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cryrst The garden of England 20 Jan 20 4.02pm | |
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Originally posted by Wisbech Eagle
I asked that we set that aside for the moment and that I was not in any way seeking to excuse anyone. What I am asking is whether we as a society need to look at the conditions which allowed these girls to be put in such danger? Is there anything we can do which would help? Not those who have already been harmed but those in the future who may face other threats from other sources. If children are left in a vulnerable situation then the chances of harm is obviously greater. Yes there is a way ,or was a way to stop it.
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Teddy Eagle 20 Jan 20 4.21pm | |
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Originally posted by Wisbech Eagle
I asked that we set that aside for the moment and that I was not in any way seeking to excuse anyone. What I am asking is whether we as a society need to look at the conditions which allowed these girls to be put in such danger? Is there anything we can do which would help? Not those who have already been harmed but those in the future who may face other threats from other sources. If children are left in a vulnerable situation then the chances of harm is obviously greater. Unfortunately this still sounds like victim blaming.
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cryrst The garden of England 20 Jan 20 7.24pm | |
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Originally posted by Teddy Eagle
Unfortunately this still sounds like victim blaming. Oh come on teddy.
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Teddy Eagle 20 Jan 20 7.53pm | |
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Originally posted by cryrst
Oh come on teddy. True, any similarities are entirely coincidental. But I’ve got 50p that says no more than one of them has blonde hair.
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cryrst The garden of England 20 Jan 20 8.03pm | |
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Originally posted by Teddy Eagle
True, any similarities are entirely coincidental. But I’ve got 50p that says no more than one of them has blonde hair. And we have a winner
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Wisbech Eagle Truro Cornwall 20 Jan 20 8.25pm | |
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Originally posted by Teddy Eagle
Unfortunately this still sounds like victim blaming. From the responses it appears that people here seem incapable of detaching themselves from their determination to concentrate only on blaming the criminals and then to find ways of "punishing" those who were responsible for detecting them and protecting the victims. I am not "victim blaming" in any way at all. Of course education is an essential part of ensuring that those who might get involved understand why it's wrong, alongside sufficient deterience to ensure they don't anyway. It's not though what I am trying to discuss. Whilst the reasons for the way our traditional family unit has morphed into being something very different might be well understood, the consequences are not always quite so obvious. Given that we are very unlikely to turn the clock back I envisage that this situation is the new normal. With absent fathers, mums struggling to make ends meet, constant peer pressure for "things", and the invasive influences of social media what can we as a society do to counter this and try to put positive influences out there? Do we need to introduce some "tough love" rules and regulations with curfews for the under 18s in troublespot areas? Does every child need to carry a panic button? I don't have the answers but what concerns me is that we aren't asking the questions. The "grooming gang" scandals are obviously very serious and demand specific responses but what happens when they have been eradicated, the criminals found and punished, potential criminals either educated or discouraged and the victims counselled and compensated? Will the ground that allowed such things to grow in such an unrestrained way still exist, so that something equally nasty again emerges? Something that perhaps bears no resemblance to today's problem.
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Wisbech Eagle Truro Cornwall 20 Jan 20 8.27pm | |
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Originally posted by cryrst
Yes there is a way ,or was a way to stop it. This is not what I am trying to discuss.
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Teddy Eagle 20 Jan 20 8.40pm | |
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Originally posted by Wisbech Eagle
From the responses it appears that people here seem incapable of detaching themselves from their determination to concentrate only on blaming the criminals and then to find ways of "punishing" those who were responsible for detecting them and protecting the victims. I am not "victim blaming" in any way at all. Of course education is an essential part of ensuring that those who might get involved understand why it's wrong, alongside sufficient deterience to ensure they don't anyway. It's not though what I am trying to discuss. Whilst the reasons for the way our traditional family unit has morphed into being something very different might be well understood, the consequences are not always quite so obvious. Given that we are very unlikely to turn the clock back I envisage that this situation is the new normal. With absent fathers, mums struggling to make ends meet, constant peer pressure for "things", and the invasive influences of social media what can we as a society do to counter this and try to put positive influences out there? Do we need to introduce some "tough love" rules and regulations with curfews for the under 18s in troublespot areas? Does every child need to carry a panic button? I don't have the answers but what concerns me is that we aren't asking the questions. The "grooming gang" scandals are obviously very serious and demand specific responses but what happens when they have been eradicated, the criminals found and punished, potential criminals either educated or discouraged and the victims counselled and compensated? Will the ground that allowed such things to grow in such an unrestrained way still exist, so that something equally nasty again emerges? Something that perhaps bears no resemblance to today's problem. Yes, I am blaming the criminals.
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Wisbech Eagle Truro Cornwall 20 Jan 20 9.14pm | |
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Originally posted by Teddy Eagle
Yes, I am blaming the criminals. I too blame the criminals. I just want to look beyond them to see if there is anything else we need to do. What downside can there possibly be in trying to do that? Just so long as it doesn't impact the criminal investigations in any way. I said I didn't have the answers. Just questions. I was just throwing out some initial ideas. On it's own a curfew wouldn't work. It could though perhaps be part of a wider strategy.
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Tim Gypsy Hill '64 Stoke sub normal 20 Jan 20 9.31pm | |
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Originally posted by Wisbech Eagle
I too blame the criminals. I just want to look beyond them to see if there is anything else we need to do. What downside can there possibly be in trying to do that? Just so long as it doesn't impact the criminal investigations in any way. I said I didn't have the answers. Just questions. I was just throwing out some initial ideas. On it's own a curfew wouldn't work. It could though perhaps be part of a wider strategy. This thread is about grooming gangs. The causes of having vulnerable young white girls probably deserves it's own thread. You are simply trying to ignore the elephant in the room. Just like the police forces and councils and social services did.
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cryrst The garden of England 20 Jan 20 10.09pm | |
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Originally posted by Wisbech Eagle
This is not what I am trying to discuss. You said
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Wisbech Eagle Truro Cornwall 20 Jan 20 10.50pm | |
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Originally posted by cryrst
You said Your "solution" wasn't addressed to the problem I was trying to discuss. I specifically asked that you set that aside for the moment and address the societal problems in the background.
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