Using the subway & transit system on a daily basis you get used to seeing some strange goings on, but men doing their nails, hair, fiddling about with their man bags or applying Lip Balm to me is utterly benderish.
So my question is Do you use any of the above products or (like me) are you a jump in the shower & use same Shampoo/Shower Gel to wash hair, chest, crack & knackers? What are you Butch or Bender?

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nothing wrong with care in ones appearance Jim, who wants to be a scruff, but I prefer to keep it to pride in ones general clothes & cleanliness
It sounds like these chaps may be a bit OTT.
time wasters & general 'new men'
so neither benders nor butch, just annoying .

Kids,tired of being bothered by your pesky parents?
Then leave home, get a job & pay your own bills, while you still know everything.

Which ever you are, and male or female, please just do it in the privacy of your own bathroom/bedroom. To attend to one's grooming on public transport or in a motor vehicle is nothing less than rude and vulgar.

A stairway to Heaven and a Highway to Hell give some indication of expected traffic numbers

Especially if they are running a nit comb through their pubic foliage.

I dreamt last night that I had 8 showers in my house. One of them was completely glass which appealed to my exhibitionist tendencies so I picked that one. When I went in I pressed a button which sort of pulled a curtain around the inside of the shower. I was disappointed I couldn't have a very public shower. Whilst still clothed I peeped my head back out only to find the shower salesman (a chap that looked a bit like Ray Winstone) outside and told me I was a muppet and showed me how to use the controls. Upon his departure I still couldn't open the curtains so I had to have a shower in private. When I got back out, Grainne from the most recent series of The Apprentice was sat on a bench outside. She said "It's a shame you shut the curtains, I wanted to knock one out while I watched you shower". Gutted.

Edited by Part Time James (23 Dec 2016 2.10pm)

The link below is a bit of a tome but it's a great article by the late A A Gill - he's straight sexually but in terms of taste and recreational preferences is screamingly gay - I have an 'arty' friend the same (painting is more than a hobby for him - he's rather good), bit older than me, likes ladies very much but hates blokey stuff, inc footy. Thought I'd make a more constructive contribution this Christmas - this thread should have some life in it, it's a good idea but it's gone a bit skew whiff.

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