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SeagullHunter Reading 23 May 16 5.49pm | |
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Originally posted by kenners46
I wouldn't change a thing happily retired 2 years ago at 50...sod this working till 67 What sector did you work in - if you dont mind me asking?
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80`s biker Harlow Essex 23 May 16 9.07pm | |
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Go and work abroad somewhere.
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Phil H 24 May 16 10.35am | |
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I'm 54 so the world has changed a lot since I was 18, but maybe some things still apply?....either find something you absolutely love and try to find a way of doing it for a job (doctor/pilot/musician/landscape gardener/whatever) or do something that pays well so you can enjoy your time off. Qualifications aren't everything but if you're in a position to get them they don't hurt, and give you choices. Do a bit of travelling before you have kids. That's it...good luck!!
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cols123 beckenham 24 May 16 10.51am | |
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I am just turning 30 but would say something different to what some others have said and DO have a plan. I didn't plan anything, even when choosing my degree I didn't know what I wanted to do, spent money on a Masters just cos I wanted to stay at Uni and didnt have a plan when I came out. Fell into a high reward job that requires long hours and have carved out a few promotions but after 6 years I crave something different with a better work/life balance or for something I am passionate about as Ive completely lost my drive and motivation. Ironically I am exactly where you are some 12 years later! Not sure what to do and trying to make a decision is really overwhelming, although maybe with a slightly different challenge of having to take a big step backwards in money and career ladder to enjoy working life a bit more. Given where I am now, I would highly recommend choosing something you are passionate about, money is great but you spend most of your week at work and a soul crushing job bleeds into your personal life.
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Phil H 24 May 16 11.08am | |
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That's a very interesting post from cols123 - I've been a musician all my working life, have loved it but always slightly envied the corporate life with its promotions, structure and regular large amounts of cash, especially after my (lovely and expensive) kids came along. Maybe the grass is always greener....!
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SeagullHunter Reading 25 May 16 4.37pm | |
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Originally posted by cols123
I am just turning 30 but would say something different to what some others have said and DO have a plan. I didn't plan anything, even when choosing my degree I didn't know what I wanted to do, spent money on a Masters just cos I wanted to stay at Uni and didnt have a plan when I came out. Fell into a high reward job that requires long hours and have carved out a few promotions but after 6 years I crave something different with a better work/life balance or for something I am passionate about as Ive completely lost my drive and motivation. Ironically I am exactly where you are some 12 years later! Not sure what to do and trying to make a decision is really overwhelming, although maybe with a slightly different challenge of having to take a big step backwards in money and career ladder to enjoy working life a bit more. Given where I am now, I would highly recommend choosing something you are passionate about, money is great but you spend most of your week at work and a soul crushing job bleeds into your personal life.
Edited by cols123 (24 May 2016 10.51am) No, thanks was very insightful. Im contemplating do a masters in a field im interesting to further my prospects Would you say plan for it and try and obtain it, as it would push me into the realm of being able to get a job in finance, or would you suggest holding back - as the last part of your message seemed to be scrutinising a good job than praising it?
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Midlands Eagle 26 May 16 8.02am | |
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Originally posted by Phil H
That's a very interesting post from cols123 - I've been a musician all my working life, have loved it but always slightly envied the corporate life with its promotions, structure and regular large amounts of cash, especially after my (lovely and expensive) kids came along. Maybe the grass is always greener....! Not all corporate jobs pay "large amounts of cash" as for every high roller there are probably 200 wage slaves working in the same company
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aquickgame2 Beni = summer,Caribbean = winter 26 May 16 9.48am | |
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Go with your dream,do what you want to do. The shyte will still be here when you get back. (met an English bloke in Grand Cayman who did that)
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dannyh wherever I lay my hat....... 26 May 16 12.15pm | |
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Go over to the states and become best buddies with a certain Bill Gates.
"It's not the bullet that's got my name on it that concerns me; it's all them other ones flyin' around marked 'To Whom It May Concern.'" |
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jamiemartin721 Reading 26 May 16 12.59pm | |
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Originally posted by Midlands Eagle
Not all corporate jobs pay "large amounts of cash" as for every high roller there are probably 200 wage slaves working in the same company Very true. Even higher end pay, of the 40-60k margin is actually quite uncommon outside of management grades and in demand specialists. In corporate work, these days, its more consultants and contractors who earn higher wages, than employees, until you move into senior management. And even then, if you don't jump company regularly, you'll probably cap out between 50-60k. There are some very high paid jobs, but they're an absolute bitch to even get interviews for. Friend of mine in Marketing, with 20 years experience, MBa spent 9 months unemployed applying for jobs as a marketing manager and director before finally getting a job.
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Lyons550 Shirley 26 May 16 1.03pm | |
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Originally posted by SeagullHunter
What line of work would you pursue, what career path would you follow and in essence, with your knowledge now, what would you do differently? Software development or Database design and work for myself....I'm working towards the latter now; as you're never too young. I'd probably also have got into property development than I did as well tbh.
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jamiemartin721 Reading 26 May 16 3.24pm | |
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Originally posted by Lyons550
Software development or Database design and work for myself....I'm working towards the latter now; as you're never too young. I'd probably also have got into property development than I did as well tbh. In terms of IT, never let a lack of real technical skill get in the way. There are a lot of roles in IT that actually work better if you aren't on the technical side, and they generally pay better anyhow. IT really lacks for skilled and proficient managers, given its tendency to force techy wizard nerds into management roles, for which they are socially ill equipped. Trust me, in 16 years, I've met one configuration manager who was a failed programmer and one who had a decent IT degree (the others have all been temps, business grads, drop outs, project management types and flunkies).
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