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Midlands Eagle Flag 18 Jul 21 9.12am Send a Private Message to Midlands Eagle Add Midlands Eagle as a friend

Originally posted by silvertop

Is not the term Elective Mute?

It used to be called that but is now mainly known as selective mutism as the person is selective in whom they talk to

 

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silvertop Flag Portishead 19 Jul 21 10.02am Send a Private Message to silvertop Add silvertop as a friend

Originally posted by Midlands Eagle

It used to be called that but is now mainly known as selective mutism as the person is selective in whom they talk to

Oh I see.

I came across one once. He was also quite autistic. I wonder if that was added misfortune or whether there is a link?

 

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Apollofuzz Flag On the edge of reason 19 Jul 21 10.25am Send a Private Message to Apollofuzz Add Apollofuzz as a friend

My daughter has a friend with this but it was always put down as being a "little Shy" She communicates mostly using whats-ap and social media where she comes across as a bubbly out going person, but face to face Will only talk to a very small select few and then only in whispers. Good luck I hope you find a path through to a solution.

Edited by Apollofuzz (19 Jul 2021 12.23pm)

 


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Midlands Eagle Flag 19 Jul 21 11.51am Send a Private Message to Midlands Eagle Add Midlands Eagle as a friend

Originally posted by silvertop

I came across one once. He was also quite autistic. I wonder if that was added misfortune or whether there is a link?

As I have mentioned my son is autistic and also selectively mute although I didn't realise that selective mutism is a condition on it's own until Spidey started this thread

 

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silvertop Flag Portishead 19 Jul 21 1.48pm Send a Private Message to silvertop Add silvertop as a friend

Originally posted by Midlands Eagle

As I have mentioned my son is autistic and also selectively mute although I didn't realise that selective mutism is a condition on it's own until Spidey started this thread

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BlueJay Flag UK 24 Jul 21 12.31am

Originally posted by Spiderman

Thank you for your kind words. She does have some close friends who she can converse with as she does with her close family. Unfortunately I fear it may have been left too long to obtain suitable treatment but I can only hope, as I do not know what the future will hold for the 2 of them

It's good at least that she does have some outlets in term of communication, in a situation that can't be easy for her (or others!). It's a shame that for conditions other than bog standard or commonplace it's so often hard to know where to turn or whether the advice you're receiving is even useful.

This specific page looks to have a few decent ideas though of where to turn and when: [Link]

I hope she manages to get on the right path and that things work out well for them both.

 

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Spiderman Flag Horsham 24 Jul 21 6.59am Send a Private Message to Spiderman Add Spiderman as a friend

Originally posted by Apollofuzz

My daughter has a friend with this but it was always put down as being a "little Shy" She communicates mostly using whats-ap and social media where she comes across as a bubbly out going person, but face to face Will only talk to a very small select few and then only in whispers. Good luck I hope you find a path through to a solution.

Edited by Apollofuzz (19 Jul 2021 12.23pm)

Sounds familiar, although I believe she is extremely loud with the select few! It is a shame as she is very talented artist but will not “ put herself out there”.
There is one glimmer of hope, she has now become a Palace fan and loves going to games ( albeit quietly), she is accompanying us to Ipswich today., kitted out with her Guiana shirt. Anyone going look out for us and say hello.
Again many thanks for the kind words and advice

Edited by Spiderman (24 Jul 2021 6.59am)

 

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