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Ginger Pubic Wig Flag Wickham de L'Ouest 22 Dec 17 1.16pm Send a Private Message to Ginger Pubic Wig Add Ginger Pubic Wig as a friend

Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger

Irony alert.

How people behave on here is a matter for the mods.
They have the unenviable task of trying to be objective and deal with a whole lot of f***wittery.

Leave it to them.

Fair dues. Funny.

 


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Lyons550 Flag Shirley 22 Dec 17 3.04pm Send a Private Message to Lyons550 Add Lyons550 as a friend

Originally posted by Ginger Pubic Wig

There have been times where I have found you to be a frustrating poster, and other times when your posts contain an interesting detail or thought.

On balance, I'm not a huge fan of your posts, but I'm sure loads of people would say the same about mine. All good. That's life. Tally ho!

However, I am finding the endless to-and-fro of responses where people question your integrity, and you respond as you do, to be incredibly dull. Because of this, whenever I read through threads, I just look for large sections where your name is not mentioned. (Sorry -- please don't be offended, no offence meant, I'm just so used to seeing the ensuing mini storm of repetitive dirge).

That is not good for discussing the matters in question or, by extension, these forums. The bottom line is that, regardless of whether you deserve the abuse you get, the comments you make and the responses to them aren't proving good for discussion.

So I had a few polite thoughts for you:

have you considered

1) simply not making reference to the large group of contacts you say you know in the game? For whatever reason, this in particular seems to grate on people and can eat up 4 screens with off-topic, indiluted tedium where you are defending yourself.

2) reviewing the specifics of what has irked people over a multiple ``let's not turn this into another willo thread'' and considering what you could have done differently to avoid the friction? It is not reasonable to assume that it's everybody else, when you are the lightning rod.

3) starting your own permanent thread -- maybe something like Willo Wonders. Naturally, a quid pro quo would be that you post much less frequently in other threads, but nothing would stop you commenting on those threads in your own one (if the moderators allowed such a thing).

Some people will read Willo Wonders and love it, the doubters will /should ignore it you in peace. Everyone's a winner.

Regardless, I think that you need to look at the fact you are, for whatever reason, the common denominator for a lot of off-topic posts. Are you asking yourself what you could change to stop that happening?

GP Wig Esq.

PS: Whatever people think of Willo, can I humbly suggest not piling into this thread in a way that pushes him into a defensive mode as it would be lovely to sort this.

Edited by Ginger Pubic Wig (22 Dec 2017 10.48am)


You ARE Willo...arent you??

 


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YT Flag Oxford 22 Dec 17 3.54pm Send a Private Message to YT Add YT as a friend

I for one would not like to see Willo ‘sign off’ from HOL. It takes all kinds, is my view.

 


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Ginger Pubic Wig Flag Wickham de L'Ouest 22 Dec 17 4.02pm Send a Private Message to Ginger Pubic Wig Add Ginger Pubic Wig as a friend

Originally posted by Lyons550


You ARE Willo...arent you??

no but I am currently taking about 9 different things for a cough that I swear is going to kill me and haven't really slept since Sunday.

 


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chateauferret Flag 22 Dec 17 4.26pm

Originally posted by ZIGnZAG

At least he's not got ginger pubes.

HTF do you know?

 


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Painter Flag Croydon 22 Dec 17 7.10pm Send a Private Message to Painter Add Painter as a friend

Originally posted by Ginger Pubic Wig


Just to be clear: I don't want you to stop posting, Willo. I want an end to the regular thread derailments. And I think you can be more self aware and consider what things rile people and whether you can tweak how you deliver some of your posts. But it's to the detriment of this website that the derailments happen so often.

You could easily sent him a private message, expressing your thoughts on his postings.
No, you decided to start a thread about him, which is a form of bullying and giving a sense of superiority over him, which isn't nice.

 

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chris123 Flag hove actually 22 Dec 17 7.19pm Send a Private Message to chris123 Add chris123 as a friend

Originally posted by Ginger Pubic Wig

There have been times where I have found you to be a frustrating poster, and other times when your posts contain an interesting detail or thought.

On balance, I'm not a huge fan of your posts, but I'm sure loads of people would say the same about mine. All good. That's life. Tally ho!

However, I am finding the endless to-and-fro of responses where people question your integrity, and you respond as you do, to be incredibly dull. Because of this, whenever I read through threads, I just look for large sections where your name is not mentioned. (Sorry -- please don't be offended, no offence meant, I'm just so used to seeing the ensuing mini storm of repetitive dirge).

That is not good for discussing the matters in question or, by extension, these forums. The bottom line is that, regardless of whether you deserve the abuse you get, the comments you make and the responses to them aren't proving good for discussion.

So I had a few polite thoughts for you:

have you considered

1) simply not making reference to the large group of contacts you say you know in the game? For whatever reason, this in particular seems to grate on people and can eat up 4 screens with off-topic, indiluted tedium where you are defending yourself.

2) reviewing the specifics of what has irked people over a multiple ``let's not turn this into another willo thread'' and considering what you could have done differently to avoid the friction? It is not reasonable to assume that it's everybody else, when you are the lightning rod.

3) starting your own permanent thread -- maybe something like Willo Wonders. Naturally, a quid pro quo would be that you post much less frequently in other threads, but nothing would stop you commenting on those threads in your own one (if the moderators allowed such a thing).

Some people will read Willo Wonders and love it, the doubters will /should ignore it you in peace. Everyone's a winner.

Regardless, I think that you need to look at the fact you are, for whatever reason, the common denominator for a lot of off-topic posts. Are you asking yourself what you could change to stop that happening?

GP Wig Esq.

PS: Whatever people think of Willo, can I humbly suggest not piling into this thread in a way that pushes him into a defensive mode as it would be lovely to sort this.

Edited by Ginger Pubic Wig (22 Dec 2017 10.48am)

I find this rather passive aggressive and think you should leave the individual alone.

 

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kenbarr Flag Jackson Heights, Queens, New York ... 22 Dec 17 7.29pm Send a Private Message to kenbarr Holmesdale Online Elite Member Add kenbarr as a friend

I am locking this thread. The appropriate way for the OP or anyone else to communicate with another member is by Direct Mail, which this site supports. The HOL message boards are not for sharing personal gripes.

Edited by kenbarr (22 Dec 2017 7.30pm)

 


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