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matt_himself Matataland 22 Jan 17 12.47pm | |
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Originally posted by Sportyteacher
Well done, Nick! The voice of common sense and real experience in life who likewise understands the consequences of last Friday's crazy behaviour in the House of Commons. Other core themes to PSHE curriculum include health and well-being as well as living in the wider world (including economic wellbeing and aspects of careers education). Perhaps Matt also believes that parents are just as capable of exercising sound judgment as to how their offspring receive adequate access to active healthy lifestyle provision when the evidence is all around us as to spiralling levels of childhood obesity. I am a reasonable man and will ask you for a third time why teachers are better at delivering sex education than parents?
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A_JsShorts 22 Jan 17 1.36pm | |
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Originally posted by matt_himself
I am a reasonable man and will ask you for a third time why teachers are better at delivering sex education than parents? There are many teachers who would do a terrible job at teaching PSHE, so in that sense you are not wrong! In my last school I led on the PSHE curriculum and organised it's delivery across the school. It involved a lot more than sex education, things that some parents may not know how or what to teach their own children. that's not disrespectful to parents or limiting choice, if left to parents that also may limit the choice of what their children learn. Many children don't want to talk to their parents (and vice versa) about STI's, p***. grooming etc. So the reason I think it is should be taught in schools (for which when I led it we oftenused outside speakers who were trained in certain aspects, such as doctors and nurses, counsellors,police officers etc) and every child was given an equal and broad PSHE education.
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nickgusset Shizzlehurst 22 Jan 17 1.44pm | |
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Originally posted by A_JsShorts
There are many teachers who would do a terrible job at teaching PSHE, so in that sense you are not wrong! In my last school I led on the PSHE curriculum and organised it's delivery across the school. It involved a lot more than sex education, things that some parents may not know how or what to teach their own children. that's not disrespectful to parents or limiting choice, if left to parents that also may limit the choice of what their children learn. Many children don't want to talk to their parents (and vice versa) about STI's, p***. grooming etc. So the reason I think it is should be taught in schools (for which when I led it we oftenused outside speakers who were trained in certain aspects, such as doctors and nurses, counsellors,police officers etc) and every child was given an equal and broad PSHE education. Well put. Not bad for someone with a sense of victimhood and entitlement.
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susmik PLYMOUTH -But Made in Old Coulsdon... 22 Jan 17 2.16pm | |
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Originally posted by matt_himself
I am a reasonable man and will ask you for a third time why teachers are better at delivering sex education than parents? I second that one....as I cannot see for the life of me why any child would want a teacher to tell him/her if she is a male or a female. No wonder so many kids think they are in the wrong bodies. It never happened 50 years ago the world has gone mad!
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nickgusset Shizzlehurst 22 Jan 17 2.24pm | |
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Originally posted by susmik
I second that one....as I cannot see for the life of me why any child would want a teacher to tell him/her if she is a male or a female. No wonder so many kids think they are in the wrong bodies. It never happened 50 years ago the world has gone mad! where and when has this happened Mike?
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A_JsShorts 22 Jan 17 2.29pm | |
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Originally posted by susmik
I second that one....as I cannot see for the life of me why any child would want a teacher to tell him/her if she is a male or a female. No wonder so many kids think they are in the wrong bodies. It never happened 50 years ago the world has gone mad! And this sadly is where you are ignorant of what is actually taught in PSHE lessons. I've encountered two boys in my 8 years who have chosen to wear girls uniform and be called by a girls name. Whether they go on to have gender reassignment surgery or chose to live their life as a transgender person is nothing to do with school.
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Kermit8 Hevon 22 Jan 17 2.46pm | |
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Originally posted by matt_himself
You really should have picked a better argument than that. That is deeply offensive to parents, smacks of social engineering and limits parental choice. And judging by the quality of posts on here by teachers, yourself included, convince me that teachers are better at doing this than parents. Teachers cannot appear to spell or understand the difference between the trade and budget deficit's. Why should they be trusted with sex education?
But thanks for your concern.
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matt_himself Matataland 22 Jan 17 2.54pm | |
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Originally posted by Kermit8
But thanks for your concern. I knew you would pipe up. Once again not adding to the debate but looking to throw a few insults around. Anyway, I find myself as a stepfather these days. Strange innit, life.
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matt_himself Matataland 22 Jan 17 3.02pm | |
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Originally posted by A_JsShorts
There are many teachers who would do a terrible job at teaching PSHE, so in that sense you are not wrong! In my last school I led on the PSHE curriculum and organised it's delivery across the school. It involved a lot more than sex education, things that some parents may not know how or what to teach their own children. that's not disrespectful to parents or limiting choice, if left to parents that also may limit the choice of what their children learn. Many children don't want to talk to their parents (and vice versa) about STI's, p***. grooming etc. So the reason I think it is should be taught in schools (for which when I led it we oftenused outside speakers who were trained in certain aspects, such as doctors and nurses, counsellors,police officers etc) and every child was given an equal and broad PSHE education. Good answer, Soph. My point was two fold, surely parents should be given a choice on whether this is taught at school. There are many parents who would not want their kids taught it at school and I do believe that their wishes should be respected. Secondly, I am not sure that teachers are the right people to do this all the time. The outside speakers, such as health care professionals, is a good example of how it could be done. Teaching respect of others to eliminate bullying is important. Whether the kid is fat, ginger, a 'gaylord' (80's schoolyard slang) or wears the 2017 version of Simod trainers, one would hope that there is a government initiative to give kids the tools to deal with it.
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Kermit8 Hevon 22 Jan 17 3.05pm | |
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Parents are allowed to opt out their kids from the lessons if they so wish.
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Southampton_Eagle At the after party 22 Jan 17 3.14pm | |
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Originally posted by susmik
I second that one....as I cannot see for the life of me why any child would want a teacher to tell him/her if she is a male or a female. No wonder so many kids think they are in the wrong bodies. It never happened 50 years ago the world has gone mad! F*cking hell mate School doesn't teach you what sexuality you are, society as a whole is a lot more liberal than when you was a confused teen which I expect was the late fifties.
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A_JsShorts 22 Jan 17 3.21pm | |
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Originally posted by matt_himself
Good answer, Soph. My point was two fold, surely parents should be given a choice on whether this is taught at school. There are many parents who would not want their kids taught it at school and I do believe that their wishes should be respected. Secondly, I am not sure that teachers are the right people to do this all the time. The outside speakers, such as health care professionals, is a good example of how it could be done. Teaching respect of others to eliminate bullying is important. Whether the kid is fat, ginger, a 'gaylord' (80's schoolyard slang) or wears the 2017 version of Simod trainers, one would hope that there is a government initiative to give kids the tools to deal with it. Kermit is right, a schools PSHE policy should be freely available for parents to read, as all policies are and if a parent does not wish for their child to participate then they can withdraw their child if they want. I've never come across a parent making that request myself.
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