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cryrst Flag The garden of England 11 May 23 9.44pm Send a Private Message to cryrst Add cryrst as a friend

Is anyone who laughed at Jim Davisson’s chalky white jokes a life long racist.
I bet some on here preaching how bad others are would have chuckled at a joke which contains a racist connotation at some stage. No matter how low grade ( if it can be as asked prior!)
A little flagellation is required of said individuals with pictures so to cleanse oneself !

 

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Davepalace707 Flag Northumberland 11 May 23 10.26pm Send a Private Message to Davepalace707 Add Davepalace707 as a friend

Originally posted by cryrst

Is anyone who laughed at Jim Davisson’s chalky white jokes a life long racist.
I bet some on here preaching how bad others are would have chuckled at a joke which contains a racist connotation at some stage. No matter how low grade ( if it can be as asked prior!)
A little flagellation is required of said individuals with pictures so to cleanse oneself !

Times change. What is deemed publically acceptable and what is unacceptable changes. Love thy neighbour, the Benny Hill Show, Jim Davisson’s crap jokes, the list is endless. Some on here can understand that some have a problem with it.

 

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Yellow Card - User has been warned of conduct on the messageboards SW19 CPFC Flag Addiscombe West 11 May 23 10.58pm Send a Private Message to SW19 CPFC Add SW19 CPFC as a friend

Originally posted by Eaglecoops

So, you understand this guy inside and out do you? No, I don’t think you do, but you’ve entirely categorised him. I’d lay money you are in an HR role.

I find your last line offensive, it’s the sort of quote used by those who feel they have a moral superiority. Well different people have different morals and they don’t all have to accord with your left wing anti-everything attitude.

Edited by Eaglecoops (11 May 2023 11.59am)

So accusing me of being presumptuous then immediately being presumptuous?

Yes I'm being presumptuous, but explaining why. It's not a knee-jerk reaction. It's a calculated assessment that I feel confident enough about to back in a debate.

Besides, I'd argue that your judgement is clouded by what appears to be some sort of personal connection, which brings emotion into it.

'Moral superiority' – so you're having a go here and calling me superior because I'm heavily criticising someone for demonstrably behaving in an immoral and racist manner (according to what I'd suggest is a generally accepted moral standard/judgement over what is racist in this country) then laying into someone (you) that's emotionally invested and appears to be trying to downplay the incident, or make excuses for it. I mean...

Also, your 'different people have different morals' half point... what are you saying here exactly? We should all be tolerant and open to everyones different interpretations of morality and the outcomes of such differences without criticising? Everybody's free to act however they want because everyone is entitled to different morals without judgement or critique? Because that sounds very left wing to me.

Comes across as though you're saying what is an observably racist action should be tolerable because 'different morals for different people'. Which is odd

This action isn't some sort of grey area up for debate – it's a racist gesture. Whether that means the person is a hardcore racist or is just comfortable enough with that particular flavour of racism to actually perform it in a heavily monitored public arena, (not exactly a secret that football games have cameras, and that racism is a thing) is up for debate, but as above you've got to make a call and that's where probability comes in.

Edited by SW19 CPFC (12 May 2023 12.30am)

 


Did you know? 98.0000001% of people are morons.

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TheBigToePunt Flag 11 May 23 11.16pm Send a Private Message to TheBigToePunt Add TheBigToePunt as a friend

Originally posted by SW19 CPFC

All valid points.

To build on your two bookends - of mistake to fanatical racist - There’s a sliding scale between those, sure. It’s also worth noting that you can hold racist views through ignorance, conditioning, conscious, sub-conscious or otherwise (mentioned in an earlier post, seems to have been missed). So yeah, obviously it’s not as simple as no gesture good, gesture bad.

However all we can ever go on is comparison with ourselves and our own experiences. A judgement call has to be made somewhere, somehow - having personal learned experience of this sort of thing (both levels of extremes) I’m afraid I have little time or sympathy for such actions, and to me it shows on probability a high likelihood of someone that is somehow ignorant or worse - you don’t just do that sort of thing randomly, out of the blue at that age. It becomes less excusable the older you get, and these two are hardly in their teens. Probability is key. Just because it could be a thousand other things personally if the probability in my view is high enough I’m not going to sit on the fence.

Logically the very fact they’ve both made said gestures demonstrates a level of acceptance. As for why that acceptance is present, sure that’s more nuanced but the fact others like you and I would never cross that line excludes a lot of the lower end explanations.

At a minimum it’s an example of something personally acceptable or ingrained (sub consciously or otherwise) surfacing as a result of lower inhibition. Now, obviously that doesn’t mean someone is racist to the core, but it does mean that some element of racism is acceptable to them either in that moment or otherwise, and it’s that crossing of the line considering their age, the environment and the current climate around racism that’s key here. You don’t just throw racist language or gestures around ‘by mistake’ these days. Sorry, I don’t buy that.

I might be more inclined to believe that it was more of a moment of madness if others in the crowd were doing the same, I could buy the tribal / herd mentality argument. But it wasn’t - it’s a personal, reactive decision based on some level of acceptance or normalisation.

I can’t know, but I certainly can presume in both these cases for the multiple reasons above that create a strong enough probability for me to make that presumption.

Edited by SW19 CPFC (11 May 2023 9.58pm)

That's my point, you are not in any position to make a personal judgement call regarding whether this guy at Spurs is, as far as he's concerned, engaging in a childish joke or whether he genuinely believes people of other races should be mocked for thier inferiority. Those two things are not only at wildly different ends of one particular spectrum, they can also, in some instances, be wholly unrelated to each other.

Immature, offensive, bullying, hurtful or inconsiderate humour is commonplace in many guises, whereas (even with anonymous ballets) voting for far right political parties is not. We must stop citing instances of the former as some sort of peek behind the curtain at people's desire for the latter. One can be linked to the other in some cases, but not so in others.

All you have to go on is the same thing the rest of us do, the photographic evidence. The rest you've brought to the table all by yourself, and that's my concern. The danger in that mindset is that the individual gets a punishment fitting not for the crime itself, but for a story we tell ourselves about the person based on our own simplified narrative, and refusal to accept that anything else could be true.

People are too complicated, variable and inconsistent for an episode like this to serve as a window into a man's mind and soul. He should get the appropriate punishment for what he actually did, but no more.

 

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Yellow Card - User has been warned of conduct on the messageboards SW19 CPFC Flag Addiscombe West 12 May 23 12.25am Send a Private Message to SW19 CPFC Add SW19 CPFC as a friend

Originally posted by TheBigToePunt

That's my point, you are not in any position to make a personal judgement call regarding whether this guy at Spurs is, as far as he's concerned, engaging in a childish joke or whether he genuinely believes people of other races should be mocked for thier inferiority. Those two things are not only at wildly different ends of one particular spectrum, they can also, in some instances, be wholly unrelated to each other.

Immature, offensive, bullying, hurtful or inconsiderate humour is commonplace in many guises, whereas (even with anonymous ballets) voting for far right political parties is not. We must stop citing instances of the former as some sort of peek behind the curtain at people's desire for the latter. One can be linked to the other in some cases, but not so in others.

All you have to go on is the same thing the rest of us do, the photographic evidence. The rest you've brought to the table all by yourself, and that's my concern. The danger in that mindset is that the individual gets a punishment fitting not for the crime itself, but for a story we tell ourselves about the person based on our own simplified narrative, and refusal to accept that anything else could be true.

People are too complicated, variable and inconsistent for an episode like this to serve as a window into a man's mind and soul. He should get the appropriate punishment for what he actually did, but no more.

I disagree – it's entirely up to me whether I feel i can make a judgement call or not and be confident enough to stick my neck out. Why? for the reasons detailed in my previous post. Personal experience, logic, probability and so on. They're not on trial here, that's up to an actual prosecution team, who will tackle this with far more diligence and using evidence, character witnesses etc.

On that, it's not as simple as saying because you don't know someone you can't pass reasoned judgement. That's simply not accurate – if anything personal connection would cloud your judgement. People are tried everyday for a whole range of things... the people trying them don't take a year out to get to know them well enough beforehand do they?

To be clear, and I stated this in my previous post, I agree with your point that racist behaviour is not necessarily an indication of, to use your example, far right fanaticism.

However, it doesn't excuse it or remove the perfectly logical point that an act of or racism itself is (either through ignorance or otherwise) a telltale sign of a weaker attitude towards its seriousness. Yes that is a wide range from ignorant to fanatic but it's still not excusable and it is revealing by definition.

Attempting to equate it to 'Immature, offensive, bullying, hurtful or inconsiderate humour' is problematic. Those things are related but different to racist acts. I'm also not citing those things as nailed on behaviour traits of die hard far right individuals. I'm not even doing that with this incident, so you're jumping to conclusions there.

This isn't a trial, where there would be character witnesses and evidence and so on. We have the debating part, but not the detail, sure. So I've made a call based on reasons clearly outlined earlier and I stick by it.

Ignoring the incident itself for a second, this is effectively about character and someones general attitude towards tolerance and decency, respect and fairness towards others. And yes, to some extent, morality. Possibly also intellect. If I had to rank fans on a scale of occasional outburst to constantly vitriolic when in the stadium, I don't think it would be risky of me to presume they'd both be closer to the vitriolic end of the scale. Which even without the racist element would be bad enough, but one can understand the easily taken next step over the line in this instance.

Ultimately in my experience people are never more transparent than the times when they're at a functioning level of drunk or on drugs... you often get to see revealing glimpses of the real self.

Also it's video evidence. Not just photographic. Much more revealing.

 


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Nicholas91 Flag The Democratic Republic of Kent 12 May 23 12.55am Send a Private Message to Nicholas91 Add Nicholas91 as a friend

Originally posted by TheBigToePunt

That's my point, you are not in any position to make a personal judgement call regarding whether this guy at Spurs is, as far as he's concerned, engaging in a childish joke or whether he genuinely believes people of other races should be mocked for thier inferiority. Those two things are not only at wildly different ends of one particular spectrum, they can also, in some instances, be wholly unrelated to each other.

Immature, offensive, bullying, hurtful or inconsiderate humour is commonplace in many guises, whereas (even with anonymous ballets) voting for far right political parties is not. We must stop citing instances of the former as some sort of peek behind the curtain at people's desire for the latter. One can be linked to the other in some cases, but not so in others.

All you have to go on is the same thing the rest of us do, the photographic evidence. The rest you've brought to the table all by yourself, and that's my concern. The danger in that mindset is that the individual gets a punishment fitting not for the crime itself, but for a story we tell ourselves about the person based on our own simplified narrative, and refusal to accept that anything else could be true.

People are too complicated, variable and inconsistent for an episode like this to serve as a window into a man's mind and soul. He should get the appropriate punishment for what he actually did, but no more.

Have to say I agree there and did very poorly attempt to articulate something along similar lines which then felt as though the boxing of an individual (me) into a presumptive category came into play. That’s just how it felt for clarity not saying that’s an accurate interpretation of what happened. My beef always lies with this being thematic in any discussion with ‘race’ being one of the most volatile subject areas and therefore any commentary on such things either launches you to one end of the spectrum or the other. You’re either John Lennon singing ‘Imagine’ or Hitler at Nuremberg.

Two things really have to come into play here and treated as separate in my opinion:

1. The act - It does fall within the category of ‘racist’ and therefore worthy of punishment or at the very least condemnation - don’t do that, you can’t do that, most of us don’t want to see that, it tarnished us as a fan base and club, it won’t be tolerated and you will be punished.

2. The individual - All that is known is that they committed the act. It seems as though you either advocate for their public hanging or deserve one yourself for defending them against such an outcome. I typically believe those accusing others of being at an extreme end of the spectrum with little to no evidence often do so as they are at the other. The punishment should not be extreme IMHO though others may disagree but that is still only for the act. You can’t further punish someone on the assumption it stands alone as evidence of something or anything more. Someone doing something dishonest like jumping a train a few stops, perhaps late at night when barriers are inactive, is not indicative of that person running a multimillion pound Ponzi scheme scam, as an example.

My money is on this fella not being the brightest spark, very far from it, or he has reduced himself to that position via alcohol consumption. Could always be something else at play or very possibly a ‘moment of madness’ which any human being is vulnerable to. Punishing him proportionally, for the act, should be the right course of action however anything extreme varying from no repercussion at all to further punishment of a speculated and unevidenced (beyond one act, which isn’t enough) persona, which could have a devastating impact upon him, to serve ideology, is not appropriate for me. Where I get wound up is when it seems as though the likes of the media, or anyone else for that matter, jump upon and hijack these things to further their own agenda(s).

 


Now Zaha's got a bit of green grass ahead of him here... and finds Ambrose... not a bad effort!!!!

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footythoughts Flag Beckenham 12 May 23 1.07am

Originally posted by cryrst

Is anyone who laughed at Jim Davisson’s chalky white jokes a life long racist.
I bet some on here preaching how bad others are would have chuckled at a joke which contains a racist connotation at some stage. No matter how low grade ( if it can be as asked prior!)
A little flagellation is required of said individuals with pictures so to cleanse oneself !

As far as I'm concerned someone in a comedic setting telling jokes should be able to say whatever they want within the law, rather than the tendancy to retrospectively or in the moment snuff that out. Comedy can age badly, but is also of its time and worth viewing in that light. Part of comedy is that there is a 'moral risk' to points being made. There is an up and downside to that, and therefore if something doesn't land or isn't really a joke and more a dislike that may impact how its perceived. I'm sure for instance there are even some great 'jokes' to be made about amputees, but unless you're absolute craftsman of the art or well meaning person with a clever angle and point to make, and just blurt out something derogatory in front of a person, it will likely not be received at all well.

People go to a football match to watch the game though, not for a comedy night (though with some performances you'd be forgiven for thinking otherwise) and not to stand next to someone doing a slitty eye 'joke' or say, going back to times of disgusting monkey chants or tossing bananas onto the pitch. These could all no doubt be called 'jokes', but clearly they're also targetted racist sentiment and aren't at all welcome in that setting. If we're saying there should be no response to them, that sends a message of encouragement. That clearly isn't acceptable, nor do most think it is. The lesson is for the individual to learn, not others.


Edited by footythoughts (12 May 2023 1.18am)

 

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footythoughts Flag Beckenham 12 May 23 1.17am

Originally posted by SW19 CPFC

So accusing me of being presumptuous then immediately being presumptuous?

Yes I'm being presumptuous, but explaining why. It's not a knee-jerk reaction. It's a calculated assessment that I feel confident enough about to back in a debate.

Besides, I'd argue that you judgement is clouded by what appears to be some sort of personal connection, which brings emotion into it.

'Moral superiority' – so you're having a go here and calling me superior because I'm heavily criticising someone for demonstrably behaving in an immoral and racist manner (according to what I'd suggest is a generally accepted moral standard/judgement over what is racist in this country) then laying into someone (you) that's emotionally invested and appears to be trying to downplay the incident, or make excuses for it. I mean...

Also, your 'different people have different morals' half point... what are you saying here exactly? We should all be tolerant and open to everyones different interpretations of morality and the outcomes of such differences without criticising? Everybody's free to act however they want because everyone is entitled to different morals without judgement or critique? Because that sounds very left wing to me.

Comes across as though you're saying what is an observably racist action should be tolerable because 'different morals for different people'. Which is odd

This action isn't some sort of grey area up for debate – it's a racist gesture. Whether that means the person is a hardcore racist or is just comfortable enough with that particular flavour of racism to actually perform it in a heavily monitored public arena, (not exactly a secret that football games have cameras, and that racism is a thing) is up for debate, but as above you've got to make a call and that's where probability comes in.

Well put.

 

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southnorwoodhill Flag 12 May 23 5.00am Send a Private Message to southnorwoodhill Add southnorwoodhill as a friend

The bloke probably checks his Samsung device for updates not appreciating the irony.

 

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cryrst Flag The garden of England 12 May 23 6.16am Send a Private Message to cryrst Add cryrst as a friend

Originally posted by footythoughts

As far as I'm concerned someone in a comedic setting telling jokes should be able to say whatever they want within the law, rather than the tendancy to retrospectively or in the moment snuff that out. Comedy can age badly, but is also of its time and worth viewing in that light. Part of comedy is that there is a 'moral risk' to points being made. There is an up and downside to that, and therefore if something doesn't land or isn't really a joke and more a dislike that may impact how its perceived. I'm sure for instance there are even some great 'jokes' to be made about amputees, but unless you're absolute craftsman of the art or well meaning person with a clever angle and point to make, and just blurt out something derogatory in front of a person, it will likely not be received at all well.

People go to a football match to watch the game though, not for a comedy night (though with some performances you'd be forgiven for thinking otherwise) and not to stand next to someone doing a slitty eye 'joke' or say, going back to times of disgusting monkey chants or tossing bananas onto the pitch. These could all no doubt be called 'jokes', but clearly they're also targetted racist sentiment and aren't at all welcome in that setting. If we're saying there should be no response to them, that sends a message of encouragement. That clearly isn't acceptable, nor do most think it is. The lesson is for the individual to learn, not others.


Edited by footythoughts (12 May 2023 1.18am)

But what should that ‘lesson’ be.
Total wipeout of all he has or likely to have which could send him over the top, possibly a suicide! Is that really the correct punishment for a stupid moment.
“Was it really a stupid moment though, or is he a total racist, how do you know?”
Could be an answer but previous isn’t used in our courts so take it on the one incident which as we all know only fits for murderers and robbers; not assumed acts of hatred to any one, as that’s a lot more heinous!!!!

 

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footythoughts Flag Beckenham 12 May 23 12.37pm

Originally posted by cryrst

But what should that ‘lesson’ be.
Total wipeout of all he has or likely to have which could send him over the top, possibly a suicide! Is that really the correct punishment for a stupid moment.
“Was it really a stupid moment though, or is he a total racist, how do you know?”
Could be an answer but previous isn’t used in our courts so take it on the one incident which as we all know only fits for murderers and robbers; not assumed acts of hatred to any one, as that’s a lot more heinous!!!!

I tend to agree with you that the punishment was too much, my take is that dissuading such behaviour is a sensible move for the game. We could say it's unfair, just as we could say his conduct was too and reflects negatively on the club especially if it was to become routine.

I have no door into the mans mind, so no idea of his motives, only this single incidence. Your views are clearly truthfully stated and I'm all for an honest marketplace of ideas. That's the key to reaching sensible and balanced conclusions and outlooks, rather than lurches or going off the deep end in terms of rules, policy or politics. If the bloke is sensible he'll learn from it. Even if he's not, I doubt he'll be racially mocking players again.

 

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Eaglecoops Flag CR3 12 May 23 1.28pm Send a Private Message to Eaglecoops Add Eaglecoops as a friend

To put it all in perspective there is a video doing the rounds of an away supporter having the crap kicked out of him because he was in the wrong end at Newcastle. Not one Newcastle fan was arrested.

So violence is considered acceptable, whereas pulling faces is not. The people throwing the punches were easily identifiable by the way.

Reminds me of the chances of getting a police officer around your house whilst there is a burglary in progress compared to reporting a racist incident. I know which one the Police appear at first.

Comical.

 

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