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cryrst Flag The garden of England 13 Dec 22 3.48am Send a Private Message to cryrst Add cryrst as a friend

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Anytime is sad but Xmas time. I wonder if these parents knew where the kids were.

 

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Dubai Eagle Flag 13 Dec 22 7.11am Send a Private Message to Dubai Eagle Add Dubai Eagle as a friend

I know when we were growing up we did all manner of stupid things , not seeing the dangers, there but for the grace of god would go so many.

 

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Willo Flag South coast - west of Brighton. 13 Dec 22 7.48am Send a Private Message to Willo Add Willo as a friend

What a terrible tragedy.
My hearts and prayers go out to their poor parents, families and friends.What an awful time for them.
RIP

 

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Midlands Eagle Flag 15 Dec 22 8.33am Send a Private Message to Midlands Eagle Add Midlands Eagle as a friend

Originally posted by cryrst

I wonder if these parents knew where the kids were.

Probably but they may not have realised that the lake was frozen over or that their kids would try and walk on it

The park that the lake was in was in Solihull which is a fairly upmarket part of Birmingham

 

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Stirlingsays Flag 15 Dec 22 8.41am Send a Private Message to Stirlingsays Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add Stirlingsays as a friend

If water is iced over, kids are going to walk over it.

It's a terrible tragedy and the bad luck of the draw. Kids today are already over wrapped in cotton wool and it damages them in different ways.

 


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Badger11 Flag Beckenham 15 Dec 22 8.52am Send a Private Message to Badger11 Add Badger11 as a friend

Originally posted by cryrst

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Anytime is sad but Xmas time. I wonder if these parents knew where the kids were.

It doesn't make them bad parents, when I was a kid we used to roam everywhere that what boys do. I think it is just a tragedy when I think of some of the stuff I got up to we were lucky that nothing went wrong.

 


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kingdowieonthewall Flag Sussex, ex-Cronx. 15 Dec 22 10.14am Send a Private Message to kingdowieonthewall Add kingdowieonthewall as a friend

Originally posted by Badger11

It doesn't make them bad parents, when I was a kid we used to roam everywhere that what boys do. I think it is just a tragedy when I think of some of the stuff I got up to we were lucky that nothing went wrong.

my brother & I were always bunking over the fence to explore the railway lines.
(the old addiscombe line that no longer runs)
my dad often threatened us with the police to visit , in a desperate bid to stop us.

 


Kids,tired of being bothered by your pesky parents?
Then leave home, get a job & pay your own bills, while you still know everything.

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Midlands Eagle Flag 15 Dec 22 3.57pm Send a Private Message to Midlands Eagle Add Midlands Eagle as a friend

The youngest were two brothers plus their cousin and a friend. I can't think how the parents could ever recover from this tragedy

 

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Palace Old Geezer Flag Midhurst 15 Dec 22 5.51pm Send a Private Message to Palace Old Geezer Add Palace Old Geezer as a friend

Originally posted by kingdowieonthewall

my brother & I were always bunking over the fence to explore the railway lines.
(the old addiscombe line that no longer runs)
my dad often threatened us with the police to visit , in a desperate bid to stop us.

The line between Carshalton and Mitcham Junction ran along an embankment at the end of our garden. We made camps among the bushes and small trees and created some wonderful war games there. Under strict instructions not to go near the lines.

We did, of course, and flattening pennies was a favourite pastime. The eldest brother of a school chum was electrocuted, but it didn't deter us.

Kids will be kids eh? Thing is that, now in our 70s, we read stories about those poor kids in Solihull and feel nothing but deep sorrow for their bereft families.

 


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ASCPFC Flag Pro-Cathedral/caravan park 16 Dec 22 8.01pm Send a Private Message to ASCPFC Add ASCPFC as a friend

Terrible shame and quite a shock that cold water killed them in that space of time. Makes me think of the times I was told not to skate on the ponds but still did.

 


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kingdowieonthewall Flag Sussex, ex-Cronx. 17 Dec 22 8.04am Send a Private Message to kingdowieonthewall Add kingdowieonthewall as a friend

Originally posted by ASCPFC

Terrible shame and quite a shock that cold water killed them in that space of time. Makes me think of the times I was told not to skate on the ponds but still did.

true.
I expect we've all had close calls, without being aware of our predicament at the time.

 


Kids,tired of being bothered by your pesky parents?
Then leave home, get a job & pay your own bills, while you still know everything.

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Forest Hillbilly Flag in a hidey-hole 17 Dec 22 8.17am Send a Private Message to Forest Hillbilly Add Forest Hillbilly as a friend

It's also the tragedy of those seeking to rescue. In a lot of situations, like a dog falling in a river, or someone over-come by fumes in a confined space, there always seems to be an unexepectedly high number of people killed whilst attempting to rescue someone/dog.
The thought of watching someone you love dying in front of you is not an option for a lot of people. However, well intentioned.

As others have said, probably a lot of us have done similar as kids.

 


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