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EaglesEaglesEagles Flag 25 May 15 11.50am Send a Private Message to EaglesEaglesEagles Add EaglesEaglesEagles as a friend

Quote Stirlingsays at 25 May 2015 11.06am

Quote jamiemartin721 at 25 May 2015 9.30am

We do allow close genetic union - Cousins or more distant are exempt from incest.

Big difference is a) consenting incest is really f**king rare b) the affect of homosexuality outside of the consenting adults is negligible to non-existant.

Complete straw man argument that has no bearing on the actual reality of the point its trying to make.

No, it isn't a straw man argument at all.

The comment, 'consenting incest is really f**king rare' is pointless and also appears to be plucked out of your own prejudices...I mean how on earth would you know?

Besides it doesn't have any relation to the argument as obviously those cases where abuse is proven can simply not be allowed.....It isn't an argument against the legalising of incest marriage.

Until the 1967 homosexaulity was banned in Britain....The argument against it, outside of religion, was mainly the public's 'yuk' factor as what goes on between consenting adults isn't their business....'individual rights' won and even Thatcher voted to legalise. It was, I'm sure most of agree a good thing.

To my mind the main arguments against incest is that it obviously can cause internal family conflict...But it isn't for the state to tell people how to conduct their family life outside of sex with minors so in cases where people are beyond the age of consent the argument becomes a very old fashioned one.

Secondly As we have seen, getting married and producing children with higher risks of deformaties is allowed for couples with conditions so that argument can't be rationally used to stop incest marriage either.

No, it's just the 'yuk' factor and distaste and considering that this was the argument against homosexuality until reformers campaigned and won against it I can't see what valid argument exists against incest marriage.

The law exists for everyone and if we are going to have different strokes for different strokes then we should be consistent.

Edited by Stirlingsays (25 May 2015 11.10am)

I do think that Stirlings right jamie.

I really think you misunderstood my point when I brought in the case of homosexual incestuous couples. I used the example not because I think there is any link between homosexuality and incest but to illustrate that marriage has nothing to do with childbearing in law.

Your comment:
'the affect of homosexuality outside of the consenting adults is negligible to non-existant' seemed to come out of nowhere.
I was insinuating no such thing.

I personally can only think of the argument against incestuous marriage being that it is in such a small minority that there is no need for it.
I can't think of any well-founded adverse psychological or biological reasons to deny marriage to incestuous couples. Each can be conducted on a case by case basis after all.

 


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jamiemartin721 Flag Reading 25 May 15 12.30pm

Quote Stirlingsays at 25 May 2015 11.06am

Quote jamiemartin721 at 25 May 2015 9.30am

We do allow close genetic union - Cousins or more distant are exempt from incest.

Big difference is a) consenting incest is really f**king rare b) the affect of homosexuality outside of the consenting adults is negligible to non-existant.

Complete straw man argument that has no bearing on the actual reality of the point its trying to make.

No, it isn't a straw man argument at all.

The comment, 'consenting incest is really f**king rare' is pointless and also appears to be plucked out of your own prejudices...I mean how on earth would you know?

There aren't really any reliable statistics or data, or many cases that come into contact through social services or law enforcement.

The laws regarding incest, with consent probably could do with an overhaul, as they seem unduly harsh where no actual harm has occurred.

Quote Stirlingsays at 25 May 2015 11.06am

Until the 1967 homosexaulity was banned in Britain....The argument against it, outside of religion, was mainly the public's 'yuk' factor as what goes on between consenting adults isn't their business....'individual rights' won and even Thatcher voted to legalise. It was, I'm sure most of agree a good thing.

The difference here probably can be drawn from a) the commonality of homosexuality and b) the harm presented by evidence of homosexuality. Notably homosexuality was only illegal between men under UK law.

Quote Stirlingsays at 25 May 2015 11.06am

To my mind the main arguments against incest is that it obviously can cause internal family conflict...But it isn't for the state to tell people how to conduct their family life outside of sex with minors so in cases where people are beyond the age of consent the argument becomes a very old fashioned one.

There is a specific risk involving future children in relation to genetic disorders, specifically those carried on recessive genes, as well as increased risks related to congenital disorders (notably blood disorders).

I'd say the laws regarding incest require some review, but I can't see a grounds for marriage being permitted, but you are right, its mostly a yuck thing.

Quote Stirlingsays at 25 May 2015 11.06am
Secondly As we have seen, getting married and producing children with higher risks of deformaties is allowed for couples with conditions so that argument can't be rationally used to stop incest marriage either.

Is a good point. The risk is only higher with siblings.

Quote Stirlingsays at 25 May 2015 11.06am
No, it's just the 'yuk' factor and distaste and considering that this was the argument against homosexuality until reformers campaigned and won against it I can't see what valid argument exists against incest marriage.

Of course homosexuality is unavoidable, people are gay. Where as incest isn't definable as a sexuality or group identity, it occurs specifically between two people. We've all been in love with someone, split up and found love agains and again. Few people really change their sexual orientation in the same way.

So consentual incest is really a kind of choice, rather than an orientation. I'm kind of swayed towards the idea that where incest isn't abusive in origin, that it maybe needs to treated as acceptable in society (notable cases where unknowing siblings have come to form relationships).

Also in reading up a bit on incest there is a factor referred to as Genetic Sexual Attraction.

So my view has shifted somewhat, that in some cases incest should not be considered a crime.


 


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jamiemartin721 Flag Reading 25 May 15 12.32pm

Quote EaglesEaglesEagles at 25 May 2015 11.50am

Quote Stirlingsays at 25 May 2015 11.06am

Quote jamiemartin721 at 25 May 2015 9.30am

We do allow close genetic union - Cousins or more distant are exempt from incest.

Big difference is a) consenting incest is really f**king rare b) the affect of homosexuality outside of the consenting adults is negligible to non-existant.

Complete straw man argument that has no bearing on the actual reality of the point its trying to make.

No, it isn't a straw man argument at all.

The comment, 'consenting incest is really f**king rare' is pointless and also appears to be plucked out of your own prejudices...I mean how on earth would you know?

Besides it doesn't have any relation to the argument as obviously those cases where abuse is proven can simply not be allowed.....It isn't an argument against the legalising of incest marriage.

Until the 1967 homosexaulity was banned in Britain....The argument against it, outside of religion, was mainly the public's 'yuk' factor as what goes on between consenting adults isn't their business....'individual rights' won and even Thatcher voted to legalise. It was, I'm sure most of agree a good thing.

To my mind the main arguments against incest is that it obviously can cause internal family conflict...But it isn't for the state to tell people how to conduct their family life outside of sex with minors so in cases where people are beyond the age of consent the argument becomes a very old fashioned one.

Secondly As we have seen, getting married and producing children with higher risks of deformaties is allowed for couples with conditions so that argument can't be rationally used to stop incest marriage either.

No, it's just the 'yuk' factor and distaste and considering that this was the argument against homosexuality until reformers campaigned and won against it I can't see what valid argument exists against incest marriage.

The law exists for everyone and if we are going to have different strokes for different strokes then we should be consistent.

Edited by Stirlingsays (25 May 2015 11.10am)

I do think that Stirlings right jamie.

I really think you misunderstood my point when I brought in the case of homosexual incestuous couples. I used the example not because I think there is any link between homosexuality and incest but to illustrate that marriage has nothing to do with childbearing in law.

Your comment:
'the affect of homosexuality outside of the consenting adults is negligible to non-existant' seemed to come out of nowhere.
I was insinuating no such thing.

I personally can only think of the argument against incestuous marriage being that it is in such a small minority that there is no need for it.
I can't think of any well-founded adverse psychological or biological reasons to deny marriage to incestuous couples. Each can be conducted on a case by case basis after all.

There are some good biological ones, where genetic disorders are concerned, simply because the dispartity of genetic difference increases the risk of such genes being inherited, especially where recessive genes are a factor, there are a few risks of blood disorders but really nothing so much that it should result in criminalisation.


 


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Quote EaglesEaglesEagles at 25 May 2015 11.50am

I do think that Stirlings right jamie.

I really think you misunderstood my point when I brought in the case of homosexual incestuous couples. I used the example not because I think there is any link between homosexuality and incest but to illustrate that marriage has nothing to do with childbearing in law.

Your comment:
'the affect of homosexuality outside of the consenting adults is negligible to non-existant' seemed to come out of nowhere.
I was insinuating no such thing.

I personally can only think of the argument against incestuous marriage being that it is in such a small minority that there is no need for it.
I can't think of any well-founded adverse psychological or biological reasons to deny marriage to incestuous couples. Each can be conducted on a case by case basis after all.


I didn't realise I was replying to Jamie.....I would have probably have been a bit more tactful.

However, it doesn't change the thrust of the argument and I agree......A case by case basis seems like the fair logical outcome.

 


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jamiemartin721 Flag Reading 25 May 15 12.36pm

Quote derben at 24 May 2015 7.00pm

There is nothing wrong with being gay.

It is probably better on the whole if children are brought up by a man and a woman, although there are no doubt some gay couples who would do a better job than some straight couples.

There is nothing wrong with gay people going through a form of marriage ceremony although a lot of people do not regard it as a true marriage as that term defines the union of a man and a woman, but I guess it is only a word so it does not really matter.

What is wrong and does matter is when the likes of the Northern Ireland bakers are persecuted for declining to assist in supporting same sex marriage. People should have the right to disapprove of same sex marriage and indeed gayness itself if they want. Businesses should have the right to decline to become involved in political issues.

Edited by derben (24 May 2015 7.01pm)

They broke a contract on the basis of their beliefs - And their ensuing defence led to their being identified as violating equal rights law.


 


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Quote ZIGnZAG at 24 May 2015 8.00pmthe hell do you think I should be questioning my own sexuality just because I have a different opinion on the matter

No it's not.

Not every person thinks the same either. Gay or not. That's you being ignorant, not me.

I get "gay" people think they were "born" that way. Peodophiles probably think they were "born" that way too. As do murderers, rapists and so on.
Should we change the laws for all of these people, because hey, there people too, they have "rights".
No, we most definitely should not.

There is no reliable evidence to suggest that murderers or rapists are born that way. Pedophiles may be, but the key element here is that of defined consent.

Being gay doesn't result in deaths, rapes or child sexual abuse.


 


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derben Flag 25 May 15 12.44pm

Quote jamiemartin721 at 25 May 2015 12.36pm

Quote derben at 24 May 2015 7.00pm

There is nothing wrong with being gay.

It is probably better on the whole if children are brought up by a man and a woman, although there are no doubt some gay couples who would do a better job than some straight couples.

There is nothing wrong with gay people going through a form of marriage ceremony although a lot of people do not regard it as a true marriage as that term defines the union of a man and a woman, but I guess it is only a word so it does not really matter.

What is wrong and does matter is when the likes of the Northern Ireland bakers are persecuted for declining to assist in supporting same sex marriage. People should have the right to disapprove of same sex marriage and indeed gayness itself if they want. Businesses should have the right to decline to become involved in political issues.

Edited by derben (24 May 2015 7.01pm)

They broke a contract on the basis of their beliefs - And their ensuing defence led to their being identified as violating equal rights law.



You keep going on about Contract Law. The gay trouble maker did not sue the bakers under contract law, he sued them under the Equality Act (Sexual Orientation) Regulations (Northern Ireland)2006, claiming he had been discriminated against contrary to its provisions. The Act defines discrimination as 'on grounds of sexual orientation, person A treats person B less favourably than he treats other persons'. Clearly the bakers would have treated a straight man in exactly the same way if he had asked for the same wording on the cake. Obviously not guilty, victims of a biased new establishment kangaroo court.

 

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Quote jamiemartin721 at 25 May 2015 12.38pm

Quote ZIGnZAG at 24 May 2015 8.00pmthe hell do you think I should be questioning my own sexuality just because I have a different opinion on the matter

No it's not.

Not every person thinks the same either. Gay or not. That's you being ignorant, not me.

I get "gay" people think they were "born" that way. Peodophiles probably think they were "born" that way too. As do murderers, rapists and so on.
Should we change the laws for all of these people, because hey, there people too, they have "rights".
No, we most definitely should not.

There is no reliable evidence to suggest that murderers or rapists are born that way. Pedophiles may be, but the key element here is that of defined consent.

Being gay doesn't result in deaths, rapes or child sexual abuse.



Nor is there any such evidence to suggest that homosexuals are born that way either. Shock.. Horror.

Being gay could result in any of those things, doesn't mean it definitely will but it could. Who knows.
For many though homosexuality does have a certain "yuk" thing.

 

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jamiemartin721 Flag Reading 25 May 15 12.50pm

Quote derben at 25 May 2015 12.44pm

Quote jamiemartin721 at 25 May 2015 12.36pm

Quote derben at 24 May 2015 7.00pm

There is nothing wrong with being gay.

It is probably better on the whole if children are brought up by a man and a woman, although there are no doubt some gay couples who would do a better job than some straight couples.

There is nothing wrong with gay people going through a form of marriage ceremony although a lot of people do not regard it as a true marriage as that term defines the union of a man and a woman, but I guess it is only a word so it does not really matter.

What is wrong and does matter is when the likes of the Northern Ireland bakers are persecuted for declining to assist in supporting same sex marriage. People should have the right to disapprove of same sex marriage and indeed gayness itself if they want. Businesses should have the right to decline to become involved in political issues.

Edited by derben (24 May 2015 7.01pm)

They broke a contract on the basis of their beliefs - And their ensuing defence led to their being identified as violating equal rights law.



You keep going on about Contract Law. The gay trouble maker did not sue the bakers under contract law, he sued them under the Equality Act (Sexual Orientation) Regulations (Northern Ireland)2006, claiming he had been discriminated against contrary to its provisions. The Act defines discrimination as 'on grounds of sexual orientation, person A treats person B less favourably than he treats other persons'. Clearly the bakers would have treated a straight man in exactly the same way if he had asked for the same wording on the cake. Obviously not guilty, victims of a biased new establishment kangaroo court.

Contract law is vital because the key factor is that they willingly accepted the order and money, but then specifically broke a contract on basis of their religious convictions: that is not a grounds for breaking a contract, and as such, given they were willing to accept the order, could only have objected to the sexuality factor.

As such, the rights of the customer were violated on the grounds of sexuality (not specifically his) not the message, because the order was taken willingly and knowingly.

Violating a contract on the basis of sexuality is discrimination (because you willingly entered it in the first place, knowing what you were being asked). if they'd refused in the first place, they'd have been fine.


 


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Quote ZIGnZAG at 25 May 2015 12.49pm

Quote jamiemartin721 at 25 May 2015 12.38pm

Quote ZIGnZAG at 24 May 2015 8.00pmthe hell do you think I should be questioning my own sexuality just because I have a different opinion on the matter

No it's not.

Not every person thinks the same either. Gay or not. That's you being ignorant, not me.

I get "gay" people think they were "born" that way. Peodophiles probably think they were "born" that way too. As do murderers, rapists and so on.
Should we change the laws for all of these people, because hey, there people too, they have "rights".
No, we most definitely should not.

There is no reliable evidence to suggest that murderers or rapists are born that way. Pedophiles may be, but the key element here is that of defined consent.

Being gay doesn't result in deaths, rapes or child sexual abuse.



Nor is there any such evidence to suggest that homosexuals are born that way either. Shock.. Horror.

Being gay could result in any of those things, doesn't mean it definitely will but it could. Who knows.
For many though homosexuality does have a certain "yuk" thing.

There is actually quite a lot. Far more, particually in relation to developmental psychology and neurology. Homosexuality is only a choice of preference in some cases, most gay males report child developmental basis that exhibits sexual orientation towards the same gender from an early age, 5-7, when typically children begin to exhibit early stages of pre-pubescent sexual development.

Interestingly this also features far more commonly than in hetrosexuals, where fixed sexuality is far less common. By comparison its harder to find hetrosexuals who haven't experimented or gone through a phase, than homosexuals.

 


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derben Flag 25 May 15 12.56pm

Quote jamiemartin721 at 25 May 2015 12.50pm

Quote derben at 25 May 2015 12.44pm

Quote jamiemartin721 at 25 May 2015 12.36pm

Quote derben at 24 May 2015 7.00pm

There is nothing wrong with being gay.

It is probably better on the whole if children are brought up by a man and a woman, although there are no doubt some gay couples who would do a better job than some straight couples.

There is nothing wrong with gay people going through a form of marriage ceremony although a lot of people do not regard it as a true marriage as that term defines the union of a man and a woman, but I guess it is only a word so it does not really matter.

What is wrong and does matter is when the likes of the Northern Ireland bakers are persecuted for declining to assist in supporting same sex marriage. People should have the right to disapprove of same sex marriage and indeed gayness itself if they want. Businesses should have the right to decline to become involved in political issues.

Edited by derben (24 May 2015 7.01pm)

They broke a contract on the basis of their beliefs - And their ensuing defence led to their being identified as violating equal rights law.



You keep going on about Contract Law. The gay trouble maker did not sue the bakers under contract law, he sued them under the Equality Act (Sexual Orientation) Regulations (Northern Ireland)2006, claiming he had been discriminated against contrary to its provisions. The Act defines discrimination as 'on grounds of sexual orientation, person A treats person B less favourably than he treats other persons'. Clearly the bakers would have treated a straight man in exactly the same way if he had asked for the same wording on the cake. Obviously not guilty, victims of a biased new establishment kangaroo court.

Contract law is vital because the key factor is that they willingly accepted the order and money, but then specifically broke a contract on basis of their religious convictions: that is not a grounds for breaking a contract, and as such, given they were willing to accept the order, could only have objected to the sexuality factor.

As such, the rights of the customer were violated on the grounds of sexuality (not specifically his) not the message, because the order was taken willingly and knowingly.

Violating a contract on the basis of sexuality is discrimination (because you willingly entered it in the first place, knowing what you were being asked). if they'd refused in the first place, they'd have been fine.


I repeat: the Ashers Bakery people were not sued under Contract Law, they were sued under the Equality Act (Sexual Orientation) Regulations (Northern Ireland) 2006, the plaintiff claiming he had been discriminated against contrary to its provisions. The 'judgement' was wrong and vindictive.

 

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