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blackpalacefan 21 Aug 16 12.59am | |
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Originally posted by Boooo
Sad times. I went to Monks Hill nearly 40 years ago, was an ok estate back then but as in New Addington (where my family still live) it's changed, massively for the worse. This 'disrespect' thing amongst kids is idiocy in it's thinking and causes more problems than it solves. One more thing. My generation are to blame as we've been bullied by the limp wristed and do gooders into not being able to instill discipline into our children. I'm not talking about beat them up but the odd clip round the ear never ever did anyone any harm. In fact 99% of the time it gave you some respect of the person delivering your lesson. I'll bet there are some out there now who remember the moment when that respect kicked in. Too many rude boy almost ferral kids out there and we can now do nothing about it. Shame on this s***ty world. RIP kid. I'm with you on this 100%. Once kids think its fine to carry its a slippery slope. I get why some do it, but if there's a hard and fast rule it benefits them and us. So many needless deaths. Imagine being this kids mum or dad.
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coulsdoneagle London 21 Aug 16 1.39am | |
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5 years for carrying a knife does nothing for the problem, only ruins the lives of those who get caught without doing anything to change their situation. Smacks of an American model where they use prison wily July and do nothing to stop the issues from arising. A lot of people involved in gangs are not bad kids, just unfortunate kids. Not saying I have a solution, just that I think 5 years for having something you shouldn't is absolutely barmy.
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7mins In the bush 21 Aug 16 2.24am | |
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Originally posted by blackpalacefan
Maybe he moved in the wrong circles but I very much doubt he deserved what happened to him. Since the kid died in such a pitiful way, without more information our first thought shouldn't be 'maybe he had it coming'. None of us know what happened, maybe he was the aggressor, maybe he was a innocent bystander. What we do know is, he was involved with gangs (his family have said as much) so while I don't believe he got what he deserved, I do believe he made choices that increased the chances of being stabbed.
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blackpalacefan 21 Aug 16 2.49am | |
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Originally posted by 7mins
None of us know what happened, maybe he was the aggressor, maybe he was a innocent bystander. What we do know is, he was involved with gangs (his family have said as much) so while I don't believe he got what he deserved, I do believe he made choices that increased the chances of being stabbed. I think you've been quite balanced here. My emphasis is on the fact that mistakes or not, he didn't deserve such a truly sad end. It's easy when young to make these mistakes or to want to join a certain crowd. To lose your life as a result is a tragedy though. I'm with you 100% on the fact that we need to use these events to press home the fact that if you move in these circles, you open yourself up to dangers that you didn't bargain on. We need to get highlight incidents like these to at least get kids to realise its not all fun and games.
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7mins In the bush 21 Aug 16 3.01am | |
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Originally posted by blackpalacefan
I think you've been quite balanced here. My emphasis is on the fact that mistakes or not, he didn't deserve such a truly sad end. It's easy when young to make these mistakes or to want to join a certain crowd. To lose your life as a result is a tragedy though. I'm with you 100% on the fact that we need to use these events to press home the fact that if you move in these circles, you open yourself up to dangers that you didn't bargain on. We need to get highlight incidents like these to at least get kids to realise its not all fun and games. Yep.
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7mins In the bush 21 Aug 16 3.03am | |
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Obviously, the other fear is... His mates set out for revenge.
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blackpalacefan 21 Aug 16 3.13am | |
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Originally posted by 7mins
Yep. It sounds like he got a real wake up call. It's a shame that it took such a tragedy to set him on that path but at least he's on it.
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7mins In the bush 21 Aug 16 11.25am | |
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Originally posted by blackpalacefan
It sounds like he got a real wake up call. It's a shame that it took such a tragedy to set him on that path but at least he's on it. Fingers crossed he stays on it. I think the plan is, is to get him out of T Heath, too many temptations. His mum is going to move to Crawley, not Beverley Hills but far enough to be a new start.
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Boooo 21 Aug 16 11.55am | |
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Originally posted by coulsdoneagle
5 years for carrying a knife does nothing for the problem, only ruins the lives of those who get caught without doing anything to change their situation. Smacks of an American model where they use prison wily July and do nothing to stop the issues from arising. A lot of people involved in gangs are not bad kids, just unfortunate kids. Not saying I have a solution, just that I think 5 years for having something you shouldn't is absolutely barmy. Don't take a knife out then. Ask most parents who have lost a child to knife crime and they'll want the aggressor to be put away forever. Ask most parents of aggressors if they thought 5 years (2-3 years after good behaviour) 5 years was a price to pay (getting caught) before their child became a possible murderer, they'd take that all day. It's not just the child at either end of the knife that pays the price.
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7mins In the bush 21 Aug 16 12.15pm | |
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Originally posted by Boooo
Don't take a knife out then. Ask most parents who have lost a child to knife crime and they'll want the aggressor to be put away forever. Ask most parents of aggressors if they thought 5 years (2-3 years after good behaviour) 5 years was a price to pay (getting caught) before their child became a possible murderer, they'd take that all day. It's not just the child at either end of the knife that pays the price. You're right, we need to get the message across that carrying a knife is totally unacceptable and if you carry one, you do so at tremendous risk. Communities need to work hard, get the message across, if ya carrying you're gonna get a big sentence if caught. Anyone who glamorises gang culture or drug dealing should be demonised.
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Sportyteacher London 21 Aug 16 12.33pm | |
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Originally posted by manwitheagletattoo
I felt that I have to write this. last night a young lad of 19 yrs old was stabbed on the Monks Hill estate and later died in hospital of his wounds. I didn't know the young lad or whether he was into football or any kind of sport, that really doesn't matter, what matters is that at 19 years old he had the world to look forward. I really don't know what I'm trying to say here, I don't usually put pen to paper, so to speak, on these matters, a complete and utter waste of life,Just like so many others that have been stabbed. Horrific incident and tragic for the family concerned. You're so right to also pull apart the stupidity of these knife-carrying idiots who like to think that they are so hard but are nothing more than shallow-minded boneheads. There should ALWAYS be a zero tolerance attitude to knife crime by police and schools however resources on both fronts continue to be increasingly stretched thanks to continuing government cuts and workload pressures. There is also a danger that society becomes desensitised to knife crime fatalities due to its frequency. Sport can also do much more to promote positive role models to younger generations.
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blackpalacefan 21 Aug 16 1.18pm | |
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Originally posted by Boooo
Don't take a knife out then. Ask most parents who have lost a child to knife crime and they'll want the aggressor to be put away forever. Ask most parents of aggressors if they thought 5 years (2-3 years after good behaviour) 5 years was a price to pay (getting caught) before their child became a possible murderer, they'd take that all day. It's not just the child at either end of the knife that pays the price. I'm in agreement. Again I can see why some do it but its a vicious circle much like US gun culture and before you know it people are losing their lives over nothing.
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