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jamiemartin721 Reading 17 Mar 16 12.52pm | |
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Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger
Music and films can sometimes give me a little water in the eye but oddly enough more serious real life stuff rarely does. I'm sure a psychologist could shed some light on what it all means, if you believe in that branch of pseudoscience. Probably normal. I think we feel that we should cry and make more of a scene at serious stuff, but I think in a lot of cases, that's its more about how we process grief. When my mum died, I never really felt sad or cried much at all, except at the funeral and immediately after she died.
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johnfirewall 17 Mar 16 1.41pm | |
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Spawn of Blair surely
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Hrolf The Ganger 17 Mar 16 2.04pm | |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
Probably normal. I think we feel that we should cry and make more of a scene at serious stuff, but I think in a lot of cases, that's its more about how we process grief. When my mum died, I never really felt sad or cried much at all, except at the funeral and immediately after she died. In culture,there is no normal. There is only fashionable. Time for lunch.
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topcat Holmesdale / Surbiton 17 Mar 16 2.32pm | |
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Originally posted by Superfly
A friend of mine regularly cries during Eastenders & cried on three separate occasions in the last 15 minutes of Mighty Joe Young. I thought that you luvvies were supposed to bust into tears all the time?
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jamiemartin721 Reading 17 Mar 16 2.51pm | |
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Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger
In culture,there is no normal. There is only fashionable. Time for lunch. Depends what you mean by 'in psychology'. Usually if its a doctor, that's psychiatry (as is for the most part the subject of Mental Health). In terms of traditional psychological science, normal is defined by the average point on a bell curve, and deviation measured from that point based on statistical data. Where as non-empirical psychology such as Discursive, Phenomenological and Psychoanalytical, would dismiss the notion of a norm (In fact arguably Discursive Psychology would adopt the notion you subscribe - where in normality is just a popular fashionable). Phenomenological movements are interested in the subjective experience, whilst the psychoanalytical are more interested in the unconscious psyche of the individual (although all three of these movements share some concepts). The discursive psychological movements of the late 20th century and 21st century focus more on communication, social interactions and how knowledge is accumulated and shared. Which is a fancy way of saying a lot of psychologist would agree with you.
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Hrolf The Ganger 17 Mar 16 5.02pm | |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
Depends what you mean by 'in psychology'. Usually if its a doctor, that's psychiatry (as is for the most part the subject of Mental Health). In terms of traditional psychological science, normal is defined by the average point on a bell curve, and deviation measured from that point based on statistical data. Where as non-empirical psychology such as Discursive, Phenomenological and Psychoanalytical, would dismiss the notion of a norm (In fact arguably Discursive Psychology would adopt the notion you subscribe - where in normality is just a popular fashionable). Phenomenological movements are interested in the subjective experience, whilst the psychoanalytical are more interested in the unconscious psyche of the individual (although all three of these movements share some concepts). The discursive psychological movements of the late 20th century and 21st century focus more on communication, social interactions and how knowledge is accumulated and shared. Which is a fancy way of saying a lot of psychologist would agree with you. That's why I like you. You know stuff. My daughter is always picking me up on the difference between psychology and psychiatry but I'd have to argue that there is big overlap between the clinical side of the former and the latter.
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kingdowieonthewall Sussex, ex-Cronx. 17 Mar 16 5.12pm | |
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last time I cried was approx. 1973. Edited by kingdowieonthewall (17 Mar 2016 5.13pm)
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matt_himself Matataland 17 Mar 16 6.32pm | |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
I wondered who it was who knocked the urn over. It was a very provocatively decorated urn, in my defence.
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jamiemartin721 Reading 18 Mar 16 4.18pm | |
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Originally posted by matt_himself
It was a very provocatively decorated urn, in my defence. Just glad you got the right one, my granddads was next to hers....
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matt_himself Matataland 18 Mar 16 6.02pm | |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
Just glad you got the right one, my granddads was next to hers.... Don't open the lid. On an unrelated matter, Smokey was with me at the time.
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dannyh wherever I lay my hat....... 19 Mar 16 10.03am | |
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Originally posted by DanH
Spunk ?
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collier row eagle romford essex via another galaxy 19 Mar 16 10.16am | |
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I toasted some crumpets last week, then went to the cupboard for some marmite, but there wasn't any........... couldn't help myself.
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