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Tom-the-eagle Croydon 14 Aug 20 11.07am | |
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Originally posted by mezzer
Not directly related to the results, but what I took to be a rather worrying indication of the modern student's take on life.....I was talking to a Professor from Manchester University a year or so ago and he said that, because of the status of the University, most students who got in were high achievers at their respective schools. However, in their new groups, not all could be as high achievers as the next as some had to be, by definition, lower than others in the group. The consequence was that some had very serious reactions to their "failure" as they'd never experienced failure before. So the University had to introduce cookery classes because it was "OK" to be a bad cook and it taught acceptance of not being best. I do wonder whether this is what happens if the one that comes last in a swimming gala gets as much or more applause than the winner, or you are second or third runner up rather than having lost. One of the most dangerous things in my mind is this "you can be anything you want to be" mantra that has been doing the rounds for some time now. No you can't. There are endless things that you can never be. Accept it. I would have loved to have been a professional footballer but it wasn't meant to be. I'll never be on the front cover of Men's Health magazine either. It doesn't mean that I begrudge those who can do those things. Good post. We live in a time when everyone gets a medal, just for participation. A generation of kids having grown up as you say, being told they can do anything. We cant all be pop stars, somebody has to drive the taxi or sweep the streets.
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JRW2 Dulwich 14 Aug 20 11.10am | |
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Originally posted by eaglesdare
I failed all my GCSE's didint bother with education again until i was 20 did a course and worked in tesco for years, went to uni got a degree got a good job and have just moved into my own place i have bought. GCSE's and A Levels are not the be all and end all! Well done you. But did you really not need any GCSEs or A levels to get to university? Or did you do them after leaving school?
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eaglesdare 14 Aug 20 11.57am | |
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Originally posted by JRW2
Well done you. But did you really not need any GCSEs or A levels to get to university? Or did you do them after leaving school? Cheers! I ended up doing an IT course which was equivalent to them both which got me to uni. I did at at 20! (wasnt that long ago) I know people can go to uni as mature student these days without needing anything! think you have to be over 24 or 25 tho?
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serial thriller The Promised Land 14 Aug 20 1.11pm | |
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I don't disagree that of course it's not the end of the world to not get all As. And obviously there's no shame in being a plumber, electrician etc instead of a biochemist. But when the schools closed, I told my bottom set, who were all working very hard and coming to lessons and who were all worried about what grades they would be given, that I was sure they would get the benefit of the doubt given the situation.
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Teddy Eagle 14 Aug 20 1.47pm | |
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Originally posted by serial thriller
I don't disagree that of course it's not the end of the world to not get all As. And obviously there's no shame in being a plumber, electrician etc instead of a biochemist. But when the schools closed, I told my bottom set, who were all working very hard and coming to lessons and who were all worried about what grades they would be given, that I was sure they would get the benefit of the doubt given the situation.
Why are these students in the bottom set?
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The Dolphin 14 Aug 20 2.07pm | |
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Just a few bullet points in no particular order but on both sides of the argument.
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cryrst The garden of England 14 Aug 20 3.05pm | |
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Originally posted by Teddy Eagle
Why are these students in the bottom set? I think most of the posters students fit that, I deserve and should get attitude; bearing in mind he most probably imparts his political views on them.
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ASCPFC Pro-Cathedral/caravan park 14 Aug 20 3.22pm | |
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Another band wagon to jump on. Poor me, didn't have to sit exams but passed them all. I want more. Victim mentality, how f***ing unusual these days.
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cryrst The garden of England 14 Aug 20 3.52pm | |
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Originally posted by ASCPFC
Another band wagon to jump on. Poor me, didn't have to sit exams but passed them all. I want more. Victim mentality, how f***ing unusual these days. Yup
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steeleye20 Croydon 14 Aug 20 5.00pm | |
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Who would have thought there could be a tory more hapless than 'failing Grayling'. Even the Daily Mail is calling for Williamson's head. Everywhere he goes a fresh disaster. An important lesson for the younger generation, that the tories f**k you over at the expense of the rich. That's more valuable than any 'A' level.
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serial thriller The Promised Land 14 Aug 20 5.21pm | |
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So at half time in this thread, here's the scores of the blame game so far... Teachers 1: they were too generous with their predicted grades, and generally give out too much false hope which doesn't prepare kids for the real world. Kids 5: They're 'thick c***s', who are lazy, did nothing and now play the victim as they always do, are all entitled to become millionaires but have no respect or brains to do anything else. Government 0: how could we expect them to do any better than there perfect neutral model of guessing? Criticizing them is unfair on the poor little munchkins who worked so hard. Haven't we all made mistakes after all? Still all to play for though in the second half!
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Rudi Hedman Caterham 14 Aug 20 5.38pm | |
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Serial, you weren’t in the slightest bit dramatic? A year to avoid a s*** first year university experience, resit and get the grades you think you’d have achieved and earn some money. ‘Stay safe’ and whatever cringeworthy sayings and all that and whatever they feel they want to communicate regarding Covid. Either be virtuous or go to the pub all the time ignoring all the social distancing and guidelines. It’s one year after 6+ months off and more until retakes and it’s hardly great anywhere anyway. Calm down.
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