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Have you ever been put into the 'Friend-zone' ?
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 Mapletree  Croydon 08 Sep 19 10.09am |
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Originally posted by Rudi Hedman
Any proper mate would rip the p1ss out of you for doing this for any length of time and years ago plenty would have. This is a post in the reddit link and says all. ‘Here's the thing, the "friend zone" doesn't really exist. Allow me to explain...... Men and women cannot relate to each other...at least not on a "friends" level. Let's be honest, women are only "friends" with guys because they are maybe attracted to them on some level and they LOVE attention and orbiters. Men are only "friends" with women because they either want to f*** them, or they want a relationship with them. That's it. Sure, a few genuine friendships MIGHT slip through the cracks (where neither party is sexually interested in/or attracted to each other, and they have similar interests), but that's the exception, not the rule. As a straight male, do you genuinely want to hear about gossip, who she's dating, her period cycle, her leg-shaving tips, the newest Kardashian episode? What's that you say? No? Good. Then, you probably shouldn't be "just friends" with females. When I was growing up, you were a man and you had male friends. Women were women, and they had female friends. In my opinion, this is more in tune with nature. The whole intersex friends thing really became popular when liberalism exploded on the scene. In my humble opinion, it's a false liberal idea, and like most of their ideas, it isn't natural or feasible. Because, guess what? As soon as your female "friend" gets a boyfriend, she will be nowhere to be found.’ Ah, are those the main topics in the female world? Clearly I wouldn’t know. And there I was thinking it was all shoes, handbags and babies.
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 Cucking Funt Clapham on the Back 08 Sep 19 10.10am |
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I prefer the originator of the acronym to provide the explanation.
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| Rudi Hedman Caterham 08 Sep 19 11.49am |
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Originally posted by DanH
Genuinely feel sorry for you thinking this is true. As I would you when your missus tells you the male ‘friend’ she sees 3-5 times a week is just a friend. I take it you’ve never seen ‘When Harry Met Sally’ then. Men and women can be mates, but if it’s a case of them socialising as just a pair, one of them, usually the man, will either want to get into the pants of the ‘friend’, or want a relationship. When people meet as a group then I agree with you. As the Reddit poster said, there are exceptions to this, such as if they have a common interest or share a regular activity and that’s the reason for them meeting up, but this notion that you have a friend of the opposite sex just the same as friends of the same sex simply isn’t true. How many married people do you know who go out for a night of just drinks and chat with an opposite sex friend when their opposite sex partner is at home knowing? I look forward to your reply in how millennials have got it right and everyone before hasn’t and hasn’t a clue.
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| DanH SW2 08 Sep 19 7.03pm |
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Originally posted by Rudi Hedman
As I would you when your missus tells you the male ‘friend’ she sees 3-5 times a week is just a friend. I take it you’ve never seen ‘When Harry Met Sally’ then. Men and women can be mates, but if it’s a case of them socialising as just a pair, one of them, usually the man, will either want to get into the pants of the ‘friend’, or want a relationship. When people meet as a group then I agree with you. As the Reddit poster said, there are exceptions to this, such as if they have a common interest or share a regular activity and that’s the reason for them meeting up, but this notion that you have a friend of the opposite sex just the same as friends of the same sex simply isn’t true. How many married people do you know who go out for a night of just drinks and chat with an opposite sex friend when their opposite sex partner is at home knowing? I look forward to your reply in how millennials have got it right and everyone before hasn’t and hasn’t a clue. Two of my closest mates are female and there’s zero intention of anyone getting in anyone’s pants.
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| Tom-the-eagle Croydon 08 Sep 19 7.37pm |
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Originally posted by DanH
Two of my closest mates are female and there’s zero intention of anyone getting in anyone’s pants. Well there is on their part
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| Rudi Hedman Caterham 08 Sep 19 8.56pm |
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Originally posted by DanH
Two of my closest mates are female and there’s zero intention of anyone getting in anyone’s pants. Big girl’s blouse. You are the exception. Do they play in the front row for a rugby team?
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cryrst  The garden of England 08 Sep 19 9.07pm |
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Originally posted by DanH
Two of my closest mates are female and there’s zero intention of anyone getting in anyone’s pants. Probably voted leave.
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| Stirlingsays 08 Sep 19 9.32pm |
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Originally posted by DanH
Two of my closest mates are female and there’s zero intention of anyone getting in anyone’s pants. Probably the least surprising news ever.
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| Mapletree Croydon 08 Sep 19 11.24pm |
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Originally posted by Rudi Hedman
Big girl’s blouse. You are the exception. Do they play in the front row for a rugby team? You really don’t have female friends do you? Just wow.
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| Rudi Hedman Caterham 08 Sep 19 11.25pm |
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Originally posted by Stirlingsays
Probably the least surprising news ever. Effeminate male whose two best friends are female.
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PalazioVecchio  south pole 08 Sep 19 11.37pm |
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Originally posted by DanH
Two of my closest mates are female and there’s zero intention of anyone getting in anyone’s pants. would that qualify you for the T0sser-zone Dan ?
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| ex hibitionist Hastings 09 Sep 19 12.21am |
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Originally posted by DanH
Two of my closest mates are female and there’s zero intention of anyone getting in anyone’s pants. you may be only speaking for yourself, for all you know your two friends may be naked in the scissors position as you are reading this, dirty cows
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