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georgenorman 21 Sep 23 2.59pm | |
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Originally posted by Wisbech Eagle
Photographs are no more relevant than names. You don’t have to pretend anything. I am arguing that to use labels is unhelpful and serves no one. Same applies to the Germans, many of whom now hate the Nazis even more than we do and are ashamed that is part of their history. That the BNP has any particular demographic is also irrelevant. They would hold unacceptable opinions whoever they were. Same with the far left. I’ll ignore the rest as it is beyond stupid. Nothing is relevant to you except your pathological need to post utter nonsense.
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Badger11 Beckenham 21 Sep 23 4.52pm | |
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Originally posted by Wisbech Eagle
A court case arising out of this could be a pivotal moment in our understanding of what constitutes sexual consent. Others don’t. They believe that positive agreement must be given on every occasion. Even if the first 100 times was consensual there still needs to be a positive agreement on the 101st. People can be intimidated, overwhelmed, in awe, fearful of violent reaction, have changed their mind or be inexperienced, just freeze and not voice any objections. Going ahead without certainty that the partner also wants to can be regarded as rape. The standard required must be, ask first and if in doubt, don’t. Judged on Brand’s admitted attitude I don’t think he is capable of such a standard, let alone recognising it’s necessity. There was a date rape case involving 2 students. The victim agreed that she willingly went back to his flat stripped naked and took part in mutual oral sex (69). However when he penetrated her she withdraw consent. The jury rightly in my opinion decided it wasn't rape. Lawyers and politicians can argue about how many angels there are on a pin head but a jury will use commonsense when deciding if a person consented or not. It has been suggested that people should sign consent forms but that wont work either as a victim can argue that they withdraw consent after signing the form. It's a minefield with no easy answers. Edited by Badger11 (21 Sep 2023 4.53pm)
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SW19 CPFC Addiscombe West 21 Sep 23 5.00pm | |
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Originally posted by Badger11
There was a date rape case involving 2 students. The victim agreed that she willingly went back to his flat stripped naked and took part in mutual oral sex (69). However when he penetrated her she withdraw consent. The jury rightly in my opinion decided it wasn't rape. Lawyers and politicians can argue about how many angels there are on a pin head but a jury will use commonsense when deciding if a person consented or not. It has been suggested that people should sign consent forms but that wont work either as a victim can argue that they withdraw consent after signing the form. It's a minefield with no easy answers. Edited by Badger11 (21 Sep 2023 4.53pm) Defo depends on the context of the case. If you're suggesting that because someone is engaged in one sexual act that means that all sexual acts are on the table, i.e. because of the oral consent that means full penetrative consent then it's not that straightforward. Which is your point about a minefield, which is correct. However, some mines are more easily identifiable than others. Not all cases are the same
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Badger11 Beckenham 21 Sep 23 5.11pm | |
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Originally posted by SW19 CPFC
Defo depends on the context of the case. If you're suggesting that because someone is engaged in one sexual act that means that all sexual acts are on the table, i.e. because of the oral consent that means full penetrative consent then it's not that straightforward. Which is your point about a minefield, which is correct. However, some mines are more easily identifiable than others. Not all cases are the same Sure but my main point was that lawyers and politicians need to use commonsense when defining consent otherwise they jury has an impossible task. In theory if a man is in the process of ejaculating the woman can withdraw her consent at that point. In the absence of witnesses and other evidence Jury's have to go on the balance of probabilities do they believe victim or accused. And when they often say not guilty due to lack of compelling evidence then the politicians and activists complain. As I said a minefield where responsibility gets dumped on the jury.
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Stirlingsays 21 Sep 23 5.21pm | |
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Originally posted by SW19 CPFC
Defo depends on the context of the case. If you're suggesting that because someone is engaged in one sexual act that means that all sexual acts are on the table, i.e. because of the oral consent that means full penetrative consent then it's not that straightforward. Which is your point about a minefield, which is correct. However, some mines are more easily identifiable than others. Not all cases are the same It is a minefield, which is why judgements should be cautious. For me, with stuff like that, it's about physical coercion or violence.....But that's also sometimes not so easy to prove. If a women puts herself into a sexual situation and then starts treating the events like a running commentary consent form it's unrealistic. How would anyone of us know the likely truth. I think we would have to personally know the people involved to gauge how honest they are as individuals....and even that's not perfect.
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Stirlingsays 21 Sep 23 5.23pm | |
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Originally posted by Badger11
Sure but my main point was that lawyers and politicians need to use commonsense when defining consent otherwise they jury has an impossible task. In theory if a man is in the process of ejaculating the woman can withdraw her consent at that point. In the absence of witnesses and other evidence Jury's have to go on the balance of probabilities do they believe victim or accused. And when they often say not guilty due to lack of compelling evidence then the politicians and activists complain. As I said a minefield where responsibility gets dumped on the jury. Yeah, I heard that one once and it's nuts. If you forgive the pun. There are certain announcements from public bodies that just have you questioning the common sense of the people involved.
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Stirlingsays 21 Sep 23 5.31pm | |
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As a social conservative I too also find the idea of a male who is significantly older than 16 shagging a 16 year old female as distasteful. The father would be in his rights to be angry....If this happened then the father is either not in their lives or just a poor one. However, I also get a bit frustrated with this contention when I hear it brought up. Something should either be legal or not.....Attaching shame to something legal is just an indication to me that that law is inadequate. Raise the age of consent or add some age difference barrier or remove the criticism. Everything should be clear because if Brand did this and it was consensual then he did nothing illegal. Just make it very clear what's ok to do and what isn't ok to do.
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eagleman13 On The Road To Hell & Alicante 21 Sep 23 5.34pm | |
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Anyway, has Russell Brand been arrested & charged for what the usual suspects want him to be? Asking for the world.
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Wisbech Eagle Truro Cornwall 21 Sep 23 5.48pm | |
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Originally posted by Teddy Eagle
It wasn't raised or mentioned but is still the reason. The narrative has changed then, originally your claim was that the police were biding their time and working with social services to build their cases. If resources were the problem what would they have prioritised over the on going abuse of thousands of young people? They weren’t biding their time. They were adopting a softly softly strategy that appears, due to it being applied in several places, to have been devised centrally. Whether that was an acknowledgement of a lack of resources is unknown. No one argues that the abuse of thousands of children ought not be a priority but it’s how to achieve the best outcome with the available resources that the commanders had to decide. Who knows what was said by them to their political masters. Alongside that is the fact that poor recruitment, poor pay and poor training results in a poor quality of service. Underfunding is the root cause of that.
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Badger11 Beckenham 21 Sep 23 5.57pm | |
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Originally posted by Stirlingsays
As a social conservative I too also find the idea of a male who is significantly older than 16 shagging a 16 year old female as distasteful. The father would be in his rights to be angry....If this happened then the father is either not in their lives or just a poor one. However, I also get a bit frustrated with this contention when I hear it brought up. Something should either be legal or not.....Attaching shame to something legal is just an indication to me that that law is inadequate. Raise the age of consent or add some age difference barrier or remove the criticism. Everything should be clear because if Brand did this and it was consensual then he did nothing illegal.
Any law which has an age requirement will always have this problem. The LA police made a big deal about finding a p*** magazine at MJ's house called Barely Legal which of course meant it was legal.
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SW19 CPFC Addiscombe West 21 Sep 23 6.03pm | |
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Originally posted by Stirlingsays
As a social conservative I too also find the idea of a male who is significantly older than 16 shagging a 16 year old female as distasteful. The father would be in his rights to be angry....If this happened then the father is either not in their lives or just a poor one. However, I also get a bit frustrated with this contention when I hear it brought up. Something should either be legal or not.....Attaching shame to something legal is just an indication to me that that law is inadequate. Raise the age of consent or add some age difference barrier or remove the criticism. Everything should be clear because if Brand did this and it was consensual then he did nothing illegal. Just make it very clear what's ok to do and what isn't ok to do.
There's a lot of focus about illegality here as though if nothing has been proven to be illegal, then move on, nothing to see here. Savile would be delighted. I'd argue that public social and moral critique of a public figure held up to be some sort of past national treasure is just as valid and note that this can quite rightly lead to various individuals and institutions creating distance between someone without any illegality needing to be involved. If I'm a brand (of the corporate type) and the sordid details of someone I pay to be associated with sleeping with hundreds of women, some borderline children come out in the papers without legal challenge, along with everything else plus actual factual reminders of how cringe and creepy I used to actually be come to light, I think I'd know what I'd do. He has right to reply – give an interview. Follow up statement. Get the lawyers involved if untrue. I'm afraid all I hear so far is... silence.
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Teddy Eagle 21 Sep 23 6.04pm | |
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Originally posted by Wisbech Eagle
They weren’t biding their time. They were adopting a softly softly strategy that appears, due to it being applied in several places, to have been devised centrally. Whether that was an acknowledgement of a lack of resources is unknown. No one argues that the abuse of thousands of children ought not be a priority but it’s how to achieve the best outcome with the available resources that the commanders had to decide. Who knows what was said by them to their political masters. Alongside that is the fact that poor recruitment, poor pay and poor training results in a poor quality of service. Underfunding is the root cause of that. OK. I'll stick with the fear of being thought racist idea as stated by various police chiefs and others.
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