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PalazioVecchio Flag south pole 20 Aug 21 11.22am Send a Private Message to PalazioVecchio Add PalazioVecchio as a friend

well, according to this fella they are. The information age, & statistics, seems to have shed some light on our reality.

Romantic stories & myths have been revealed as just that : a myth.

For much of Medieval History we have been sold a monogamy narrative. That alpha males go with alpha females. And that Untermenschen Males will partner off with Untermenschen Females.

And now the truth seems to portray a world closer to a David Attenburgh documentary. Don Draper, George Clooney, Cristiano Ronaldo gets a bevy of admirers. Old man Steptoe ? not so much.

And the height of the man is everything. No matter if he is a boozer, a loser, low IQ, a prisoner, and skint...if he is tall the girls love him. According to the fella in the link below, the vast majority of men are 'not tall enough', not even for a 5' woman to fancy.

No wonder the Joe Pesci portrayal of an angry short fella gets such recognition. If you are under 5'2" the data are damning.

Dating apps do not lie. The statistical data are out there. We are now looking at the 80:20 rule, or even the 90:10 rule. Most women chasing after few men.

Of course Bernie Eccleston is the exception to the rule. Very short and still married to a scorcher.

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Edited by PalazioVecchio (20 Aug 2021 11.31am)

 


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DanH Flag SW2 20 Aug 21 12.02pm Send a Private Message to DanH Add DanH as a friend

I've never had any problem but then again I am gorgeous.

 

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Stirlingsays Flag 20 Aug 21 12.03pm Send a Private Message to Stirlingsays Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add Stirlingsays as a friend

Originally posted by DanH

I've never had any problem but then again I am gorgeous.

 


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Stirlingsays Flag 20 Aug 21 12.15pm Send a Private Message to Stirlingsays Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add Stirlingsays as a friend

Originally posted by PalazioVecchio

well, according to this fella they are. The information age, & statistics, seems to have shed some light on our reality.

Romantic stories & myths have been revealed as just that : a myth.

For much of Medieval History we have been sold a monogamy narrative. That alpha males go with alpha females. And that Untermenschen Males will partner off with Untermenschen Females.

And now the truth seems to portray a world closer to a David Attenburgh documentary. Don Draper, George Clooney, Cristiano Ronaldo gets a bevy of admirers. Old man Steptoe ? not so much.

And the height of the man is everything. No matter if he is a boozer, a loser, low IQ, a prisoner, and skint...if he is tall the girls love him. According to the fella in the link below, the vast majority of men are 'not tall enough', not even for a 5' woman to fancy.

No wonder the Joe Pesci portrayal of an angry short fella gets such recognition. If you are under 5'2" the data are damning.

Dating apps do not lie. The statistical data are out there. We are now looking at the 80:20 rule, or even the 90:10 rule. Most women chasing after few men.

Of course Bernie Eccleston is the exception to the rule. Very short and still married to a scorcher.

Discuss

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Edited by PalazioVecchio (20 Aug 2021 11.31am)

Yep, society and the media basically lies to the young and older all the way through. It sells them a version of the world that doesn't exist unless it's significantly filtered.

If you come from a family with hard nosed sensible people in it you get educated and informed quite young as to the basic inherent unfairness of life and how resilient you have to be to meet its challenges.

The primary school playground is all the education you need as to real human nature....as people get older the language improves and the violence reduces or is more hidden.....but the kids are just older and controlled versions of the same material.

However, many on the tough side of the tracks don't get senisble people in their families....many don't get fathers or have self absorbed selfish people in their family or much worse they get abuse/neglected and/or have mental issues.

The 80:20 rule is a real aspect of human nature and due to ideologies modern society is deaf to the problems. Because it loves the sounds of its own theories. Whereas 80:20 is just what actually happens.

And in a sensible balanced society what actually happens should be considered important.

Edited by Stirlingsays (20 Aug 2021 12.22pm)

 


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PalazioVecchio Flag south pole 20 Aug 21 12.56pm Send a Private Message to PalazioVecchio Add PalazioVecchio as a friend

During medieval times ?

just because she is married to Steptoe, does not mean she will be bearing the kids of Steptoe.

Just ask Wilfred Bramble (actually he was gay and divorced the wife shortly after the birth of the kid).

Today, the DNA paternity test is another link in the chain of the Information Age. DNA paternity testing seems to have been outlawed in France as it 'may cause upset to some families'. Jeez !

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Edited by PalazioVecchio (20 Aug 2021 12.57pm)

 


Kayla did Anfield & Old Trafford

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Rudi Hedman Flag Caterham 20 Aug 21 1.02pm Send a Private Message to Rudi Hedman Add Rudi Hedman as a friend

Women’s expectations for a partner changed when series like ‘Sex And The City’ started cropping up. Probably even ‘Pretty Woman’, where a hooker can bag a very good looking mega wealthy man. Fairytales have been around for yonks, but now they’re made to look realistic, when they aren’t.

Politicians are fooling the young even more. Further education for well below average intelligence and ability. (Another separate argument here is that well spoken young slip through clearing and go onto good careers whereas less articulate kids who’d struggle to communicate in offices etc do not)

 


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PalazioVecchio Flag south pole 20 Aug 21 1.38pm Send a Private Message to PalazioVecchio Add PalazioVecchio as a friend

Originally posted by Rudi Hedman

Politicians are fooling the young even more.

Does the Prime Minister have 8 kids by 3 young women ?

The bloke, in my youtube link above, has said that 'many women would prefer to be in the Harem of a high ranking male'. Better than getting monogamy from a Steptoe.

Edited by PalazioVecchio (20 Aug 2021 1.58pm)

 


Kayla did Anfield & Old Trafford

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beak Flag croydon 20 Aug 21 1.40pm Send a Private Message to beak Add beak as a friend

Originally posted by PalazioVecchio

Does the Prime Minister have 8 kids by 3 young women ?

The bloke in my youtube link above has said that many women would prefer to be in the Harem of a high ranking male. Better than to get monogamy with a Steptoe.

So what about Steptoe's Grandad ...... Jamie Vardy.

 

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Badger11 Flag Beckenham 20 Aug 21 1.41pm Send a Private Message to Badger11 Add Badger11 as a friend

Originally posted by PalazioVecchio

During medieval times ?

just because she is married to Steptoe, does not mean she will be bearing the kids of Steptoe.

Just ask Wilfred Bramble (actually he was gay and divorced the wife shortly after the birth of the kid).

Today, the DNA paternity test is another link in the chain of the Information Age. DNA paternity testing seems to have been outlawed in France as it 'may cause upset to some families'. Jeez !

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Edited by PalazioVecchio (20 Aug 2021 12.57pm)

There have been cases in the UK / US where a paternity test has proved the father is not the father but a judge has overruled it in the interests of the child.

 


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Stirlingsays Flag 20 Aug 21 1.48pm Send a Private Message to Stirlingsays Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add Stirlingsays as a friend

Originally posted by Badger11

There have been cases in the UK / US where a paternity test has proved the father is not the father but a judge has overruled it in the interests of the child.

Wow, that's incredible.

 


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mr. apollo Flag Somewhere in Switzerland 25 Aug 21 10.49am Send a Private Message to mr. apollo Add mr. apollo as a friend

In answer to the OP mine was very picky but chose a good 'un.

 



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BlueJay Flag UK 25 Aug 21 10.57am

Often not picky enough.

 

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