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 7mins  In the bush 30 Mar 17 1.34pm |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
Or talk to her about it. I know, that sounds like grown up advice and a bit boring, but in the end, its a lot easier when you just talk about these things. People have very different outlooks and expectations - Plus it usually prevents them trying to kill themselves in your front garden on a Thursday night to prove their love. I'm in the process of buying a new house (to do up) I've told her this doesn't allow me the time to go away. (This is a white lie)
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| 7mins In the bush 30 Mar 17 1.40pm |
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Originally posted by Michaelawt85
Maybe he can tell us more why past relationships have all fizzled out. These dates all seem to be gold diggers but what has gone wrong in past relationships Girls my age want kids/marriage/security. I'm not against that, but it has to be a natural progression. Meet a girl who's 37, and wants kids... they don't half push the issue.. it has to be organic. I'm also (more) selective now... I won't settle for anything that doesn't meet my expectations... which aren't massively high... just want a decent girl, with a decent moral compass.
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| Superfly The sun always shines in Catford 30 Mar 17 1.41pm |
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and big melons
Lend me a Tenor 31 May to 3 June 2017 John McIntosh Arts Centre with Superfly in the chorus |
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| 7mins In the bush 30 Mar 17 1.43pm |
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Originally posted by steph_eagle
Maybe you need to stay away from these girls that apparently only want you for your money. Personally from what you have stated on here, it seems you only want them for one thing anyway. I'm not sure where you got that impression. I'm a red blooded male, and if two adults enjoy themselves... then happy days. If I was some kind of predator, I'd use this gold digger for sex before giving her the elbow. I'm doing the opposite... I'm tapping out before I sex her up.
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| 7mins In the bush 30 Mar 17 1.44pm |
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Originally posted by Superfly
and big melons ^ forgot this
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| Part Time James 30 Mar 17 1.46pm |
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Originally posted by Superfly
and big melons Any melons. Just melons. Mmmm, melons.
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| gambler Kent 30 Mar 17 1.57pm |
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Originally posted by 7mins
Girls my age want kids/marriage/security. I'm not against that, but it has to be a natural progression. Meet a girl who's 37, and wants kids... they don't half push the issue.. it has to be organic. I'm also (more) selective now... I won't settle for anything that doesn't meet my expectations... which aren't massively high... just want a decent girl, with a decent moral compass. You sound like a nice man, a real catch. If only i was 10 years younger. And single. And female.
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 Michaelawt85 Bexley 30 Mar 17 2.14pm |
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Go younger .. she's probably thinking hmm. Once he's done house up and sold it lots of moula for an even better holiday..
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| Michaelawt85 Bexley 30 Mar 17 2.18pm |
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Anyway back to the topic.. she's been gently jogged on in your mind. Who's next on the radar. You said you would leave us to make your dating decisions. Give us a couple of options and we will have a vote / give advice / take the piss as appropriate Edited by Michaelawt85 (30 Mar 2017 2.18pm)
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| Part Time James 30 Mar 17 3.04pm |
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Originally posted by Michaelawt85
Anyway back to the topic.. she's been gently jogged on in your mind. Who's next on the radar. You said you would leave us to make your dating decisions. Give us a couple of options and we will have a vote / give advice / take the piss as appropriate Edited by Michaelawt85 (30 Mar 2017 2.18pm) Include pictures. Splayed
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| matt_himself Matataland 30 Mar 17 3.15pm |
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Originally posted by gambler
You sound like a nice man, a real catch. If only i was 10 years younger. And single. And female. Sounds like you are curious. Why don't you give it a go? At best you'll get a few dinners and a reach around.
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| 7mins In the bush 30 Mar 17 3.19pm |
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Originally posted by Michaelawt85
Anyway back to the topic.. she's been gently jogged on in your mind. Who's next on the radar. You said you would leave us to make your dating decisions. Give us a couple of options and we will have a vote / give advice / take the piss as appropriate Edited by Michaelawt85 (30 Mar 2017 2.18pm) I have been chatting to a woman, 42... works in health care, 1 child (13). We've only spoken once on the phone, said she'd rather go out on a week night, but not in the town she lives. Date Or Swerve ?
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