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Y Ddraig Goch In The Crowd 04 Mar 16 3.05pm
Originally posted by Brentmiester_General Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that offending nonces should get Off lightly. I just think it's a bit of different case and one that needs punishment that is different from more run of the mill crime. A burglar or a dealer shouldn't be thrown into the same place as a nonce is what I think. I'm very much in the same shoes as you, although not married I am a father and in a relationship with the mother. There are outlets for heterosexual and homosexual people in every walk of life. You could if you wanted(and I'm suggesting this) go and see a brass or have an affair. Both are very commonplace now days. You wouldn't need io go and rape someone unless that's what you wanted to do. Rape and sex are very different things with different "motivations" the dignified don't even enter in the game
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Y Ddraig Goch

In The Crowd 04 Mar 16 3.05pm

Originally posted by Brentmiester_General

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that offending nonces should get
Off lightly. I just think it's a bit of different case and one that needs punishment that is different from more run of the mill crime. A burglar or a dealer shouldn't be thrown into the same place as a nonce is what I think.

I'm very much in the same shoes as you, although not married I am a father and in a relationship with the mother. There are outlets for heterosexual and homosexual people in every walk of life. You could if you wanted(and I'm suggesting this) go and see a brass or have an affair. Both are very commonplace now days. You wouldn't need io go and rape someone unless that's what you wanted to do.

Rape and sex are very different things with different "motivations"

the dignified don't even enter in the game

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Littlebogreek 04 Mar 16 3.10pm
Originally posted by Brentmiester_General Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that offending nonces should get Off lightly. I just think it's a bit of different case and one that needs punishment that is different from more run of the mill crime. A burglar or a dealer shouldn't be thrown into the same place as a nonce is what I think. I'm very much in the same shoes as you, although not married I am a father and in a relationship with the mother. There are outlets for heterosexual and homosexual people in every walk of life. You could if you wanted(and I'm suggesting this) go and see a brass or have an affair. Both are very commonplace now days. You wouldn't need io go and rape someone unless that's what you wanted to do. You "are" suggesting that? I hope your wife doesn't know your username on here! What kind of different punishment? I honestly think that crimes against children are the most abhorrent type and deserve the worst punishment. Don't get me wrong, nothing is black and white - I'd have had some sympathy for Johnson had the girl had been in a club and he didn't know her age but that's certainly not the case. It all comes down to self control, in my opinion a normal person can show self control. I'm fiercely loyal to my wife and regardless of whether we hadn't had sex for a year or a week, I like to think I'd be able to still exhibit that same level of self control - if I thought that the only way to gratify myself was with a kid, I'd sooner kill myself than ruin a child's life. I just don't think it all comes down to an illness that causes that attraction, I think you have to be a certain type of person to act on it. Edited by Littlebogreek (04 Mar 2016 3.10pm)
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Littlebogreek

04 Mar 16 3.10pm

Originally posted by Brentmiester_General

I'm very much in the same shoes as you, although not married I am a father and in a relationship with the mother. There are outlets for heterosexual and homosexual people in every walk of life. You could if you wanted(and I'm suggesting this) go and see a brass or have an affair. Both are very commonplace now days. You wouldn't need io go and rape someone unless that's what you wanted to do.

You "are" suggesting that? I hope your wife doesn't know your username on here!

What kind of different punishment? I honestly think that crimes against children are the most abhorrent type and deserve the worst punishment. Don't get me wrong, nothing is black and white - I'd have had some sympathy for Johnson had the girl had been in a club and he didn't know her age but that's certainly not the case.
It all comes down to self control, in my opinion a normal person can show self control. I'm fiercely loyal to my wife and regardless of whether we hadn't had sex for a year or a week, I like to think I'd be able to still exhibit that same level of self control - if I thought that the only way to gratify myself was with a kid, I'd sooner kill myself than ruin a child's life. I just don't think it all comes down to an illness that causes that attraction, I think you have to be a certain type of person to act on it.

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Littlebogreek 04 Mar 16 3.12pm
Originally posted by Y Ddraig Goch Rape and sex are very different things with different "motivations" Exactly - it isn't just down to an attraction. Same as how paedophiles aren't just "unlucky" to be attracted to children.
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Littlebogreek

04 Mar 16 3.12pm

Originally posted by Y Ddraig Goch

Rape and sex are very different things with different "motivations"

Exactly - it isn't just down to an attraction. Same as how paedophiles aren't just "unlucky" to be attracted to children.

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Cucking Funt Clapham on the Back 04 Mar 16 6.21pm
He's been told to expect between 5 and 10 years. But this scumbag gets four and a half. Who's worse? [Link] Wife beating may be socially acceptable in Sheffield, but it is a different matter in Cheltenham
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Clapham on the Back 04 Mar 16 6.21pm

He's been told to expect between 5 and 10 years. But this scumbag gets four and a half. Who's worse?

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Wife beating may be socially acceptable in Sheffield, but it is a different matter in Cheltenham

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Part Time James 04 Mar 16 7.32pm
Originally posted by Cucking Funt He's been told to expect between 5 and 10 years. But this scumbag gets four and a half. Who's worse? [Link] Yeah but he will claim he thought it was 18.
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04 Mar 16 7.32pm

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Originally posted by Cucking Funt

He's been told to expect between 5 and 10 years. But this scumbag gets four and a half. Who's worse?

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Yeah but he will claim he thought it was 18.

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Brentmiester_General Front line in the battle against t... 05 Mar 16 7.14am
Originally posted by Littlebogreek You "are" suggesting that? I hope your wife doesn't know your username on here! What kind of different punishment? I honestly think that crimes against children are the most abhorrent type and deserve the worst punishment. Don't get me wrong, nothing is black and white - I'd have had some sympathy for Johnson had the girl had been in a club and he didn't know her age but that's certainly not the case. It all comes down to self control, in my opinion a normal person can show self control. I'm fiercely loyal to my wife and regardless of whether we hadn't had sex for a year or a week, I like to think I'd be able to still exhibit that same level of self control - if I thought that the only way to gratify myself was with a kid, I'd sooner kill myself than ruin a child's life. I just don't think it all comes down to an illness that causes that attraction, I think you have to be a certain type of person to act on it. Edited by Littlebogreek (04 Mar 2016 3.10pm) Hahaha! Should have said "not suggesting this" honesty "We love you Palace, we f@cking hate Man U, We love you Palace, we hate the brighton too, We love you Palace we play in red 'n' blue, so f@ck you, and you ...
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Front line in the battle against t... 05 Mar 16 7.14am

Originally posted by Littlebogreek

You "are" suggesting that? I hope your wife doesn't know your username on here!

Edited by Littlebogreek (04 Mar 2016 3.10pm)

Hahaha! Should have said "not suggesting this" honesty

"We love you Palace, we f@cking hate Man U, We love you Palace, we hate the brighton too, We love you Palace we play in red 'n' blue, so f@ck you, and you ...

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Y Ddraig Goch In The Crowd 06 Mar 16 10.23am
Chief exec has done s runner [Link] the dignified don't even enter in the game
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Y Ddraig Goch

In The Crowd 06 Mar 16 10.23am

Chief exec has done s runner

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the dignified don't even enter in the game

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Brentmiester_General Front line in the battle against t... 06 Mar 16 10.28am
The plot thickens. "We love you Palace, we f@cking hate Man U, We love you Palace, we hate the brighton too, We love you Palace we play in red 'n' blue, so f@ck you, and you ...
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Front line in the battle against t... 06 Mar 16 10.28am

The plot thickens.

"We love you Palace, we f@cking hate Man U, We love you Palace, we hate the brighton too, We love you Palace we play in red 'n' blue, so f@ck you, and you ...

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jamiemartin721 Reading 06 Mar 16 5.54pm
Originally posted by Cucking Funt He's been told to expect between 5 and 10 years. But this scumbag gets four and a half. Who's worse? [Link] Probably because he was only 19 at the time, four year difference, rather than a 14 year difference. Scum though. "One Nation Under God, has turned into One Nation Under the Influence of One Drug" [Link]
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Reading 06 Mar 16 5.54pm

Originally posted by Cucking Funt

He's been told to expect between 5 and 10 years. But this scumbag gets four and a half. Who's worse?

[Link]

Probably because he was only 19 at the time, four year difference, rather than a 14 year difference. Scum though.

"One Nation Under God, has turned into One Nation Under the Influence of One Drug"
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jamiemartin721 Reading 06 Mar 16 6.02pm
Originally posted by Brentmiester_General Look, I agree re. Johnson. He doesn't seem to be all there. Shows no emotion and almost doesn't seem bothered about what he is about to face. It's a dicey subject the whole bacon thing. I look at it more like a mental illness than a straight up crime. To be dealt with by the authorities in the first instance but then handed over to a secure psychiatric unit, that specialises in keeping these people from harming children. The treatments you mention should be made readily available for the ones that do not want to act out on their urges. It's madness that it isn't made easier for them to do that. Pretty much agree with this. I think a large section of paedophiles and pederasts aren't in control of their sexual attraction and development. Problematic though is that its not a mental illness either for many. It worth noting that around half of child sex offences are committed by people who 'mentally' would be regarded as children themselves. I've been interested in this area since getting into Psychology in the mid 90s - and the stereotype of child sex offenders only fits a very small percentage of individuals. Its more common to find child sex offenders who have things like Downes Syndrome or who struggle with their desires - than the predatory child rapist / murder type (who are responsible for a tiny fraction of offences). "One Nation Under God, has turned into One Nation Under the Influence of One Drug" [Link]
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Reading 06 Mar 16 6.02pm

Originally posted by Brentmiester_General

Look, I agree re. Johnson. He doesn't seem to be all there. Shows no emotion and almost doesn't seem bothered about what he is about to face.

It's a dicey subject the whole bacon thing. I look at it more like a mental illness than a straight up crime. To be dealt with by the authorities in the first instance but then handed over to a secure psychiatric unit, that specialises in keeping these people from harming children.
The treatments you mention should be made readily available for the ones that do not want to act out on their urges. It's madness that it isn't made easier for them to do that.

Pretty much agree with this. I think a large section of paedophiles and pederasts aren't in control of their sexual attraction and development. Problematic though is that its not a mental illness either for many.

It worth noting that around half of child sex offences are committed by people who 'mentally' would be regarded as children themselves.

I've been interested in this area since getting into Psychology in the mid 90s - and the stereotype of child sex offenders only fits a very small percentage of individuals. Its more common to find child sex offenders who have things like Downes Syndrome or who struggle with their desires - than the predatory child rapist / murder type (who are responsible for a tiny fraction of offences).

"One Nation Under God, has turned into One Nation Under the Influence of One Drug"
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jamiemartin721 Reading 06 Mar 16 6.11pm
Originally posted by Littlebogreek You "are" suggesting that? I hope your wife doesn't know your username on here! What kind of different punishment? I honestly think that crimes against children are the most abhorrent type and deserve the worst punishment. Don't get me wrong, nothing is black and white - I'd have had some sympathy for Johnson had the girl had been in a club and he didn't know her age but that's certainly not the case. It all comes down to self control, in my opinion a normal person can show self control. I'm fiercely loyal to my wife and regardless of whether we hadn't had sex for a year or a week, I like to think I'd be able to still exhibit that same level of self control - if I thought that the only way to gratify myself was with a kid, I'd sooner kill myself than ruin a child's life. I just don't think it all comes down to an illness that causes that attraction, I think you have to be a certain type of person to act on it. Edited by Littlebogreek (04 Mar 2016 3.10pm) I think this is a form of hubris, common among those who are lucky to fit into a normal category. I think people who are capable of truly controlling their sexual desires and needs are very few, but the great thing is that most people can find some outlets and kinks to sate their desires. I think its taboo in society to actually even consider some of these people to be human, but in reality there are a lot who would like to be able to seek out help and assistance with their desires - But lets be honest, coming forward as a 'monster' is going to destroy your life. Its also worth remembering that among child sex offenders that there are different groups. The 'relationship' offenders, despise the rapists and the 'abusers'. No one has free will. Its all degrees of agency - Not morality. "One Nation Under God, has turned into One Nation Under the Influence of One Drug" [Link]
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jamiemartin721

Reading 06 Mar 16 6.11pm

Originally posted by Littlebogreek

You "are" suggesting that? I hope your wife doesn't know your username on here!

Edited by Littlebogreek (04 Mar 2016 3.10pm)

I think this is a form of hubris, common among those who are lucky to fit into a normal category. I think people who are capable of truly controlling their sexual desires and needs are very few, but the great thing is that most people can find some outlets and kinks to sate their desires.

I think its taboo in society to actually even consider some of these people to be human, but in reality there are a lot who would like to be able to seek out help and assistance with their desires - But lets be honest, coming forward as a 'monster' is going to destroy your life.

Its also worth remembering that among child sex offenders that there are different groups. The 'relationship' offenders, despise the rapists and the 'abusers'.

No one has free will. Its all degrees of agency - Not morality.

"One Nation Under God, has turned into One Nation Under the Influence of One Drug"
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jamiemartin721 Reading 06 Mar 16 6.15pm
Originally posted by Y Ddraig Goch Rape and sex are very different things with different "motivations" Its also important to remember that 'rape' is automatically applied to anyone under the age of 13. No where near as many offenders as society would imagine are 'violet rapists of children' - In fact a lot consider themselves to be 'romantically involved in a relationship'. Granted, it cannot be allowed or accepted, but its important to also understand that in many cases the idea of rape is based on age of consent, rather than the application of violence or force. "One Nation Under God, has turned into One Nation Under the Influence of One Drug" [Link]
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Reading 06 Mar 16 6.15pm

Originally posted by Y Ddraig Goch

Rape and sex are very different things with different "motivations"

Its also important to remember that 'rape' is automatically applied to anyone under the age of 13. No where near as many offenders as society would imagine are 'violet rapists of children' - In fact a lot consider themselves to be 'romantically involved in a relationship'.

Granted, it cannot be allowed or accepted, but its important to also understand that in many cases the idea of rape is based on age of consent, rather than the application of violence or force.

"One Nation Under God, has turned into One Nation Under the Influence of One Drug"
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