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jamiemartin721 Reading 20 Apr 16 10.35am | |
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Originally posted by Buzzcock
Call me old fashioned but I think it should be based on their genitals, certainly at the age of 4. I think the bigger problem is Jack p*ssing all over the toilet seats, all the time. Bad parenting, not gender. Not lifting a toilet seat when urinating is uncivilised in the extreme.
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JL85 London,SE9 20 Apr 16 10.38am | |
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Originally posted by matt_himself
A bit like watching someone froth at the mouth every time the monarchy is mentioned? Guilty as charged. Although i don't consider my outrage as faux, where as the the Daily Fail contingent would have the pitch forks out for interstellar travel and/or free energy if it meant human progression. The British equivalent of Alex Jones. Edited by JL85 (20 Apr 2016 10.45am)
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johnfirewall 20 Apr 16 10.57am | |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
How far are we taking this, do the teachers have to inspect each child's genitals to determine what they will be, because that could be a problem. Gender and sexuality is largely irrelevant to children - its adults at that age that socially condition them according to their preconceptions of how boys and girls should behave and express themselves. Let them be what they want to be. Its a stupid social construct to enforce the boundaries of adult conceptions of gender, behaviour, interests and sexuality on to children. Those are our hang ups, not theirs. The doctor had a look when they were born and this information was recorded and made its way on to the birth certificate. This designation should remain until such time as the person is sure they're something else, not when they hit 4 and some ultra-liberal decides to question it on their behalf. Still, this is fortunately in the hands of the parents and I'd hope most would follow the biological approach were they to pose this question to their children, rather than placing the emphasis on the freedom to choose 'other'. Can this be merged with my gender thread though, because the same debates prevail
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JL85 London,SE9 20 Apr 16 10.59am | |
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Originally posted by johnfirewall
The doctor had a look when they were born and this information was recorded and made its way on to the birth certificate. This designation should remain until such time as the person is sure they're something else, not when they hit 4 and some ultra-liberal decides to question it on their behalf. Still, this is fortunately in the hands of the parents and I'd hope most would follow the biological approach were they to pose this question to their children, rather than placing the emphasis on the freedom to choose 'other'. Can this be merged with my gender thread though, because the same debates prevail I think it's fairly sensible to let 16 be the age where one decides what gender they will be.
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jamiemartin721 Reading 20 Apr 16 11.35am | |
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Originally posted by johnfirewall
The doctor had a look when they were born and this information was recorded and made its way on to the birth certificate. This designation should remain until such time as the person is sure they're something else, not when they hit 4 and some ultra-liberal decides to question it on their behalf. Still, this is fortunately in the hands of the parents and I'd hope most would follow the biological approach were they to pose this question to their children, rather than placing the emphasis on the freedom to choose 'other'. Can this be merged with my gender thread though, because the same debates prevail So you are in favour of social engineering then. Personally, I think we're actively stupid in making 'gender rules for children' at all, and this represents our own fixations on gender. The biological basis of gender doesn't exist, its a social conformity, that represents an observational basis, rather than individual experience, and in doing so engineers an 'accepted social norm' that's contradictory to the evidence. Although I was being flippant, I think we shouldn't separate and divide children by gender at all. We do this because we want to define our children, rather than let them define themselves. Is there really any reason why we treat boys and girls of this age so differently, that we are effectively conditioning and engineering them towards 'approved social roles'. Do kids really need different styles of dress, style, behaviour, toys and recreation based on whether they have a p**** or v*****. Of course they don't, we as adults are simply projecting our own 'values' onto them.
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jamiemartin721 Reading 20 Apr 16 11.39am | |
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Originally posted by JL85
I think it's fairly sensible to let 16 be the age where one decides what gender they will be. Probably a bit late, considering we'll have spent the previous sixteen years socially engineering their gender for them, in accordance with our own personal fixations and desires, rather than theirs. Children either should have as gender neutral upbringing as possible or one which incorporates and exposes them to all forms of gender identity and decide for themselves. I mean its only going to affect their entire life.
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We are goin up! Coulsdon 20 Apr 16 11.49am | |
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"Schools should be teaching kids to read and write, not prompting them to consider gender swaps" Tory MP Andrew Bridgen. Quite.
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johnfirewall 20 Apr 16 12.25pm | |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
So you are in favour of social engineering then. Personally, I think we're actively stupid in making 'gender rules for children' at all, and this represents our own fixations on gender. The biological basis of gender doesn't exist, its a social conformity, that represents an observational basis, rather than individual experience, and in doing so engineers an 'accepted social norm' that's contradictory to the evidence. Although I was being flippant, I think we shouldn't separate and divide children by gender at all. We do this because we want to define our children, rather than let them define themselves. Is there really any reason why we treat boys and girls of this age so differently, that we are effectively conditioning and engineering them towards 'approved social roles'. Do kids really need different styles of dress, style, behaviour, toys and recreation based on whether they have a p**** or v*****. Of course they don't, we as adults are simply projecting our own 'values' onto them. The people I've obvserved sending their daughter to school as Han Solo or son as Elsa from Frozen are most likely self-righteous wallies who forced this on the child for social media plaudits. If not then fair play, but you are talking as if no boy was ever bought a doll because no parent would allow it such a distortion of gender identity. You're right though. My mum had to tell me Wonderwoman was OK when I inadvertently pulled the toy out of the lucky dip at the school Summer fair. The stereotypes probably pervade as a result of companies wanting to sell kids the opposite of what their brother/sister has. In the adult world however there's a plethora of imcompatible products and if you don't believe me check the pharmacy aisle... Although really if you'd rather your wife never wore a dress and you'd question why she feels pressured in to doing so then you've even outdone the raving liberals. Why DO women wear dresses? Ridiculous and outdated. Edited by johnfirewall (20 Apr 2016 12.27pm)
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Stirlingsays 20 Apr 16 12.32pm | |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
So you are in favour of social engineering then. Personally, I think we're actively stupid in making 'gender rules for children' at all, and this represents our own fixations on gender. The biological basis of gender doesn't exist, its a social conformity, that represents an observational basis, rather than individual experience, and in doing so engineers an 'accepted social norm' that's contradictory to the evidence. Although I was being flippant, I think we shouldn't separate and divide children by gender at all. We do this because we want to define our children, rather than let them define themselves. Is there really any reason why we treat boys and girls of this age so differently, that we are effectively conditioning and engineering them towards 'approved social roles'. Do kids really need different styles of dress, style, behaviour, toys and recreation based on whether they have a p**** or v*****. Of course they don't, we as adults are simply projecting our own 'values' onto them. ? 'The biological basis of gender doesn't exist'. Why on earth would you say this Jamie? That is absolutely not true. There are many hormonal, physical and hence biological differences between a male and a female. These differences are inherently designed to fit a male or to specifically fit a female. Nature does create atypical males and atypical females as the majority output and any suggestion to the contrary is just not correct. Edited by Stirlingsays (20 Apr 2016 12.33pm)
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jcreedy 20 Apr 16 12.45pm | |
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Originally posted by matt_himself
Schools asking four year olds to choose their gender in, surprise surprise, Br*ghton: I knew who this thread was started by before I opened it. You're like the tabloid press, Matt.
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jamiemartin721 Reading 20 Apr 16 12.52pm | |
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Originally posted by Stirlingsays
? 'The biological basis of gender doesn't exist'. Why on earth would you say this Jamie? That is absolutely not true. There are many hormonal, physical and hence biological differences between a male and a female. These differences are inherently designed to fit a male or to specifically fit a female. Nature does create atypical males and atypical females as the majority output and any suggestion to the contrary is just not correct. Edited by Stirlingsays (20 Apr 2016 12.33pm) Of gender, true. Definitely wrong, from a biological perspective. Of how people see and experience their gender, not true. Of course you can reduce the experience of male and female down to winky and v-jay-jay, but that doesn't really tell you much. I'm very much a different type of p**** owner than a lot of other p**** owners that I've met and heard of and have nothing in common really with other than we both have a p**** What I do object to though is the idea that its 'social engineering' by lefties and liberals, when gender roles are socially engineered to fit a norm anyhow. Enforcing gender stereotypes and expectations on children is no different really than that of religion. Its entirely about the wishes and needs of the parent, rather than their children.
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Islington Eagle North of the River 20 Apr 16 12.55pm | |
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This issue has probably no relevance to the majority of people but to the approx 1 in a 1,000 that is born "intersex" then it is very important. It is a more common issue than most people realise, and thankfully doctors and parents are more open now to not forcibly assigning genders to young infants which in the past led to mental and physical issues in later life. As I say this issue is not aimed at most people but for some it will be very important. Perhaps it would be better for the parents and the schools to sort it out between themselves but not all parents might feel confident enough to do this.
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