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We are goin up! Flag Coulsdon 05 Sep 16 3.01pm Send a Private Message to We are goin up! Add We are goin up! as a friend

I went to all boys primary and was petrified of girls all through secondary school. Even at uni it took me a year-and-a-bit to be completely relaxed round them. Let's face it, the most important thing for a bloke is confidence around birds (apart from CPFC obviously), don't harm that for no real reason.

 


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jamiemartin721 Flag Reading 05 Sep 16 5.44pm

Go with the one with the best classics program.

I think the same sex generalisation is somewhat skewed by Girls only schools doing a lot better than mixed sex, and that outside of private schools boys only schools aren't that much better - unless they're private schools.

Male private boarding school is 'character building'. Nothing like non-consensual sodomy to build up character.

 


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cardiff eagle Flag 05 Sep 16 5.57pm Send a Private Message to cardiff eagle Add cardiff eagle as a friend

The whole talking to girls debate is strange. I went to an all boys school and am now married first in my group of uni mates and the second one to get married next week also went to all boys school!

Between ages 12-16 talking to girls isn't important anyway if we're honest and is jut a distraction.

Go for the school which has the best education on offer.

 

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Pete53 Flag Hassocks 05 Sep 16 6.32pm Send a Private Message to Pete53 Add Pete53 as a friend

I went to a single-sex school and far as the education was concerned it was fine. However, I think it did set me back with my relationships and understanding of females - for a while anyway.

I was a fairly shy lad and I think if I'd been exposed to day to day contact with girls I would have had more confidence to relate to the opposite sex in a easy come easy go manner.

My early romantic dalliances with girls involved some moments of excruciating embarrassment.

In the end though the quality of the school is what counts.

 

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bubble wrap Flag Carparks in South East London 05 Sep 16 6.34pm

Life is an education, in life we mix, same should be said with schools. Most girls are more mature than boys going through school and especially nowadays boys and girls hang out together and reign the boys in a bit. Would never put my children in a same sex school as they need to mix and learn from each other.

 

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Mad4palace Flag 05 Sep 16 7.55pm Send a Private Message to Mad4palace Add Mad4palace as a friend

I got sent to an all boys school and I think it impacted me negatively, classes were extremely rowdy and the less intelligent and less well behaved boys disrupted classes a lot, it dragged me down a lot from where I left off at primary level. I think in an environment mixed with girls, a bit of female disapproval when they messed around would stop disruptive boys from going overboard. The single sex education approach is bizarre IMO and definitely f***ed up my confidence with girls during my early to mid teens. I think those who went mixed schools do better in their later relationships because they've made mistakes with girlfriends in their earlier teens. You're trying to form a fully rounded man, not a monk.

 

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matt_himself Flag Matataland 05 Sep 16 8.42pm Send a Private Message to matt_himself Add matt_himself as a friend

We need to bring back Grammar Schools, birching and teachers that aren't complete benders and leave the profession with 'stress' after teaching finger painting to five year olds for four years.

I say to these placard wielding malcontents, try getting USD 10m out of Russia to pay service providers before contracts are voided. Then tell me what stress is.

 


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Michaelawt85 Flag Bexley 05 Sep 16 9.48pm Send a Private Message to Michaelawt85 Add Michaelawt85 as a friend

Well we have grammar schools here and sadly what happens is the rich folk put their offspring through private education until the age if 11 and then they end up in grammars as its akin to private schooling but gratis. The gap between the results of the selective schools vs non selective is vast and to be honest it feels like your child is thrown on to the educational scrap heap before they have even walked through the door of the school as a result. I.know grammar school isn't the be all and end all of life but if any of my children ever get the opportunity to be schooled in one I will grasp hold of the opportunity with both hands..

As for benders .. Well that would be my younger son's teacher... All day long

 


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Hoof Hearted 06 Sep 16 9.36am

I went to an all boys senior school from 1965 to 1972 after failing my 11+ exam.

Our school was streamed A1, A2, B1, B2. A1 classes were GCE targeted, A2 CSE targetted, B1 were taught trades and B2 were usually playing truant and/or smoking by the bike sheds or fighting another school.

Academically I did very well with 8 GCE O Levels and 2 A Levels, Maths and Applied Maths... I had offers from 2 Universities but chose not to go and went to work at 18.

With regard to the ladies I think it did hold me back.

I was shy and lacking in confidence up until I was 21 and then the ladies didn't know what had hit them!

Shame was Mandy Blunden, a gorgeous young blonde who lived over our back fence got fed up waiting for me to ask her out and was already engaged to a bloke when I got my mojo working.

 

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cardiff eagle Flag 06 Sep 16 11.13am Send a Private Message to cardiff eagle Add cardiff eagle as a friend

I'd rather my child played catchup for a year or two in how to speak to girls than never caught up educationally.

Also, the boys and girls schools have discos and meet ups so is really irrelevant. Sure you might lose virginity at 18 not 16 but does that really matter?

 

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Littlebogreek Flag 06 Sep 16 11.21am Send a Private Message to Littlebogreek Add Littlebogreek as a friend

My son has gone to a mixed school and has done very well, I went to a mixed school and did terribly in spite of being blessed with decent brains because I spent the whole time trying to impress girls. I guess it comes down to the boy himself - if you think (like my son) he is strong willed and savvy enough to do what is right, go mixed as he will benefit from the better more balanced socialisation. If you think that he will fawn over birds the whole time and not do any work, send him to the all boys. I dont personally think that a more or less macho environment etc should be considered a factor, bottom line is kids (and adults come to think of it) can be d*cks in either environment. Personally I would expect less machoism is an all boys schools as there are no girls there to impress but this is a guess based on literally no facts and just how I would have expected myself to behave. Literally every stupid thing I did at school (and my life now I think about it) was done with "is this going to help me pull" in mind. Sad but true.

 

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DanH Flag SW2 06 Sep 16 11.33am Send a Private Message to DanH Add DanH as a friend

I went to an all boys' Grammar school and I'm the straightest and sexiest poster on here.

 

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