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blackpalacefan Flag 21 Aug 16 12.59am Send a Private Message to blackpalacefan Add blackpalacefan as a friend

Originally posted by Boooo

Sad times. I went to Monks Hill nearly 40 years ago, was an ok estate back then but as in New Addington (where my family still live) it's changed, massively for the worse. This 'disrespect' thing amongst kids is idiocy in it's thinking and causes more problems than it solves.
I'm with Stuk on this. Carry (any) knife, 5 years, use it, 10 years or more severe if it results in death.
We have to get more Police back on the streets and get away from this ridiculous state of mind regarding stop and search.

One more thing. My generation are to blame as we've been bullied by the limp wristed and do gooders into not being able to instill discipline into our children. I'm not talking about beat them up but the odd clip round the ear never ever did anyone any harm. In fact 99% of the time it gave you some respect of the person delivering your lesson. I'll bet there are some out there now who remember the moment when that respect kicked in.

Too many rude boy almost ferral kids out there and we can now do nothing about it.

Shame on this s***ty world. RIP kid.

I'm with you on this 100%. Once kids think its fine to carry its a slippery slope. I get why some do it, but if there's a hard and fast rule it benefits them and us. So many needless deaths. Imagine being this kids mum or dad.

 

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coulsdoneagle Flag London 21 Aug 16 1.39am Send a Private Message to coulsdoneagle Add coulsdoneagle as a friend

5 years for carrying a knife does nothing for the problem, only ruins the lives of those who get caught without doing anything to change their situation.

Smacks of an American model where they use prison wily July and do nothing to stop the issues from arising. A lot of people involved in gangs are not bad kids, just unfortunate kids.

Not saying I have a solution, just that I think 5 years for having something you shouldn't is absolutely barmy.

 

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7mins Flag In the bush 21 Aug 16 2.24am Send a Private Message to 7mins Add 7mins as a friend

Originally posted by blackpalacefan

Maybe he moved in the wrong circles but I very much doubt he deserved what happened to him. Since the kid died in such a pitiful way, without more information our first thought shouldn't be 'maybe he had it coming'.

None of us know what happened, maybe he was the aggressor, maybe he was a innocent bystander. What we do know is, he was involved with gangs (his family have said as much) so while I don't believe he got what he deserved, I do believe he made choices that increased the chances of being stabbed.
You'll get some people saying "this isn't the time" well I think it is. We should have one aim... Stopping this from happening to any other kids, and now.. When things are raw... We need to drive home the message... Like the victims mum has.

 

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blackpalacefan Flag 21 Aug 16 2.49am Send a Private Message to blackpalacefan Add blackpalacefan as a friend

Originally posted by 7mins

None of us know what happened, maybe he was the aggressor, maybe he was a innocent bystander. What we do know is, he was involved with gangs (his family have said as much) so while I don't believe he got what he deserved, I do believe he made choices that increased the chances of being stabbed.
You'll get some people saying "this isn't the time" well I think it is. We should have one aim... Stopping this from happening to any other kids, and now.. When things are raw... We need to drive home the message... Like the victims mum has.

I think you've been quite balanced here. My emphasis is on the fact that mistakes or not, he didn't deserve such a truly sad end. It's easy when young to make these mistakes or to want to join a certain crowd. To lose your life as a result is a tragedy though. I'm with you 100% on the fact that we need to use these events to press home the fact that if you move in these circles, you open yourself up to dangers that you didn't bargain on. We need to get highlight incidents like these to at least get kids to realise its not all fun and games.

 

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7mins Flag In the bush 21 Aug 16 3.01am Send a Private Message to 7mins Add 7mins as a friend

Originally posted by blackpalacefan

I think you've been quite balanced here. My emphasis is on the fact that mistakes or not, he didn't deserve such a truly sad end. It's easy when young to make these mistakes or to want to join a certain crowd. To lose your life as a result is a tragedy though. I'm with you 100% on the fact that we need to use these events to press home the fact that if you move in these circles, you open yourself up to dangers that you didn't bargain on. We need to get highlight incidents like these to at least get kids to realise its not all fun and games.

Yep.
The young lad killed in south Norwood a few months ago, went to school with my cousin. Now my cousin is a bit of a "lad" but seeing someone he knew get killed, seems to have straighten him out. He has got himself a job with Network Rail working on Track maintenance. Now this isn't the best job, but it's a 100 times better than the "career path" he was heading down.
When these young lads start playing wannabe gangstas, their future is bleak, and I bet this poor fellas last moments on earth were filled with regret, and his mum must be going through hell... But if one of his mates stops carrying a blade after this, then this dark cloud has the smallest of silver linings.

 

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7mins Flag In the bush 21 Aug 16 3.03am Send a Private Message to 7mins Add 7mins as a friend

Obviously, the other fear is... His mates set out for revenge.

 

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blackpalacefan Flag 21 Aug 16 3.13am Send a Private Message to blackpalacefan Add blackpalacefan as a friend

Originally posted by 7mins

Yep.
The young lad killed in south Norwood a few months ago, went to school with my cousin. Now my cousin is a bit of a "lad" but seeing someone he knew get killed, seems to have straighten him out. He has got himself a job with Network Rail working on Track maintenance. Now this isn't the best job, but it's a 100 times better than the "career path" he was heading down.
When these young lads start playing wannabe gangstas, their future is bleak, and I bet this poor fellas last moments on earth were filled with regret, and his mum must be going through hell... But if one of his mates stops carrying a blade after this, then this dark cloud has the smallest of silver linings.

It sounds like he got a real wake up call. It's a shame that it took such a tragedy to set him on that path but at least he's on it.

 

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7mins Flag In the bush 21 Aug 16 11.25am Send a Private Message to 7mins Add 7mins as a friend

Originally posted by blackpalacefan

It sounds like he got a real wake up call. It's a shame that it took such a tragedy to set him on that path but at least he's on it.

Fingers crossed he stays on it. I think the plan is, is to get him out of T Heath, too many temptations. His mum is going to move to Crawley, not Beverley Hills but far enough to be a new start.

 

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Boooo Flag 21 Aug 16 11.55am Send a Private Message to Boooo Add Boooo as a friend

Originally posted by coulsdoneagle

5 years for carrying a knife does nothing for the problem, only ruins the lives of those who get caught without doing anything to change their situation.

Smacks of an American model where they use prison wily July and do nothing to stop the issues from arising. A lot of people involved in gangs are not bad kids, just unfortunate kids.

Not saying I have a solution, just that I think 5 years for having something you shouldn't is absolutely barmy.

Don't take a knife out then. Ask most parents who have lost a child to knife crime and they'll want the aggressor to be put away forever. Ask most parents of aggressors if they thought 5 years (2-3 years after good behaviour) 5 years was a price to pay (getting caught) before their child became a possible murderer, they'd take that all day.

It's not just the child at either end of the knife that pays the price.

 


I refuse to believe there are that many people out there that can't spell. Too f**king lazy, that's what I think.

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7mins Flag In the bush 21 Aug 16 12.15pm Send a Private Message to 7mins Add 7mins as a friend

Originally posted by Boooo

Don't take a knife out then. Ask most parents who have lost a child to knife crime and they'll want the aggressor to be put away forever. Ask most parents of aggressors if they thought 5 years (2-3 years after good behaviour) 5 years was a price to pay (getting caught) before their child became a possible murderer, they'd take that all day.

It's not just the child at either end of the knife that pays the price.

You're right, we need to get the message across that carrying a knife is totally unacceptable and if you carry one, you do so at tremendous risk. Communities need to work hard, get the message across, if ya carrying you're gonna get a big sentence if caught. Anyone who glamorises gang culture or drug dealing should be demonised.

 

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Sportyteacher Flag London 21 Aug 16 12.33pm Send a Private Message to Sportyteacher Add Sportyteacher as a friend

Originally posted by manwitheagletattoo

I felt that I have to write this. last night a young lad of 19 yrs old was stabbed on the Monks Hill estate and later died in hospital of his wounds. I didn't know the young lad or whether he was into football or any kind of sport, that really doesn't matter, what matters is that at 19 years old he had the world to look forward. I really don't know what I'm trying to say here, I don't usually put pen to paper, so to speak, on these matters, a complete and utter waste of life,Just like so many others that have been stabbed.
I grew up and went to school on the Monks Hill estate that was a long time ago, even though I have moved away I still have connections to the area as my parents still live up there and he was stabbed not far from where my parents Live. These people that think they are big and hide behind knifes make me so angry and are total cowards in my eyes. RIP young lad.

Horrific incident and tragic for the family concerned. You're so right to also pull apart the stupidity of these knife-carrying idiots who like to think that they are so hard but are nothing more than shallow-minded boneheads. There should ALWAYS be a zero tolerance attitude to knife crime by police and schools however resources on both fronts continue to be increasingly stretched thanks to continuing government cuts and workload pressures. There is also a danger that society becomes desensitised to knife crime fatalities due to its frequency. Sport can also do much more to promote positive role models to younger generations.

 

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blackpalacefan Flag 21 Aug 16 1.18pm Send a Private Message to blackpalacefan Add blackpalacefan as a friend

Originally posted by Boooo

Don't take a knife out then. Ask most parents who have lost a child to knife crime and they'll want the aggressor to be put away forever. Ask most parents of aggressors if they thought 5 years (2-3 years after good behaviour) 5 years was a price to pay (getting caught) before their child became a possible murderer, they'd take that all day.

It's not just the child at either end of the knife that pays the price.

I'm in agreement. Again I can see why some do it but its a vicious circle much like US gun culture and before you know it people are losing their lives over nothing.

 

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