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pefwin Flag Where you have to have an English ... 14 Feb 18 2.41pm

I think this goes here but feel free to move to general.

I was wondering what people's thoughts were on same sex couples using a surrogate mother or adopting?

 


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Yellow Card - User has been warned of conduct on the messageboards Hrolf The Ganger Flag 14 Feb 18 2.46pm Send a Private Message to Hrolf The Ganger Add Hrolf The Ganger as a friend

Originally posted by pefwin

I think this goes here but feel free to move to general.

I was wondering what people's thoughts were on same sex couples using a surrogate mother or adopting?

Not a fan.
There are plenty of kids that need adopting. I also can't help wondering if the interests of the child are being considered above the 'needs' of the couple. Ending up in a one parent or single sex parents situation is one thing, but making it happen on purpose is questionable in my opinion.

 

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Jimjim Flag 14 Feb 18 2.50pm

Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger

Not a fan.
There are plenty of kids that need adopting. I also can't help wondering if the interests of the child are being considered above the 'needs' of the couple. Ending up in a one parent or single sex parents situation is one thing, but making it happen on purpose is questionable in my opinion.

So straight couples should not let it happen on purpose either?

 

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Yellow Card - User has been warned of conduct on the messageboards Hrolf The Ganger Flag 14 Feb 18 2.58pm Send a Private Message to Hrolf The Ganger Add Hrolf The Ganger as a friend

Originally posted by Jimjim

So straight couples should not let it happen on purpose either?

The issue here is if surrogacy is appropriate for gay couples and the potential effects on that child of having same sex parents and a surrogate mother.
Are the wishes of the couple being prioritised over the interests of the child?

 

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matthau Flag South Croydon 14 Feb 18 3.21pm Send a Private Message to matthau Add matthau as a friend

I’m more intrigued about how men who come out as gay who’ve already started a family, how on earth did they get it up for a woman if they were gay? Surely the idea of having sex with a woman was so disgusting a thought and erection was a world away from happening?

 

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coulsdoneagle Flag London 14 Feb 18 3.55pm Send a Private Message to coulsdoneagle Add coulsdoneagle as a friend

Can’t have an unplanned kid if you are openly gay and in a same secx committed relationship, every child that they have is harder to get, i’m all for it. Can’t say the same about a lot of non same sex couples that end up having a kid they didn’t really plan and hadnt prepared to have.

 

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Stirlingsays Flag 14 Feb 18 3.59pm Send a Private Message to Stirlingsays Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add Stirlingsays as a friend

Not a fan.

I don't like the media trying to normalise something I don't consider the better way of bringing up children.

They just want an argument.

 


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Stuk Flag Top half 14 Feb 18 4.04pm Send a Private Message to Stuk Add Stuk as a friend

I wouldn't call it news or politics. In fact I see no reason why they feel the need to announce this at all.

Tell your families and friends, but no one else cares. The same goes for Jay-Z and Beyonce dragging their kid along everywhere. Your famous, she isn't, leave her at home like every other parent in the room did.

 


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andyg Flag york 14 Feb 18 4.09pm Send a Private Message to andyg Add andyg as a friend

married couple announce baby on twitter to their followers.

Thousands of people announce pregnancies on social media every day.

I dont see the problem in a loving couple bringing up a children. You might have been bullied 20 years ago but not today.

 

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Stirlingsays Flag 14 Feb 18 4.33pm Send a Private Message to Stirlingsays Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add Stirlingsays as a friend

Originally posted by andyg

married couple announce baby on twitter to their followers.

Thousands of people announce pregnancies on social media every day.

I dont see the problem in a loving couple bringing up a children. You might have been bullied 20 years ago but not today.

I'm not ok with the idea that a female influence can be potentially excluded from raising a child.

Children with same sex parents are rare and still are bullied for it.....what kind of bubble are you living in?

Children get bullied for being different on just about anything.

Edited by Stirlingsays (14 Feb 2018 4.33pm)

 


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PalazioVecchio Flag south pole 14 Feb 18 4.40pm Send a Private Message to PalazioVecchio Add PalazioVecchio as a friend

double post

Edited by PalazioVecchio (14 Feb 2018 4.46pm)

 


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DanH Flag SW2 14 Feb 18 5.22pm Send a Private Message to DanH Add DanH as a friend

Originally posted by Stirlingsays

I'm not ok with the idea that a female influence can be potentially excluded from raising a child.

Children with same sex parents are rare and still are bullied for it.....what kind of bubble are you living in?

Children get bullied for being different on just about anything.

Edited by Stirlingsays (14 Feb 2018 4.33pm)

Aren't "beta males" practically female in your book anyway?

Good luck to 'em I say; as long as the child is loved and has a stable and happy home that's the most important thing.

 

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