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mezzer Flag Main Stand, Block F, Row 20 seat 1... 11 May 23 10.44am Send a Private Message to mezzer Add mezzer as a friend

Originally posted by Willo

Only a couple of weeks ago I got involved in a discussion with a young chap from Auckland.Suffice to say we were on opposite sides of the political spectrum and had widely differing viewpoints.

I raised his hackles to the extend that the decibel level of his voice increased and he bellowed out a derogatory phrase which referred to me as "Buffalo snot".I informed him that by plummeting to such depths he had comprehensively LOST the argument and was delighted that I had emerged victorious.

The chap,molten with anger, placed his glass on the bar with some force and took off like Usain Bolt in the direction of the exit, muttering words which I could not decipher.

Not a bad phrase, truth be told. I might use that one myself at an appropriate moment.

If he was from Auckland, Willo, you could have placated him by quoting Joe Biden in congratulating the Black and Tans being a fine rugby team.

 


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PalazioVecchio Flag south pole 11 May 23 11.05am Send a Private Message to PalazioVecchio Add PalazioVecchio as a friend

television pundits playing up the incident to buggery. Gary Linekar loves to lecture all the rest of us.

yes, the fan was stupid to make the eye slit gesture. But does he deserve to get thrown into Broadmoor ? probably not.

its difficult to win an argument with a clever fecker but its impossible to win an argument with an idiot.

 


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Yellow Card - User has been warned of conduct on the messageboards Hrolf The Ganger Flag 11 May 23 11.11am Send a Private Message to Hrolf The Ganger Add Hrolf The Ganger as a friend

Originally posted by Nicholas91

Never watched Star Trek and have no interest in doing so, at all, ever.

I’m not quite sure what you’re getting at there either Hrolf? Maybe I’ve misconstrued the ramifications of ‘zero tolerance’? In my mind, I was suggesting: that which does objectively and indisputably qualify as racism will not be left to slide by the club. As to what the punishment is I was thinking perhaps a fine if possible? Maybe a 5 game ban? Would serve as a deterrent surely? I’m not one to make that decision but as previously alluded to I don’t think a lifetime ban and public flogging is necessary or correct.

Maybe you should start watching Star Trek.

I'm talking about a slippery slope.

 

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Nicholas91 Flag The Democratic Republic of Kent 11 May 23 11.21am Send a Private Message to Nicholas91 Add Nicholas91 as a friend

Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger

Maybe you should start watching Star Trek.

I'm talking about a slippery slope.

I did think so, but that's a bit too broad for me I am only concerned with the topic at hand, I have a habit of tumbling too far down a rabbit hole, occasionally with fury, so my limited and oft' troubled brain has to be managed carefully

And it's a no on Star Trek. I have nothing against it or those whom have any commitment to it, just not for me. Any reference to it I need I'll gladly take from the Simpsons, which has single-handedly influenced my understanding of most things beyond my typical interests.

 


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Eaglecoops Flag CR3 11 May 23 11.51am Send a Private Message to Eaglecoops Add Eaglecoops as a friend

Originally posted by SW19 CPFC

We’ll have to agree to disagree.

Actions speak louder than words in both of these examples. Plenty of people I know including myself who, no matter how drunk or emotionally charged would not reactively produce a racist gesture. Even when you’re smashed you still have red lines. If anything the more inebriated or otherwise the worse it is… because in that state all inhibitions fall away. I’ve seen the video in question… he knew what he was doing, and so did this moron palace fan.

Also the very fact you call this ‘mates banter’ and ‘tribal football stuff’ says it all. Normalised behaviour in private, exposed because of lack of inhibition due to alcohol or whatever else.

Reminds me of the ‘but some of my best friends are black’ defense

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So, you understand this guy inside and out do you? No, I don’t think you do, but you’ve entirely categorised him. I’d lay money you are in an HR role.

I find your last line offensive, it’s the sort of quote used by those who feel they have a moral superiority. Well different people have different morals and they don’t all have to accord with your left wing anti-everything attitude.

Edited by Eaglecoops (11 May 2023 11.59am)

 

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madcap_v2 Flag SE25 / Ibiza 11 May 23 11.51am Send a Private Message to madcap_v2 Add madcap_v2 as a friend

I don't know if any of this has been mentioned but has anyone noted that since out Premier League status, we have had an increase in South Asian football fans coming to our games, spending a good amount of money in the club shop and sampling the whole Palace experience as a tourist activity?

I'm sure the club will want to take action on this incident to make a statement that this gesture isn't tolerated and doesn't reflect the views of the club and it's support.

I don't support the notion that the fan should be arrested or anything of that nature however, Tottenham's ground regulations:

"10. Racial, homophobic or discriminatory abuse, chanting or harassment is strictly forbidden and will result in arrest and/or ejection from the Ground. The Club may impose a ban for one or more Matches." Entering the stadium is implied acceptance of the ground regulations.

The use of anti-semitic language from Tottenham fans has been mentioned as a rebuttal, however from my years of working as a football steward, can tell you that isolating and dealing with mass incidents like these are a lot more difficult than isolating and dealing with the 1 person (seat number giving name and address details, security camera pointing at their direction). Unless the group of people are easily identified (HF for example)

 


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Eaglecoops Flag CR3 11 May 23 12.00pm Send a Private Message to Eaglecoops Add Eaglecoops as a friend

Originally posted by madcap_v2

I don't know if any of this has been mentioned but has anyone noted that since out Premier League status, we have had an increase in South Asian football fans coming to our games, spending a good amount of money in the club shop and sampling the whole Palace experience as a tourist activity?

I'm sure the club will want to take action on this incident to make a statement that this gesture isn't tolerated and doesn't reflect the views of the club and it's support.

I don't support the notion that the fan should be arrested or anything of that nature however, Tottenham's ground regulations:

"10. Racial, homophobic or discriminatory abuse, chanting or harassment is strictly forbidden and will result in arrest and/or ejection from the Ground. The Club may impose a ban for one or more Matches." Entering the stadium is implied acceptance of the ground regulations.

The use of anti-semitic language from Tottenham fans has been mentioned as a rebuttal, however from my years of working as a football steward, can tell you that isolating and dealing with mass incidents like these are a lot more difficult than isolating and dealing with the 1 person (seat number giving name and address details, security camera pointing at their direction). Unless the group of people are easily identified (HF for example)

In other words, you bottle it if more than one person is involved.

 

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footythoughts Flag Beckenham 11 May 23 5.29pm

Originally posted by Eaglecoops

In other words, you bottle it if more than one person is involved.

Maybe he just means what he said? That dealing with mass incidents is easier than dealing with individuals. Where it's someones job to ensure a safe environment for fans, they don't deserve to be intimidated by groups. Such a situation doesn't make them a 'bottler'. It means they're considering their own safety and others.


Edited by footythoughts (11 May 2023 5.46pm)

 

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footythoughts Flag Beckenham 11 May 23 5.30pm

Originally posted by Eaglecoops

So, you understand this guy inside and out do you? No, I don’t think you do, but you’ve entirely categorised him. I’d lay money you are in an HR role.

I find your last line offensive, it’s the sort of quote used by those who feel they have a moral superiority. Well different people have different morals and they don’t all have to accord with your left wing anti-everything attitude.

Edited by Eaglecoops (11 May 2023 11.59am)

The cost of entry to a football ground doesn't include freedom to act like a racist pr!ck to those on the field, and getting banned from games for a period as result and having said gutter conduct deatailed in the press isn't indication of 'different morals', it's an indication of an inability to know how to behave towards and around others. Taking issue with that isn't 'left wing', viewing it as fine is akin to getting a hardon at monkey chants at games or bananas thrown on the pitch. Stuff we can do without. It's a matter of basic, common decency towards others.


Edited by footythoughts (11 May 2023 5.48pm)

 

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footythoughts Flag Beckenham 11 May 23 5.44pm

Originally posted by SW19 CPFC

It doesn't always naturally develop. That's the point. It's natural for you to bring it back to the same topics every time, regardless of thread, but not for everyone else. Sometimes your agenda is relevant, sometimes not. It's ironic you talk about bashing the pieces until they fit.

It's the same protagonists every time... You are one but not the worst.

Simply parachuting the same narrative and into every thread is beyond boring. The amount of times I've seen the same stuff repeated or rephrased to try and subvert threads is tiresome. This one included.

It's as though this site is being used as a coercion and conversion platform, whilst you reinforce your views within various other likeminded echo chambers elsewhere. The pattern is so observably pervasive that it's an approach the political class would be proud of – you lot have an agenda. Great. Sometimes it aids debate, sometimes it distracts. Knowing when it's more or less relevant to deploy is the key here.

Threads staying mainly on topic is literally the point – pretty sure it gets called out by mods when things deviate.

And yes it's not lost on me that the tactics have worked again here, so

Edited by SW19 CPFC (10 May 2023 2.08pm)

Well observed. When someone endorses facist groups in one setting, appears to happily converse with some most would deem radicalised, and relentlessly holds distancing and extremely demeaning views towards certain demographics then comes on here with a markedly dialled down persona, day in, day out attacking people with routine views, the only logical conclusion is that they either know that their actual views are way too out there to repeat in other settings, or they are engaging in disengenuous and groomy behaviour. What other reason can there be? At some point in life a degree of self reflection should kick in. Starting with a basic understanding that we should seek to attribute a certain level of humanity to others regardless of colour or creed doesn't tend to be a bad rule of thumb.

Edited by footythoughts (11 May 2023 6.16pm)

 

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TheBigToePunt Flag 11 May 23 7.25pm Send a Private Message to TheBigToePunt Add TheBigToePunt as a friend

Originally posted by SW19 CPFC

We’ll have to agree to disagree.

Actions speak louder than words in both of these examples. Plenty of people I know including myself who, no matter how drunk or emotionally charged would not reactively produce a racist gesture. Even when you’re smashed you still have red lines. If anything the more inebriated or otherwise the worse it is… because in that state all inhibitions fall away. I’ve seen the video in question… he knew what he was doing, and so did this moron palace fan.

Also the very fact you call this ‘mates banter’ and ‘tribal football stuff’ says it all. Normalised behaviour in private, exposed because of lack of inhibition due to alcohol or whatever else.

Reminds me of the ‘but some of my best friends are black’ defense

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I get your point, and I can't imagine making the 'eyes' gesture to someone no matter what condition I was in either.

At the same time, I have to agree with the point made above somewhere: You have seen this footage and decided not only that you know all you need to about the incident (fair enough), but that the incident tells you everything you need to about the person involved.

Your comments (bold above) worry me because they reflect the increasingly common, dangerously over-simplified position that 'race-based comment or gesture = racist action = racist person revealed for what they are' . Life would be a lot easier if that was a reliable formula, but it's not.

However messy it is to try and untangle, there are worlds of differences between someone making what they think is a joke, an unacceptable comment or gesture meant to put Son off his game, spouting stupid and/or hateful things because the temptation to act up in any way at all where you might get away with it is too strong, using the anonymity of a crowd to voice genuine racist opinions, and trying to encourage others to join you. More importantly, these things are not certain to be sequential stops along a linear journey to far-right belief and behavior. Life just isn't that simple.

This bloke at Spurs was, at least, behaving like a f***ing idiot. Maybe he's never done it before and can't believe he did what he did. Perhaps there is no correlation between that gesture and how he lives his life.

Then again, maybe he's a total and utter c***, and pulling faces at Son is the tip of the iceberg. I've got no idea, but neither do you, and you cannot presume to know anything about the bloke beyond the facts of the case. I can understand why people have challenged you on that.

 

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Yellow Card - User has been warned of conduct on the messageboards SW19 CPFC Flag Addiscombe West 11 May 23 9.21pm Send a Private Message to SW19 CPFC Add SW19 CPFC as a friend

Originally posted by TheBigToePunt

I get your point, and I can't imagine making the 'eyes' gesture to someone no matter what condition I was in either.

At the same time, I have to agree with the point made above somewhere: You have seen this footage and decided not only that you know all you need to about the incident (fair enough), but that the incident tells you everything you need to about the person involved.

Your comments (bold above) worry me because they reflect the increasingly common, dangerously over-simplified position that 'race-based comment or gesture = racist action = racist person revealed for what they are' . Life would be a lot easier if that was a reliable formula, but it's not.

However messy it is to try and untangle, there are worlds of differences between someone making what they think is a joke, an unacceptable comment or gesture meant to put Son off his game, spouting stupid and/or hateful things because the temptation to act up in any way at all where you might get away with it is too strong, using the anonymity of a crowd to voice genuine racist opinions, and trying to encourage others to join you. More importantly, these things are not certain to be sequential stops along a linear journey to far-right belief and behavior. Life just isn't that simple.

This bloke at Spurs was, at least, behaving like a f***ing idiot. Maybe he's never done it before and can't believe he did what he did. Perhaps there is no correlation between that gesture and how he lives his life.

Then again, maybe he's a total and utter c***, and pulling faces at Son is the tip of the iceberg. I've got no idea, but neither do you, and you cannot presume to know anything about the bloke beyond the facts of the case. I can understand why people have challenged you on that.

All valid points.

To build on your two bookends - of mistake to fanatical racist - There’s a sliding scale between those, sure. It’s also worth noting that you can hold racist views through ignorance, conditioning, conscious, sub-conscious or otherwise (mentioned in an earlier post, seems to have been missed). So yeah, obviously it’s not as simple as no gesture good, gesture bad.

However all we can ever go on is comparison with ourselves and our own experiences. A judgement call has to be made somewhere, somehow - having personal learned experience of this sort of thing (both levels of extremes) I’m afraid I have little time or sympathy for such actions, and to me it shows on probability a high likelihood of someone that is somehow ignorant or worse - you don’t just do that sort of thing randomly, out of the blue at that age. It becomes less excusable the older you get, and these two are hardly in their teens. Probability is key. Just because it could be a thousand other things personally if the probability in my view is high enough I’m not going to sit on the fence.

Logically the very fact they’ve both made said gestures demonstrates a level of acceptance. As for why that acceptance is present, sure that’s more nuanced but the fact others like you and I would never cross that line excludes a lot of the lower end explanations.

At a minimum it’s an example of something personally acceptable or ingrained (sub consciously or otherwise) surfacing as a result of lower inhibition. Now, obviously that doesn’t mean someone is racist to the core, but it does mean that some element of racism is acceptable to them either in that moment or otherwise, and it’s that crossing of the line considering their age, the environment and the current climate around racism that’s key here. You don’t just throw racist language or gestures around ‘by mistake’ these days. Sorry, I don’t buy that.

I might be more inclined to believe that it was more of a moment of madness if others in the crowd were doing the same, I could buy the tribal / herd mentality argument. But it wasn’t - it’s a personal, reactive decision based on some level of acceptance or normalisation.

I can’t know, but I certainly can presume in both these cases for the multiple reasons above that create a strong enough probability for me to make that presumption.

Edited by SW19 CPFC (11 May 2023 9.58pm)

 


Did you know? 98.0000001% of people are morons.

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