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 Harry Beever  Newbury 23 Feb 15 9.05am |
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Seeing a great girl at the moment who's soon to be ex husband has been stalking her using her iPhone. Their marriage broke down a few years ago after she found out he'd been shagging the babysitter for a year and a half. He's an alcoholic with mental health issues who has spent time inside in the past and is not the nicest of individuals. Pretty sure he used to hit her as well. He's managed to get hold of my number and sent a few spikey text messages even though they've been living apart for years. They have a joint iTunes account and he's been constantly tracking her using "find my iPhone". He also has been and continues to read all her messages. Not that familiar with the icloud but she's tried changing her iCloud password and he's still managing to stalk her. If she switches off iMessages a lot of her text messages seem to fail. Their 2 kids share an iPad, he has an iPad and iPhone and she has an iPhone. Think all the devices are linked to the same account. Can anyone from the Palace brethren (maybe staffie?) think of a solution? Can she set up her own new iTunes account and import all of her own and the kids' content? Would really appreciate any ideas. It's starting to freak me out a little!
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| jamiemartin721 Reading 23 Feb 15 10.42am |
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See a solicitor, and then Apple in that order. You probably want a restraining order and contact the Police. People like this can be very dangerous, both to you, your missus and the their kids.
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aquickgame2  Beni = summer,Caribbean = winter 23 Feb 15 10.46am |
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Quote jamiemartin721 at 23 Feb 2015 10.42am
See a solicitor, and then Apple in that order. You probably want a restraining order and contact the Police. People like this can be very dangerous, both to you, your missus and the their kids.
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mr. apollo  Somewhere in Switzerland 23 Feb 15 11.05am |
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She can log into icloud.com and change the password to that account and all the "backup" details and that will effectivly cut husband out as he will not be able to access. Use a long complex password such as P@l@cei$theT0PZ and that should fix that. It is not really good practice all using the same account and unless there are bought apps there is no real need to do so.
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Y Ddraig Goch  In The Crowd 23 Feb 15 11.10am |
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Go into Settings / Location Services / System Services and you can deactivate it on the phone
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| Harry Beever Newbury 23 Feb 15 11.59am |
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Thanks. Slightly complicated in that they ran a business together and also (I think) have access to each other's business emails which I think are linked to iTunes. She changed the iCloud password but I'm wondering if he read the email with the new password. She uses google maps a lot and is always losing her phone so is keen not to disable her location services if possible but if there's no way round it she will. He's quite a manipulator. He's convinced her it was her fault he had the affair. She doesn't blame him for any of his behaviour excusing it with "he's not well" which I can understand to a point. He also convinced her he should be allowed to track her as he has a right to know where his kids are. He's been tracking her when he knows the kids are with the grandparents though so don't buy that and explained he can always text and ask!
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| Lyons550 Shirley 23 Feb 15 12.40pm |
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Quote Harry Beever at 23 Feb 2015 9.05am
Seeing a great girl at the moment who's soon to be ex husband has been stalking her using her iPhone. Their marriage broke down a few years ago after she found out he'd been shagging the babysitter for a year and a half. He's an alcoholic with mental health issues who has spent time inside in the past and is not the nicest of individuals. Pretty sure he used to hit her as well. He's managed to get hold of my number and sent a few spikey text messages even though they've been living apart for years. They have a joint iTunes account and he's been constantly tracking her using "find my iPhone". He also has been and continues to read all her messages. Not that familiar with the icloud but she's tried changing her iCloud password and he's still managing to stalk her. If she switches off iMessages a lot of her text messages seem to fail. Their 2 kids share an iPad, he has an iPad and iPhone and she has an iPhone. Think all the devices are linked to the same account. Can anyone from the Palace brethren (maybe staffie?) think of a solution? Can she set up her own new iTunes account and import all of her own and the kids' content? Would really appreciate any ideas. It's starting to freak me out a little! Go Android...better OS
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| Part Time James 23 Feb 15 1.29pm |
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Quote Harry Beever at 23 Feb 2015 9.05am
Seeing a great girl at the moment who's soon to be ex husband has been stalking her using her iPhone. Their marriage broke down a few years ago after she found out he'd been shagging the babysitter for a year and a half. He's an alcoholic with mental health issues who has spent time inside in the past and is not the nicest of individuals. Pretty sure he used to hit her as well. He's managed to get hold of my number and sent a few spikey text messages even though they've been living apart for years. They have a joint iTunes account and he's been constantly tracking her using "find my iPhone". He also has been and continues to read all her messages. Not that familiar with the icloud but she's tried changing her iCloud password and he's still managing to stalk her. If she switches off iMessages a lot of her text messages seem to fail. Their 2 kids share an iPad, he has an iPad and iPhone and she has an iPhone. Think all the devices are linked to the same account. Can anyone from the Palace brethren (maybe staffie?) think of a solution? Can she set up her own new iTunes account and import all of her own and the kids' content? Would really appreciate any ideas. It's starting to freak me out a little!
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| mr. apollo Somewhere in Switzerland 23 Feb 15 1.45pm |
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You can change the email that icloud replies to so all she needs to do is reset passwords, secret questions and email and the husband will not be able to access it. Personally I would start afresh with a different user and password for every account. Quote Harry Beever at 23 Feb 2015 11.59am
Thanks. Slightly complicated in that they ran a business together and also (I think) have access to each other's business emails which I think are linked to iTunes. She changed the iCloud password but I'm wondering if he read the email with the new password. She uses google maps a lot and is always losing her phone so is keen not to disable her location services if possible but if there's no way round it she will. He's quite a manipulator. He's convinced her it was her fault he had the affair. She doesn't blame him for any of his behaviour excusing it with "he's not well" which I can understand to a point. He also convinced her he should be allowed to track her as he has a right to know where his kids are. He's been tracking her when he knows the kids are with the grandparents though so don't buy that and explained he can always text and ask!
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Quote Part Time James at 23 Feb 2015 1.29pm
Quote Harry Beever at 23 Feb 2015 9.05am
Seeing a great girl at the moment who's soon to be ex husband has been stalking her using her iPhone. Their marriage broke down a few years ago after she found out he'd been shagging the babysitter for a year and a half. He's an alcoholic with mental health issues who has spent time inside in the past and is not the nicest of individuals. Pretty sure he used to hit her as well. He's managed to get hold of my number and sent a few spikey text messages even though they've been living apart for years. They have a joint iTunes account and he's been constantly tracking her using "find my iPhone". He also has been and continues to read all her messages. Not that familiar with the icloud but she's tried changing her iCloud password and he's still managing to stalk her. If she switches off iMessages a lot of her text messages seem to fail. Their 2 kids share an iPad, he has an iPad and iPhone and she has an iPhone. Think all the devices are linked to the same account. Can anyone from the Palace brethren (maybe staffie?) think of a solution? Can she set up her own new iTunes account and import all of her own and the kids' content? Would really appreciate any ideas. It's starting to freak me out a little!
I like that but I prefer "every ICloud has a silver lining"
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| Part Time James 23 Feb 15 1.55pm |
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Quote Pussay Patrol at 23 Feb 2015 1.54pm
Quote Part Time James at 23 Feb 2015 1.29pm
Quote Harry Beever at 23 Feb 2015 9.05am
Seeing a great girl at the moment who's soon to be ex husband has been stalking her using her iPhone. Their marriage broke down a few years ago after she found out he'd been shagging the babysitter for a year and a half. He's an alcoholic with mental health issues who has spent time inside in the past and is not the nicest of individuals. Pretty sure he used to hit her as well. He's managed to get hold of my number and sent a few spikey text messages even though they've been living apart for years. They have a joint iTunes account and he's been constantly tracking her using "find my iPhone". He also has been and continues to read all her messages. Not that familiar with the icloud but she's tried changing her iCloud password and he's still managing to stalk her. If she switches off iMessages a lot of her text messages seem to fail. Their 2 kids share an iPad, he has an iPad and iPhone and she has an iPhone. Think all the devices are linked to the same account. Can anyone from the Palace brethren (maybe staffie?) think of a solution? Can she set up her own new iTunes account and import all of her own and the kids' content? Would really appreciate any ideas. It's starting to freak me out a little!
I like that but I prefer "every ICloud has a silver lining" This thread is going to fall apart now, I have a syncing feeling....
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| jamiemartin721 Reading 23 Feb 15 4.02pm |
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Quote Part Time James at 23 Feb 2015 1.55pm
Quote Pussay Patrol at 23 Feb 2015 1.54pm
Quote Part Time James at 23 Feb 2015 1.29pm
Quote Harry Beever at 23 Feb 2015 9.05am
Seeing a great girl at the moment who's soon to be ex husband has been stalking her using her iPhone. Their marriage broke down a few years ago after she found out he'd been shagging the babysitter for a year and a half. He's an alcoholic with mental health issues who has spent time inside in the past and is not the nicest of individuals. Pretty sure he used to hit her as well. He's managed to get hold of my number and sent a few spikey text messages even though they've been living apart for years. They have a joint iTunes account and he's been constantly tracking her using "find my iPhone". He also has been and continues to read all her messages. Not that familiar with the icloud but she's tried changing her iCloud password and he's still managing to stalk her. If she switches off iMessages a lot of her text messages seem to fail. Their 2 kids share an iPad, he has an iPad and iPhone and she has an iPhone. Think all the devices are linked to the same account. Can anyone from the Palace brethren (maybe staffie?) think of a solution? Can she set up her own new iTunes account and import all of her own and the kids' content? Would really appreciate any ideas. It's starting to freak me out a little!
I like that but I prefer "every ICloud has a silver lining" This thread is going to fall apart now, I have a syncing feeling.... You'll be Sirri you said that.
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