....that's fine..In fact it's good...It keeps the right honest and hopefully vice versa...society benefits by having to accommodate diverse views...I just point out things when I see them... If someone takes high moral positions it often can be contradicted later on.....So they should rightly be very certain about what they say if they don't want 'feedback'.....Which we earlier agreed was a good thing I think. You're right...I don't care about an idiot (not you) saying idiotic things outside of a controlled environment...as long as that's all it is...It's something I'll suffer for the greater good and the necessary blurring that subjectivity brings. Edited by Stirlingsays (07 Aug 2017 4.02pm) 'Who are you and how did you get in here? I'm a locksmith. And, I'm a locksmith.' (Leslie Nielsen)
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07 Aug 17 4.00pm

Originally posted by wordup

I was replying to someone saying basically who care about what is said about Sol Campbell, so that was my reply.

Edited by wordup (07 Aug 2017 3.50pm)

'Pained reaction'....I don't really care about a left wing person having opinions....that's fine..In fact it's good...It keeps the right honest and hopefully vice versa...society benefits by having to accommodate diverse views...I just point out things when I see them... If someone takes high moral positions it often can be contradicted later on.....So they should rightly be very certain about what they say if they don't want 'feedback'.....Which we earlier agreed was a good thing I think.

You're right...I don't care about an idiot (not you) saying idiotic things outside of a controlled environment...as long as that's all it is...It's something I'll suffer for the greater good and the necessary blurring that subjectivity brings.

Edited by Stirlingsays (07 Aug 2017 4.02pm)

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