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cryrst Flag The garden of England 26 Feb 24 6.28am Send a Private Message to cryrst Add cryrst as a friend

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1 in 20. Mental health. Wtf is going on. Has the reality of life hit home for many that what you were told at school and uni about having everything you want isn’t actually true. Yes many will be genuine but most are possibly just feeling a bit sorry for themselves. I could just be harsh but I don’t remember this when I was in my 20s.

 

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Badger11 Flag Beckenham 26 Feb 24 8.00am Send a Private Message to Badger11 Add Badger11 as a friend

Take their benefits away from them, then they will really know what stress is.

It's our own fault we have bread a generation of snowflakes.

Mental health problems are real but the numbers are way out of proportion with previous generations. Sometimes life sucks and then you realise that are not going to be a Premier League footballer or social media influencer, welcome to the minimum wage job.

I recently returned from Vietnam what struck me was the can do culture, I predict they will be the next South Korea / Taiwan because they just get on with it. There have been enormous changes in that country in the last 30 years but it is mainly the people who all seem to have 2/3 jobs.

Edited by Badger11 (26 Feb 2024 8.02am)

 


One more point

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Stirlingsays Flag 26 Feb 24 8.15am Send a Private Message to Stirlingsays Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add Stirlingsays as a friend

For me one of the core weaknesses of social liberalism is the destruction of traditional modes of behaviour. For brevity's sake I reduce its effects to the masculine and feminine, but it influences much more than that.

Anyway this deconstruction of previous norms leads to loss of identity and certainty in behaviour within those indoctrinated to and the supposed 'freedom' causes, in effect, increases mental health problems.

Mental health is like stress, everybody is somewhere on a behavioural line in respect to it and will have issues at various times of their lives, whether others recognise it or not.

Some issue will always be latent....For me this highlights the incredible worth traditional norms has for society at large as those identities provide direction and usefulness that is now so lacking amongst the young it's almost a societal superpower.

Edited by Stirlingsays (26 Feb 2024 8.16am)

 


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Nicholas91 Flag The Democratic Republic of Kent 26 Feb 24 8.27am Send a Private Message to Nicholas91 Add Nicholas91 as a friend

I'd suggest the problem lies with having a million and one different ways to say you're 'feeling a bit down/sh!t' these days and the push of a narrative to suggest this is the end of the world and most important issue for young people, as opposed to any empowerment or wisdom to overcome it.

As with any of the liberal nonsense these days, my main concern is that it dilutes the real issues for those sincerely affected. Somehow, young people who feel ever so slightly lonely, disaffected or a bit spiritually weak (doesn't everybody?), as a result of the mundanities of life, are now encouraged and shuttled into the same boat as those with life altering and life threatening mental health issues.

 


Now Zaha's got a bit of green grass ahead of him here... and finds Ambrose... not a bad effort!!!!

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cryrst Flag The garden of England 26 Feb 24 6.47pm Send a Private Message to cryrst Add cryrst as a friend

Originally posted by Badger11

Take their benefits away from them, then they will really know what stress is.

It's our own fault we have bread a generation of snowflakes.

Mental health problems are real but the numbers are way out of proportion with previous generations. Sometimes life sucks and then you realise that are not going to be a Premier League footballer or social media influencer, welcome to the minimum wage job.

I recently returned from Vietnam what struck me was the can do culture, I predict they will be the next South Korea / Taiwan because they just get on with it. There have been enormous changes in that country in the last 30 years but it is mainly the people who all seem to have 2/3 jobs.

Edited by Badger11 (26 Feb 2024 8.02am)


We haven’t bred them. They have been indoctrinated from school to college to uni.
NEETS and this is the whole problem. Let kids leave school at 16 to work and this stops. Then jobs are filled intermittently, not in two months of the year. Some like school and learning. Some hate it. Give them a chance to choose.

 

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becky Flag over the moon 26 Feb 24 7.06pm Send a Private Message to becky Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add becky as a friend

Originally posted by cryrst


We haven’t bred them. They have been indoctrinated from school to college to uni.
NEETS and this is the whole problem. Let kids leave school at 16 to work and this stops. Then jobs are filled intermittently, not in two months of the year. Some like school and learning. Some hate it. Give them a chance to choose.

Nope! Starts before that - when you start asking a 3 year old what they want to eat or wear everyday, you can expect trouble later when people start telling them 'NO'

 


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PalazioVecchio Flag south pole 26 Feb 24 11.37pm Send a Private Message to PalazioVecchio Add PalazioVecchio as a friend

Japan or South Korea is the canary in the mine.

Everybody playing computer games in their bedroom at age 20, 30, 40. p.0rn addiction. Sky-high house prices and fertility & family life already gone down the sh1.tter.

People spending too much of life in education and not enough time running around the Park with a ball.

iPhones, posh Capuccino and a nihilistic life going nowhere.

Edited by PalazioVecchio (26 Feb 2024 11.39pm)

 


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Joseph Paxton Flag Lancing 26 Feb 24 11.42pm Send a Private Message to Joseph Paxton Add Joseph Paxton as a friend

Very simply - everyone has to feel they have a stake in society and achievable goals gained via application.

If you over educationalise - not actually educate - kids forcing them to all compete for meaningless A* grades while at same time allow them to see idiot influencers/ social media bods appear to gain riches from loafing about, flashing their bods and spewing inane s***e, then the young get alarmingly mixed messages.

The vital stake in society has been taken away from the young in the last 2 decades. Housing, families, jobs that aren't bulls*** have all disappeared and they are left without even the ability to rebel and upset the apple-cart as the 68ers did in the 60's because they get socially/digitally spotted and told they are neuro-divergent, unwell or 'other' and are probably invalids in our society. What I want is for them to rebel and get militant and tell us how they want the world which they will inherit - some brave folk do, particularly in the climate arena.

Fundamantally, we are a couple of decades away from significant societal collapse. Plummeting birth rate, lack of housing, abominable healthcare, climate crisis, ageing b*stards like me, and few young breadwinners to boost productivity. 20th Century Boys... Girls become geezers and biddies and 20th Century thinking is for the dustbin, yet it still seems to predominate in every sphere in 'modern' Britain.

 


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Forest Hillbilly Flag in a hidey-hole 27 Feb 24 7.59am Send a Private Message to Forest Hillbilly Add Forest Hillbilly as a friend

I blame the parents. They should be euthanised. and the spawn of their loins should be sterilised to prevent further breeding.

 


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