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Unless they are sociopathic from day one vicious people aren't born brutal. They become warped. How?

Edited by Kermit8 (11 Nov 2015 5.19pm)

I'm thinking, as Jamie is suggesting,that violent behavior is learned behavior. We can all be violent of course but when one group are far more violent that another then it has to be down to cultural and parental influences. That could be from a lack of father figure or a bad father leading to more influence from gangs full of the same type of messed up people. It's seems to be a generational issue.

Edited by Hrolf The Ganger (11 Nov 2015 7.03pm)


That would seem logical but then again I watched the Windrush documentary. Those invited immigrants in the late forties early fifties were obviously decent non-violent folk who were here to work, serve their mother country and live family lives.

Something went badly wrong from the beginning for them.

Well since any discussion at all on their place in a wider society is deemed as blaming 'evil white men', we instead have to say whatever it is, is entirely their own fault. Case closed then.

Edited by bilbo (11 Nov 2015 7.39pm)

Well you certainly can't always blame everyone else for your behaviour.
We are all products of our life experience but we should try no to be victims of it. If you don't try then you only have yourself to blame.

I certainly agree with that, but at the same time we don't get to deny or silence a person's experience as that may well play a part in their behaviour. That's why talking on peoples behalf in telling them that it's ridiclous if they feel alientated and the like isn't helpful. I wouldn't ask a random person on the street what Hrolf The Ganger's experience of life is and how he feels. I would ask him.

I neither agree with people becoming victims, or with victimising groups of people. Ultimately if you stab someone for instance it's all on you and the rule of law kicks in. Whatever the cause and whatever violence surrounds you, you did it and you pay the price.


Edited by bilbo (11 Nov 2015 9.03pm)

 

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Yellow Card - User has been warned of conduct on the messageboards Hrolf The Ganger Flag 11 Nov 15 9.13pm Send a Private Message to Hrolf The Ganger Add Hrolf The Ganger as a friend

Quote bilbo at 11 Nov 2015 8.58pm

Quote Hrolf The Ganger at 11 Nov 2015 8.50pm

Quote bilbo at 11 Nov 2015 7.38pm

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Quote Hrolf The Ganger at 11 Nov 2015 7.02pm

Quote Kermit8 at 11 Nov 2015 5.18pm

Unless they are sociopathic from day one vicious people aren't born brutal. They become warped. How?

Edited by Kermit8 (11 Nov 2015 5.19pm)

I'm thinking, as Jamie is suggesting,that violent behavior is learned behavior. We can all be violent of course but when one group are far more violent that another then it has to be down to cultural and parental influences. That could be from a lack of father figure or a bad father leading to more influence from gangs full of the same type of messed up people. It's seems to be a generational issue.

Edited by Hrolf The Ganger (11 Nov 2015 7.03pm)


That would seem logical but then again I watched the Windrush documentary. Those invited immigrants in the late forties early fifties were obviously decent non-violent folk who were here to work, serve their mother country and live family lives.

Something went badly wrong from the beginning for them.

Well since any discussion at all on their place in a wider society is deemed as blaming 'evil white men', we instead have to say whatever it is, is entirely their own fault. Case closed then.

Edited by bilbo (11 Nov 2015 7.39pm)

Well you certainly can't always blame everyone else for your behaviour.
We are all products of our life experience but we should try no to be victims of it. If you don't try then you only have yourself to blame.

I certainly agree with that, but at the same time we don't get to deny or silence a person's experience as that may well play a part in their behaviour. That's why talking on peoples behalf in telling them that it's ridiclous if they feel alientated and the like isn't helpful. I wouldn't ask a random person on the street what Hrolf The Ganger's experience of life is and how he feels. I would ask him.

I neither agree with people becoming victims, or with victimising groups of people. Ultimately if you stab someone for instance it's all on you and the rule of law kicks in. Whatever the cause and whatever violence surrounds you, you did it and you pay the price.


Edited by bilbo (11 Nov 2015 9.03pm)


Lets be precise. I told you you were being ridiculous for suggesting that the problem is alienation.

 

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bilbo Flag 11 Nov 15 9.39pm Send a Private Message to bilbo Add bilbo as a friend

Quote Hrolf The Ganger at 11 Nov 2015 9.13pm

Quote bilbo at 11 Nov 2015 8.58pm

Quote Hrolf The Ganger at 11 Nov 2015 8.50pm

Quote bilbo at 11 Nov 2015 7.38pm

Quote Kermit8 at 11 Nov 2015 7.29pm

Quote Hrolf The Ganger at 11 Nov 2015 7.02pm

Quote Kermit8 at 11 Nov 2015 5.18pm

Unless they are sociopathic from day one vicious people aren't born brutal. They become warped. How?

Edited by Kermit8 (11 Nov 2015 5.19pm)

I'm thinking, as Jamie is suggesting,that violent behavior is learned behavior. We can all be violent of course but when one group are far more violent that another then it has to be down to cultural and parental influences. That could be from a lack of father figure or a bad father leading to more influence from gangs full of the same type of messed up people. It's seems to be a generational issue.

Edited by Hrolf The Ganger (11 Nov 2015 7.03pm)


That would seem logical but then again I watched the Windrush documentary. Those invited immigrants in the late forties early fifties were obviously decent non-violent folk who were here to work, serve their mother country and live family lives.

Something went badly wrong from the beginning for them.

Well since any discussion at all on their place in a wider society is deemed as blaming 'evil white men', we instead have to say whatever it is, is entirely their own fault. Case closed then.

Edited by bilbo (11 Nov 2015 7.39pm)

Well you certainly can't always blame everyone else for your behaviour.
We are all products of our life experience but we should try no to be victims of it. If you don't try then you only have yourself to blame.

I certainly agree with that, but at the same time we don't get to deny or silence a person's experience as that may well play a part in their behaviour. That's why talking on peoples behalf in telling them that it's ridiclous if they feel alientated and the like isn't helpful. I wouldn't ask a random person on the street what Hrolf The Ganger's experience of life is and how he feels. I would ask him.

I neither agree with people becoming victims, or with victimising groups of people. Ultimately if you stab someone for instance it's all on you and the rule of law kicks in. Whatever the cause and whatever violence surrounds you, you did it and you pay the price.


Edited by bilbo (11 Nov 2015 9.03pm)


Lets be precise. I told you you were being ridiculous for suggesting that the problem is alienation.

I didn't say it was 'the problem'. Our actual words suffice. I said "People feeling alientated from the mainstream likely contributes too" because that is sometimes what communities tell us. You are saying that peoples experience of their own lives are invalid if you deem it to be "ridiculous" with no input from those whose lives we're talking about. You'd previously said "I don't think any one should reasonably be feeling left out."

Great, these are your views of other peoples life experiences. That's fine. My view is that someones view of their own life is important too and that you don't get to speak for their experience. Again I don't ask random black people how Ganger should feel about life. I ask you, and you're very clear in your focus on minorities.

Edited by bilbo (11 Nov 2015 9.44pm)

 

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Quote bilbo at 11 Nov 2015 9.39pm

Quote Hrolf The Ganger at 11 Nov 2015 9.13pm

Quote bilbo at 11 Nov 2015 8.58pm

Quote Hrolf The Ganger at 11 Nov 2015 8.50pm

Quote bilbo at 11 Nov 2015 7.38pm

Quote Kermit8 at 11 Nov 2015 7.29pm

Quote Hrolf The Ganger at 11 Nov 2015 7.02pm

Quote Kermit8 at 11 Nov 2015 5.18pm

Unless they are sociopathic from day one vicious people aren't born brutal. They become warped. How?

Edited by Kermit8 (11 Nov 2015 5.19pm)

I'm thinking, as Jamie is suggesting,that violent behavior is learned behavior. We can all be violent of course but when one group are far more violent that another then it has to be down to cultural and parental influences. That could be from a lack of father figure or a bad father leading to more influence from gangs full of the same type of messed up people. It's seems to be a generational issue.

Edited by Hrolf The Ganger (11 Nov 2015 7.03pm)


That would seem logical but then again I watched the Windrush documentary. Those invited immigrants in the late forties early fifties were obviously decent non-violent folk who were here to work, serve their mother country and live family lives.

Something went badly wrong from the beginning for them.

Well since any discussion at all on their place in a wider society is deemed as blaming 'evil white men', we instead have to say whatever it is, is entirely their own fault. Case closed then.

Edited by bilbo (11 Nov 2015 7.39pm)

Well you certainly can't always blame everyone else for your behaviour.
We are all products of our life experience but we should try no to be victims of it. If you don't try then you only have yourself to blame.

I certainly agree with that, but at the same time we don't get to deny or silence a person's experience as that may well play a part in their behaviour. That's why talking on peoples behalf in telling them that it's ridiclous if they feel alientated and the like isn't helpful. I wouldn't ask a random person on the street what Hrolf The Ganger's experience of life is and how he feels. I would ask him.

I neither agree with people becoming victims, or with victimising groups of people. Ultimately if you stab someone for instance it's all on you and the rule of law kicks in. Whatever the cause and whatever violence surrounds you, you did it and you pay the price.


Edited by bilbo (11 Nov 2015 9.03pm)


Lets be precise. I told you you were being ridiculous for suggesting that the problem is alienation.

I didn't say it was 'the problem'. Our actual words suffice. I said "People feeling alientated from the mainstream likely contributes too" because that is sometimes what communities tell us. You are saying that peoples experience of their own lives are invalid if you deem it to be "ridiculous" with no input from those whose lives we're talking about. You'd previously said "I don't think any one should reasonably be feeling left out."

Great, these are your views of other peoples life experiences. That's fine. My view is that someones view of their own life is important too and that you don't get to speak for their experience. Again I don't ask random black people how Ganger should feel about life. I ask you, and you're very clear in your focus on minorities.

Edited by bilbo (11 Nov 2015 9.44pm)

Calm down Bilbo. This is not personal, it's just a discussion. Your sniping accusatory tone is getting a bit boring. I don't know how other people feel but I do know that many people will blame everybody else and tell what a s*** life they have given the chance.

 

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Quote Hrolf The Ganger at 11 Nov 2015 9.57pm

Quote bilbo at 11 Nov 2015 9.39pm

Quote Hrolf The Ganger at 11 Nov 2015 9.13pm

Quote bilbo at 11 Nov 2015 8.58pm

Quote Hrolf The Ganger at 11 Nov 2015 8.50pm

Quote bilbo at 11 Nov 2015 7.38pm

Quote Kermit8 at 11 Nov 2015 7.29pm

Quote Hrolf The Ganger at 11 Nov 2015 7.02pm

Quote Kermit8 at 11 Nov 2015 5.18pm

Unless they are sociopathic from day one vicious people aren't born brutal. They become warped. How?

Edited by Kermit8 (11 Nov 2015 5.19pm)

I'm thinking, as Jamie is suggesting,that violent behavior is learned behavior. We can all be violent of course but when one group are far more violent that another then it has to be down to cultural and parental influences. That could be from a lack of father figure or a bad father leading to more influence from gangs full of the same type of messed up people. It's seems to be a generational issue.

Edited by Hrolf The Ganger (11 Nov 2015 7.03pm)


That would seem logical but then again I watched the Windrush documentary. Those invited immigrants in the late forties early fifties were obviously decent non-violent folk who were here to work, serve their mother country and live family lives.

Something went badly wrong from the beginning for them.

Well since any discussion at all on their place in a wider society is deemed as blaming 'evil white men', we instead have to say whatever it is, is entirely their own fault. Case closed then.

Edited by bilbo (11 Nov 2015 7.39pm)

Well you certainly can't always blame everyone else for your behaviour.
We are all products of our life experience but we should try no to be victims of it. If you don't try then you only have yourself to blame.

I certainly agree with that, but at the same time we don't get to deny or silence a person's experience as that may well play a part in their behaviour. That's why talking on peoples behalf in telling them that it's ridiclous if they feel alientated and the like isn't helpful. I wouldn't ask a random person on the street what Hrolf The Ganger's experience of life is and how he feels. I would ask him.

I neither agree with people becoming victims, or with victimising groups of people. Ultimately if you stab someone for instance it's all on you and the rule of law kicks in. Whatever the cause and whatever violence surrounds you, you did it and you pay the price.


Edited by bilbo (11 Nov 2015 9.03pm)


Lets be precise. I told you you were being ridiculous for suggesting that the problem is alienation.

I didn't say it was 'the problem'. Our actual words suffice. I said "People feeling alientated from the mainstream likely contributes too" because that is sometimes what communities tell us. You are saying that peoples experience of their own lives are invalid if you deem it to be "ridiculous" with no input from those whose lives we're talking about. You'd previously said "I don't think any one should reasonably be feeling left out."

Great, these are your views of other peoples life experiences. That's fine. My view is that someones view of their own life is important too and that you don't get to speak for their experience. Again I don't ask random black people how Ganger should feel about life. I ask you, and you're very clear in your focus on minorities.

Edited by bilbo (11 Nov 2015 9.44pm)

Calm down Bilbo. This is not personal, it's just a discussion. Your sniping accusatory tone is getting a bit boring. I don't know how other people feel but I do know that many people will blame everybody else and tell what a s*** life they have given the chance.

I'm perfectly calm and I don't care if you find my contributions boring. You get to have your say, and I have mine.. Or would you like to talk on behalf of me too?

Edited by bilbo (11 Nov 2015 10.24pm)

 

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